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Divorce rate of these a few years is rising, marry rate drop all the time. Late childbirth of marry at a mature age has become popularity, three years old did not marry catch a big. Marrying is not the requisite of modern any more, modern should seek freedom and independence, is not the cage that locks up his into marriage. So called big surplus female, big surplus male also more and more be accepted by others. Now marriage the conflict that love, the times is brought up, be social progress more is inevitable.
Become marrying is life no longer to need option, everybody can be obtained happier. I know a big surplus female Xiaomei of 37 years old, in eye of older generation person, she is long-standing, should marry did not go out. Mention her, adult always shakes shake one's head, feel she is too miserable. Actually these are bias, small Mei Yi's individual passes so that do not carry to have many easygoing.
Before paragraph time has a meal together with her, I ask her: "Do you have plan marriage? " small Mei Xiaoxiao says: "I just do not want to marry, I want to pass all one's life with money only. " said us to burst out laughing. Tell the truth, present life condition compares Xiaomei really a few married should come comfortably with age person, she has her studio, annual income does not poor, she bought her house and car, at ordinary times the life is very rich, eat with 35 friends besides the job eat and drink drink. She although 37 years old, but maintain very well, look very young. One has money to have the woman that the career becomes independent again, still need marriage?
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Why the person previously always is marry to lay a major issue when the grow upping, because that times matter is not rich, two individual union just can reduce life cost, the risk of collective and counteractive life. Can be this times, social progress rises have infinite possibility, everybody wants to go all out in work to be able to have his position only. What everybody wants to go after is not marriage, however happy.
If can encounter right person to marry to also go, if did not encounter single may as well. Resembling Xiaomei is such, a few paragraphs of love also had talked before, but every arrive marry eve talks about collapse. Xiaomei does not think anxious take anxious a place of strategic importance marriage, and those her predecessor want always however to marry. The demand of two people is diverse, going to part company is automatical. To Xiaomei, so old go all out in work hard all the time career, good accomplish today's height not easily, she abandons these impossibly for the family.
To the woman, the hard to avoid after entering marriage needs to spend more time and energy. Xiaomei does not devote oneself to this, she wants to pursue bigger career. To be the same as for age person, a lot of people are talking about child husband nursery school, and what Xiaomei talks about is political economic trend. Of course this is both can not compare a gender, what have each each is good, what also have each each is bad, but lone with married life condition it is completely different.
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Before paragraph time, somebody introduced a boy or girl friend to Xiaomei, opposite party is smaller than her 4 years old. Two people just met, does if was together to be willing to go,the other side ask Xiaomei his city works? Xiaomei on the spot with respect to decline. Then the other side asks again: How do you solve the problem that different ground loves then? Xiaomei feels very funny, this has not talked about this problem together.
In marriage love a relation in, the woman is like is that part that can serve as sacrifice. If be different ground,love, the outside more those who expect is the woman can arrive the city of the other side, person of the need in the home takes care of the child, also be to want a woman to abandon a career. So this also is why more and more women do not want to marry, for the family for the child, sacrifice a lot of, what in the end changes still is all in vain, worth while?
Present marriage even more not stable, the woman also does not have safe feeling more and more, the temptation of the outside lives much, the man perhaps ceased to be faithful which days. Control all stake on body of the other side with its, still be inferior to making money well, realize oneself independence, did not have how many wind and rain so without giving thought to, the force that still can depend on oneself goes keeping out. Present woman even more mix formidably independent, marriage has been requisite no longer to them. If marriage cannot give a woman better life, marry what to sense still have?
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37 years old of big surplus female open-armed word: I do not want to marry, I want to pass all one's life with money only. To Xiaomei this age is returned for lone woman, marry it is so important to do not have, but it is very important to have money, had money to be able to let his pass weller, the uncertainty of OK also and counteractive more life. Big surplus female not so terrible, terrible is those oneself do not have ability to stand not only again, wanting to rely on a man to change the woman of the destiny only.
A woman has youth merely fine-looking be no good, what get a man in short-term internal energy probably is favorite, but can love bursa of a skin without the man all one's life. Want to get happiness, either stare at the eye on man body, want ceaseless him promotion however, let oneself have happy capacity. Arrived now, it is less important that the knot does not marry, how letting his pass more happily just is crucial place.
I am happy to see more women rise formidably, a day is contended for in this world and man, is to be inside fuel not merely him fritter away. Life is him after all, everybody has him right to want how to spend lifetime. Single may as well, marry, wanting happy pleasure is best life.
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