Author: Water is wooden
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Once, confucius told a truth to Yan Hui:
One is betted in the bureau, what is the thing that decides victory or defeat?
Actually both neither is skill, also not be luck, however the chip in of your game time!
Why?
Somebody takes common tile when ante; He is betted freely is chicly, because do not care about this tile, so not urgent not impetuous, slow and steady.
Somebody takes high area to hook when ante; What he bets is gingerly; Because total concern takes enough play away so the heart puts fear, hands or feet is stranded.
And those take gold to become the person of ante, in bet bureau when beginning, with respect to consciousness raddled, its ending cans be imagined!
Because of him too care about each ending, be swayed by considerations of gain and loss, bearing and boldness are devoid!
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Actually, a lot of people always are defeated now, always do not go to give difficult position, because be manacled by the thing in him hand,be.
When I had seen a lot of people talk his product, relapse say a product how how good, from material expect charge for the making of sth. , arrive from the price service, how frequently the other product on market is a lot of better, but sell namely do not go out, why?
Because decide to produce those who taste value, not be product itself at all, however the thing besides the product. Drink Maotai for instance really to drink that wine? Is queueing up to sell happy tea for a cup of tea really? If cannot put no less than products to talk about a product, meet forever bedding bag goes out not to come in the product, jump over defect deeper.
Same argument, a lot of people come up to promote a thing to you, want pressingly to sell you the product, at best of this kind of person is a member that sell, truly fierce sale is to put down a sale to talk about a sale, imperceptible in sell you the thing, still let you feel you occupied appropriate of a defecate, draw over your heart, dig you further thereby.
Other domain also is such, the stylist at best that ask for a favor talks about a design is a common member that design, ask for a favor engineers expert at best with respect to what talk about a plan is a minor expert, because control truly the person of some skill, won't be manacled by skill already, they can arrive directly at essence, become major straightaway.
Be like a true dignitary, he if channel inspires you, affirmation won't explain cramped lection to you, lift however beside the simplest case, pour water to drink water for instance, let your satori between Tan Xiao.
So, all things on the world, two parts are comprised, one share sees so that see, it is corporeal, embryo of every of each naked eye can see. Another part is invisible, it is aeriform, need is experienced with heart ability, needed you to put down what ability feels to come out, and just of this part thing just is the most valuable that one part!
The highest state no more than of life two words: Put down. If can put down a product to make a product, drop business deal, put down a plan to make a plan, succeeded.
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Wu Xuezhong has an adage, cry: Cruel hand forbids. Means: The heart jumps over the person of firm, move to forbid more. Because he always is firm,do not get at a draught deathtrap of park of the other side, so each action is killer mace. But the more such state of mind, make the vital part that forbids opposite party more.
Still have a case: A schoolboy recalls a woman student, care about a schoolgirl more, do not put more in the heart, do not chase after her more. Why? Because he is too conceivable the other side, so that do the purpose sex of each thing very strong. This brings about a girl to have a kind of feeling that is maintained by clip, subconscious in want to leave this schoolboy a bit further.
And the schoolboy that those can put down, be good at using " leave sb at large in order to apprehend him afterwards " method, this ability mastered the highway that recalls a woman student truly, they look keep sb at an arm's length, however sadly the heart of the woman student that hold.
Affection of a lot of human affairs is done bad, what grasp because of the thing in the hand namely is too close, always perhaps staring at a target to be not put, always do not put, so with reverence and awe, craven. "The clumsy inside the person that weigh outside every " , means: Jump over the person of the content outside valueing, the heart is certain and awakward.
Worldly all skill can learn, the person's ability and favorable circumstances are similar also, person and person's most crucial difference is state of mind!
Actually, if a person can be put down, put down in him that momently, all fast knot unlock, person also immediately awareness, mood immediately different, the methodological nature that solves a problem had!
But, the desire of modern is too strong, wish to have old fat person readily, even every time the opportunity regards as one night is upstart help straw. When facing all sorts of chances be swayed by considerations of gain and loss, have one's hands tied bundle foot, panic-stricken. Do not put more, lose more easily.
So, majority person was not to beat rival, defeated oneself however. Worldly much fails, was to be defeated actually " care " 2 words.
Humanness works, "Put down " namely most of administrative levels hold accuse, it is dominant the recipe of one shear bureau.
Put down a product to talk about a product, put down do poineering work talk do poineering work, put down ideal to talk about ideal, ability touchs truly essential problem, ability has " doubt of at the end of one's resources does not have a road, promising another village " feeling.
Every come to the person of this world, taking a collective aim: Beg a name to plan to make money. But if a person can put down heart of fame and gain, it is the best method that gain both honor and money.
Authorities person fan, the onlookers see most clearly, only him place oneself at the thing besides, what ability sees the thing is lucidder, face of ability play a game of chess holds more essence of life is accurate, ability has a kind of detached mental state, inspect if the flower blossoms,bestow favor on disgrace fall kind common, if fluctuate like cloud cirrus easy,inspect change.
Put down, all answers came.
