"The person is poor not hole 3 people, do not have money not to touch 3 affection, frustrated do no

Life is alive, that has what thing to wish like your place, at every turn is successful, always have case have fall, have complacent when, have frustrated when. What we should accomplish is complacent when not overbearing, frustrated when do not abandon dispiritedly, be in especially our life trough when, when we are destitute, when doing not have money, frustrated and abjection when, must remember a word of ancestor: "The person is poor not hole 3 people, do not have money not to touch 3 affection, frustrated do not make 3 foolish " , record ancestor advice sincerely!

One, the person is poor not hole 3 people

1, not hole the person of those who have the same illness sympathize with each other

The person of those who have the same illness sympathize with each other encounters with us namely about the same, it is a body place is destitute in, in the trough period of life, need a person to encourage us to walk out of predicament more, and the person of those who have the same illness sympathize with each other, have the same feeling greatly, should care each other and help, urge opposite party, when it is the most difficult to be walked out of jointly, is not loot a burning house, entrap they, besides lies right now life is miserable period, can you entrap again what?

2, not hole old person and child

Old person and child, weak force group is in our eye, the ability of their resolution dispute is too weak, be in an unfavorable situation very easily be duped, such business often reports on news, such person does not have conscience namely, without moral bottom line, the person is again poor, also cannot do such business, whose home does not have old person and child, the choice entraps such person, won't have good cable, the person is making a day looking, early social evening builds him go in.

3, not hole close friends

The person is in destitute when, need the encouragement of close friends' spirit and materially and support more, some people meet those who use others to sympathize with a heart, will earn close friends' compassion, go entrapping they. What you entrap is money not only, more entrapped close affection and friendship, entrapped accredit. Person poor keep in mind is not poor, also want to have the principle that oneself are an upright person and bottom line thoroughly again, entrapped these people, come and go to person of last neither one and you, this is foolish practice.

2, do not have money not to touch 3 affection

1, do not touch according to raise affection

Be an upright person should have integrity, want to have self-esteem, cannot do not have money because of oneself, abjection look down on oneself, without the subsist of dignity, the almsgiving that goes relying on others lives, can let others only so more look down upon you. The almsgiving of others also is temporary only, if nurturance such habit, can let oneself become more degenerate only, can lose the power of effort, lose struggling way, can cross only finally poorer, cannot walk out of predicament.

2, do not touch wine flesh affection

What is true friend? It is the reachs aid hand that when we need to help they grudge none. And beside us, classics regular meeting has a few fair-weather friend, when we are complacent, after the horse before look up, at sb's beck and call, but when us frustrated when doing not have money, they showed real features immediately, the friendly feelings before they won't scruple at all, be far from you however, even some still can mock you, the person that hit a person when he is down also is to often have. When doing not have money only, who we just can see just is us beside true friend.

3, do not touch cheap affection

When the person is poor, can let a person look down on, a lot of people can be far from us, fear we are pestering them to lend money, it is to leave Yue Yuanyue is well, right now we are stood by must not, also do not talk to go up gain extra advantage unfairly. But if have such good work really, so we noticed with respect to this, perhaps this is a decoy, waiting for us to be deceived, if be duped right now, that is one disaster after another undoubtedly, have very hard again turn over when.

3, frustrated do not make 3 foolish

1, do not be stupid to feeling

The person is in frustrated when, also be mood lowest when falling, resemble abreacting at that time the unpleasantness of own heart. Some people can take feeling to say a thing, disregard the feeling of the other side, make the issue of the other side of a few harm, finish after such hooey, often meet two weepy, afterthought not is reached. We are in the more frustrated when, what should hold head more is sober, the emotion that does not take oneself will joke.

2, do not be stupid to oneself

When some people are frustrated, begin to be stupid to oneself, begin him humiliate, can make oneself more degenerate only so, think oneself are really trashy. Be in the more this moment, we should learn to control our more, always let oneself keep sober, be stupid to oneself the more, do a few businesses that hurt oneself, can let oneself only more lose, more painful.

3, do not be stupid to family

Frustrated when, the mood is very bad, can look for a place to abreact then. A lot of people can take his family, should become the target that abreact, outside after malty wine, in returning the home, begin to make fun of wine mad, be mischievous pretty tangles, do so that the family does not get quiet, life is not gotten originally meaning, need family more comfort the support that still has them, such is stupid, harm them, how give the heart to