Each pairs of parents, it is the education that just discovers oneself after the child gave an issue the possibility gives an issue. Child occurrence problem, because parents is in,be more Yo in the process excessive severity, unidentified in, perhaps draft regulation unsharpness, child does not understand, final education failed.
One, certainly is Yo crucial
In the course that teachs the child, we should have been done " canal " and " religion " two words.
The canal is we should make sure the child is healthy not only it is OK to do not fall ill, had been in charge of oneself child even, manage and restrain the child's incorrect behavior.
Religion, it is we should tell the child how to be done correct is. Certainly is in namely reasonable regulation, let the child gain due freedom.
One has the father and mother of good certainly ability, often having sharper behavior reaction. Had behaved when the child, became correct after the event, parents gives support in time, encourage and praise, let the child in time experience affirmation and attention. Did bad thing when the child, parents should make clear a manner, tell the child this is to be prohibited, and illicit reason.
2, is the child not obedient how to do?
The person that became father and mother knows, not be every child the metropolis is darling and obedient. Face indocile child, a few action that suspend the child are one of more effective methods. Can force the child to accept so with parents interactive, communication. At that time you pass information to the child ability will be more businesslike, the effect is the most apparent. Law of this one party suits right-and-left cheeper 3 years old especially.
The time that suspends child action shoulds not be too long, control is in 10 seconds less than is most appropriate. This age paragraph the child has " forgetful " illness, be attracted very easily by other issue, forgot the thing that just produces, cannot contact your truth and the its generation cause and effect that just produce. After mom can pause a few seconds, with the means of inquiry revulsive child recollects the thing that just produces, tell the child behavior and result, such education just have the effect.
3, the note in certainly
In the process of certainly, what parents wants to always pay close attention to the change of child mood and behavior is unusual. If the way of certainly makes child pressure too great, the child can cry probably be troubled by a shriek, perhaps be atttacked and the happening from incomplete behavior.
Appear to avoid the child these a few kinds of bad reaction, the parent is OK first sober, also let child mood get be pacified, repass is communicated and the child is communicated. A good parents should know the method that examines his and attitude, amend ceaselessly. When teaching the child, ceaseless adjustment teachs way, just be good parents' due height.
4, Yo 8 faults that middling makes
1, parental requirement is strict, and persist unreasonably
2, the regulation that parents drafts to the child is unsharpness, without any direct imports.
3, parental opinion is skimble-scamble
4, parents is not clear to child development, the requirement is overmuch, response is sensitive.
5, wrong parents is consumptive disease of a word more the Tang Dynasty monk, vixenish.
6, parents asks to surmount child age, the child does not understand.
7, oversight child is healthy
8, problem of oversight child psychology.
