We can discover, some schoolboys can go up to stop the woman student so that to one's heart's content laughs in small letter, and have a few, can awkward chat by force and awkward silence at an occasion, is this why ah? Want to have a good chatting flow, above all you must understand these a few reasons.
What is the first truth? Actually ah, the schoolgirl chats with you, this atmosphere is enthusiastic it may not be a bad idea, cool it may not be a bad idea, reply you are fast it may not be a bad idea, slow it may not be a bad idea, it is normal. Do not complain.
He why not enthusiastic? Why not is the second answered? Why to pay no attention to you directly? Request, it is you look for him actively to chat, saying straight white spot, he should give you the response only is a better signal. Not too be swayed by considerations of gain and loss, when chat, want to hold frequency, a little glad, remember must ending a topic, because of too much person, he is blindly go having blind faith in chatting skill, feel those who chat is glad. With respect to death go down a little, the topic that discovers later period as a result did not follow to go up, that occasion immediately awkwardness rises, so ah, chat when you glad, be about to restrain oneself, should end a topic. Let him have a kind of one intention still unexhausted feeling, otherwise he is right the next time chat to do not have any expectation.
What is the 2nd truth? The schoolgirl pays no attention to you, also do not represent do not like you, but your Chan Liaojiang chats. Regular meeting reduces your appeal, before the schoolgirl was not being attracted by you, accompany you to chat without obligation, even if was attracted by you, the family may is in busy, what reason do you have to blame a family again?
Information did not see when you are busy, come back to look next, wanting to explain, the result received the information with one interrogatory caboodle, how does the meeting in your heart think? Can you feel this person also does not have quality too? And so the schoolboy of vitreous heart. She won't miss even the friend to be done with you, remember, chatting purpose is to invite about, the relation is only among real life ability upgrades, ceaseless go chatting only, the concern that can allow you then slowly enter one Duan Youyi area.
The 3rd, why do you feel to always cannot find a topic? This kind of problem appears very easily actually, because be among daily life, the side focal point that the schoolgirl pays close attention to is different. And when everybody is chatting, hope to chat more a few oneself are good at, give oneself the space of a few expression more, if that schoolboy likes, the problem has, resembling is sports, football, basketball. Resembling is politics, sino-US and bilateral relationship, economy, the military affairs is waited a moment.
What does if that schoolgirl likes, the problem have? Recreation, where is news of the Eight Diagrams? Popular put together art program, for instance, new of one season run male ah, constellation is waited a moment.
If we this moment is topic setting set, small Chengdu He Xiaojiang comes out to date. So what the topic that does not agree can cause these two people is antipathetic, small say by force with small Chengdu, saw NBA do not have yesterday, chivalric counterattack gains the championship, xiaorong says, hum, quite good, is division comparing in that team? If small Chengdu also is interested in basketball, so two individual nature can speak with fervor and assurance, but most schoolgirl can pay close attention to a ball not quite kind motion. This topic is in at the beginning open when had proclaimed end.
Xiaorong says, song Zhong radical came to China to open a concert yesterday. Small strong answer, be? Is he a star? This is same argument. If a topic, one party needs to explain carefully, other one party just understands, that basically does not have what to continue to communicate the sense that go down, what is settlement way? When you do not know to want what to talk about, we can try, the topic of door leaf of those heart of easier prize schoolgirl, e.g. constellation ah, cate, pet, the journey is waited a moment,
