Obviously the two people when love are so happy and happy, why to discover each other disposition shoulds not however after marriage, produce brawl or contradiction easily?
Our regular meeting hears in the life or be to see, husband and wife divorces because of the reason that disposition shoulds not, so why love when without this kind of circumstance, after marrying however instead, just discover? Actually, this problem is very good reply, it is to have what kind of problem without giving thought to when love, always meet be masked by sweet love place, be in till marriage hind slowly what disposition disagreement problem just discovers in getting along is serious.
, the spouse ability of disposition close gets along well, and is the husband and wife with disparate disposition inextricability? Actually otherwise, get along between husband and wife, do not depend on disposition whether identical, close or different, depend on however how to get along between husband and wife. After all bosom friend encountering went one case, be about to maintain the relationship between good husband and wife, build the family of sweet happiness.
Institutional conversion thinks
Conversion of should much society thinks between husband and wife, any one party cannot force his apiration to the other side, again good-tempered person is oppressed for long so, be afraid also meet cruel go. Dissolve brawl and contradiction to need institutional conversion is known to think between husband and wife, the feeling that oneself say so that whether has the word, thing that do missed opposite party, had considered for the other side, there is opposite party constantly in the heart, won't appear naturally to contradict needlessly.
Include and respect
Our everybody is one differs, exclusive individual, there is the person of two just the sames on the world. Say so, disposition differs is not what evildoing certainly, also not be to say disposition shoulds not to cannot defend lifetime. Still have even if want mutual respect, the everybody in marriage is equal, while demand the other side makes a change, oneself also should make change and compromise for the other side. Institutional esteem, only such, two individual ability stand in same on height, ability achieves equality completely, ability mutual appreciate, understand each other, mutual love.
Learn sober processing
Between husband and wife, no matter encounter any problems, can solve processing, the key depends on wanting to handle an issue calmly, do not quarrel endlessly, always also do not turn over old Zhang, went in the past, consider sth as it stands, do not want drag in other. Cannot all the day hold tight is worn those things are not put, do not give the other side good look, or be talk about this thing in side of side of the other side all the day. Go down for a long time, do not be troubled by contradictory ability to blame. So, we should learn to handle everything calmly.
Serious communication is communicated
The immediate consequence that disposition disagreement may cause is unending brawl, but the communication communication that still depends on both sides of husband and wife lacking sincerity at all actually. Effective communication can remove quickly the misunderstanding between husband and wife, dissolve contradiction thereby. Often should undertake be communicationed effectively between husband and wife, let communicate activator of the affective in becoming marriage, estrangement of melt husband and wife, make the feeling between husband and wife more sweet, the help consolidates the fort of love.
The disposition of the everybody on the world is different, strong weak level is different also, ability can bring about marital family to always meet some contradict, face these contradiction, the key is between Yu Fu wife on the confluence on the idea, disposition adjust. Can include each other understanding, be paid each other and support, mutual respect and be thankful, also have mutual compromise and concession at the same time. So, believe husband and wife between get along regular meeting is very harmonious and perfect.
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We will be you in feeling most dutiful proponent.
