Child err after the event, the parent always advises in earnest to give out to suggest or give little criticism, but the child always is not buy it, the again and again is making same mistake, is this why?
1, " I do not know my where is wrong! 1, " I do not know my where is wrong!!
Some children age is small, physiology psychology development is immature still, characteristic of child physiology psychology causes these.
Miseducation means: Take no account of the child's savvy.
Reprimand " you are really stupid " " you are really trashy " , the proper pride that hurts the child not only also cannot get educational result.
Teach way correctly: Tell the child how to should be done.
Point out him clearly what respect is done incorrectly, offer specific guidance, and should have patience, because,do not want 9 do not understand, the parent gets angry.
2, " acknowledge a mistake too lost face, I do not admit! I do not admit!!
Some child disposition are more stubborn, some is the habit that did not acknowledge a mistake.
Miseducation means: Promiscuous child dispute is watched.
A few parents develop acknowledge a mistake habit of the child without the attention, parent of child err thing often undeserved bout thing, end up with nothing definite, parent of one occurrence problem looks for excuse to the child with respect to busy move, these wrong action meet indulgent child nurturance lies the behavior habit that hide.
Teach way correctly: Help child admits his mistake.
The parent should act on the manner of be practical and realistic above all, the fault that who is is whose fault, do not help the child look for excuse, lest promiscuous child dispute is watched. Encourage the child to tell the truth namely again, tell the child with lenient attitude: "Err finishs sth want brave to change to the ground admits his mistake and be willing to correct only not at all, it is good child. " point out at the same time: "Doing bad thing not to agree to admit again is the fault is added on the fault! " when after the child expresses to acknowledge a mistake, should affirm his progress in time, help the child analyse a fault where to be next, coach how the child should be done, let him learn a lesson from which, lay next foundations for correct henceforth behavior.
3, " I am wrong, how should pa Mom punish me to do? How should pa Mom punish me to do??
Fear after the event of thing of err of a few children gets penalty, be forced to use lie or refus is not acknowledge a mistake the fault that will conceal oneself.
Miseducation means: Beat and scold namely besides punish.
A few parents return believe in to wear " bludgeon type is taught " , can let the child generate fear only so, because fear,they acknowledge a mistake is only because know him where err, is not.
Teach way correctly: The front teachs drive him.
Must not stand high above the masses ground rebuke child, err with what a kind of good-tempered and gentle state of mind goes treating the child behavior. Although the child is small, but also have his independence desire, also have proper pride. Did bad thing when the child, the parent with sober and tolerant state of mind, undertake communication with the child, understand him why to be done so, analyse the reason of err thing together with the child.
