Shenyang city psychology studies place investigation and study discovers when teenage criminal record, childhood is mistreated by spirit is very main factor.
They find 6 teenager offender that are in Shenyang detention house, let them relate them story.
A few boys of 16 years old, mention in those days the scene that parents treats him, appear very heavy.
When a child says 12 years old, pa Mom parted. Not be his fault obviously, the mother often scolds him however, let him go dead.
Most a word that often hears is, say oneself are trashy, it is trash.
Do not have boast to cross his, scold him most, it is pig brain, pig brain, pig brain... here, the child taps a head helplessly with the hand, seem to suspect, such really.
Perhaps their parents never has thought, these words, can drive the child, be on guilty road.
Have such a few terms, the deepest to the child's harm, of parenting you, had spoken of.
"Pig brain " " trash " " know to eat " " lose face " " it is a person stronger than you " " how to go dead " ...Psychology considers to show, to 6 years old of children before, often say the word of a few life, make its form inactive negative character easily, produce self-abased, indrawn, blue psychology, and fear to get along with the person.
Want to understand, all languages are violent, do not have component of the least bit education. Because of us this is to be in substantially, swashbuckling, abreact oneself anger and complaint.
Long odds is treated, can let child sense be cold-shouldered by parents, think oneself are trashy really, abandonment even.
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