According to insurgent news, recently " luxurious does become a common practice of 10 years old of birthday do how? An elementary school president of Nanjing caused open letter fire of the parent " one article is brushed explode friend circle, also caused the resonance of many parents at the same time. And the reporter investigates discovery, demand of market of banquet of birthday of Taiyuan city children is at present exuberant, if the word according to estimation of 100 people repast, clique of birthday of a theme is in 50 thousand yuan or so to average consumption.
The excessive of a person of extraordinary powers of children birthday banquet, exceed imagination. The cartoon arched door with hotel tall entrance, gigantic a photo picture, grow long red carpet from the door outside outspread all the time to preside a stand, if do not see the picture that broadcasts circularly on screen, a few meters balloon and flower arch allow every other the illusion that the person has a kind to enter bridal spot by accident. The parent still can ask to make photo, film small film, it is not to have man-machine to film even, banquet of a birthday is beautiful of 100 thousand have.
To this phenomenon, parents as usual is follow suit one pair from shape of numerous, have no alternative. The parent said, "The effect that the child suffers surroundings is bigger. Once there was the child to open a head on the class, everybody can learn accordingly. If the school and parent do not try to guide, the wind that can vie finally only is more and more serious. " the meaning below its character: This is a race that stops no less than coming at all completely, who stops first who is defeated, with respect to LOW? Just, need asks is, in this matter, were parents acted after all why to plant part, play why to plant action? Not be to guide children to form independent judgement, correct acknowledge, what indulge them without the bottom line however is capricious, this where has the look of a bit parenting.
The children with still diseased intelligence, more just is in " imitate adult " just. Do birthday party greatly, entertain guests accept a gift, these are the gregarious means of typical adult world. Children be influenced by what one constantly sees and hears, as time passes also " the heart is unripe yearning " . When parents but sigh with emotion by be involved in of children capricious, should think over more, oneself were done enough set an example well, give the child establish at the beginning oneself correct " 3 view " . After all, never teach bad child, some is the parent that won't teach only.
