Adjoining Laowang is off the rails, one big what his wife and he makes a noise in the morning is very fierce, this thinking is make a row only just, who knows his wife to make the issue that hurt whose actually, the purpose commits suicide. She says my help sb to get over his worries unapt still such him harm, not be to let Laowang and that woman take petty gain so. Laowang begged me not to say at the same time, be in at the same time won't place arrange. Laowang's wife listens my this word is right, come down calmly, old king of compose a quarrel calculates this Zhang again.
In this incident, what we can see Laowang from which is off the rails to him the body and mind of the wife caused very great harm.
Always be meeting somebody doubt, why off the rails now incident is so frequent, those who face a sweetheart is off the rails, we should how can a bit more rational treatment? You may say: The sweetheart is off the rails, return reason to treat? Is roistering still true husband and wife then? But no matter,I feel how " roister " , the method that also cannot use the person security that injures oneself and harm another person will treat a sweetheart off the rails incident. This can cause this tragedy not just, more beside meeting embroil innocent person.
The man is off the rails can cause very great harm to the woman.
1. accredit is destroyed thoroughly. Accredit is marriage is able to put for a long time in the foundation, once be destroyed, marriage can turn husband and wife into the war that mutual jealousy suspects each other, contradiction upgrades ceaselessly, also begin to move toward destruction to final marriage.
The change that 2. love watchs. Woman at the beginning to marriage it is to be full of what hope and look forward to, what just change after oneself try hard ceaselessly and be paid is a sweetheart however betray, the marriage that this lets her feel happy was full of disappointment and unwilling, begin to think love is paid even finally is to betray.
3. safety feels devoid. Although love greatly that he already change one's views, but the distrustful man of woman or meeting deepness loves him greatly no longer, what can feel everything present is him even is falsehearted, couplet thinks up infinite daydream: Off the rails and other woman, with another her apparently severed. . . . . . Although he is beside, but do not have safe feeling however.
4. once love is denied. "The man does not love him, so he just is met off the rails. " after the man is off the rails, that person meets such wanting normally. Also accordingly, the hand that oneself are arresting a man forcibly also at job of no help. The meeting in the heart is repeating tell oneself, he won't be in like or love me, such marriage awaits me have endless anguish only.
He after 5. is off the rails does not have true him correction. Chose to return to a family after the man is off the rails, the woman can believe a man or love oneself, but his heart is absent picture pure in that way before like oneself, love me to perhaps show consideration for more more because of what he did not behave. Because this meeting feels the man is done not have,also change oneself essentially, choose to come back, a form that this is man change one's views only just.