The child says before us " the right of free choice " , without giving thought to,not be pair of child indulge, the child is returned to the thing of the outside is not to master completely, thinking still is not very mature when, need parents' seasonable proposal, still want him child to choose finally, believe the child can make right choice.
When I remember on my son one year, say with me suddenly, he should go up in the future " Ha Fu " , I feel I was stupefied near one minute at that time, excitement is being accompanied open-eyed, cannot of believe look at him, I feel my thought is like backwater, do not know the son has so old ambitious ideal so. Next I smile embraced him, ask he says, son, the target is about hard, what university do you think then? The son is very ringing say: Tsinghua. Wow, so he knows this is a method, next I and son checked Baidu, let him see him want to make what preparation, it is achievement tries quality even not merely. When the child has him cause, we should guide him what to notice, make him little take roundabout way, but training or must, fight defeat force, adversity business also must want promotion in child lifetime.
As parents, the proposal that gives the child must say, no matter whether can be he understood, at least he can have impression. Also should rear the child " ambition, not " ambition " the child does not have ambition, without the dream, perhaps say to the dream also does not believe he can come true, so " ambition " the desire that acts namely, the view that can allow the child is broader, want to be encouraged in time to the child's progress and effort, self-confidence is full of on the way that allows the child to lay a target in implementation people on one's own side, not awe-stricken any bramble, brave before row, we want to see this ability.
How to help the child, parents needs to learn, those Yo before you experience has been used not quite in the child that faces new era, also do not have too big effect, set oneself an example to others surpasses thousands of words, oneself make the child's model, the child can become your pride in the future.
