The child contacts mandarin and dialect at the same time, whether to learn? Can bring about pronunci

A lot of families are such:

Parents says mandarin, grandfather grandma says local word.

Or mom says mandarin, father says dialect.

The issue came, the child is to learn mandarin only, still follow dialect to learn together?

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If the child can say dialect, it is much that this is equivalent to " skill " .

But the problem is...

This can let the child arise " ground general word " oral speech soundvoice, the loss outweights the gain finally?

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"Ground general word " this word is I just am built come out, it is the synthetic word of local word and mandarin.

There is a real case beside.

The word says, after attending a college, the classmate comes from all corners of the land.

But, we like to listen to the fellow student with a very serious accent to talk particularly.

Talk because of him, our metropolis is happy, still laugh occasionally collywobbles.

"Grey machine ash rose! "Grey machine ash rose!!

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So old past, I still still remember this word that that good fellow student has said.

He " fly and grey " complete cent is not clear.

In this column the 8th:

" the story before sleeping is you guide the most important step of the child to do not have one of, miss missed "

In this article below, the parent quizs to me.

When at first view, I think this is small issue, but after thinking carefully, this ability discovers:

So this is a big question.

Because myself also has encountered this problem.

My circumjacent a lot of friends, they also encounter this problem in frequent ground.

Some other peoples, because processing is bad this problem, very big trouble and worry were brought on the accent that returns the child.

So, reply well today.

Same, to say this problem clear thoroughly, the one's words of my later development can be weighed quite likely.

But this is not this parent that is aimed at a query absolutely. Contrary, I thank his accredit to me very much.

The viewpoint of cold wood is:

In conditional family, let child learning mandarin as far as possible, learn mandarin only.

And dialectal (also call a place the word) , inchoate can not learn, later period says again.

The reason is as follows:

One, after the child works, can not be in certainly this locality, it is likely more in other city, big perhaps city.

At this moment, can say dialect, the meaning is not so big.

2, remove one condition, although later after the child graduates, return this locality when officeholder.

So, still say mandarin has an advantage.

The word says, elementary school when, my transfer to another city.

Result, I discover to have on the class so 78 girls, they say a sterling mandarin only.

And other girl, their class likes to say dialect when.

Do you guess the result how to be worn?

Very magical, true.

Indescribable, I say to those the girl of mandarin has good opinion particularly.

In the heart, I all the time on the sly is liking them.

That is to say, if the beautiful degree of a girl is 7 minutes, but the mandarin oral speech sound as a result of her is very pure, criterion...

Her sound can increase 1.5 minutes to her at least, bring about its " overall performance " promotion arrives 8.5 minutes.

This is really strange, why can I have this kind of mentality at that time?

Very simple:

Because of good-looking teleplay, film, still have news broadcast over a radio network, they are to say mandarin.

Do you say news broadcast to go up high greatly?

Lofty of course go up. And compere is so beautiful still, have temperament so.

So, if the life is medium, the mandarin of some girl says particularly well, my then also can think they also have temperament.

This moves typically namely affection effect.

Can, I had seen.

A few years ago, a friend of my native place, parents is to say mandarin, grandfather grandma says dialect only.

Have a meal once, the kids that I follow his home more than 3 years old says, as a result I discover:

The child says although also be mandarin, but have many I am understood not.

Next, the friend is forced to help oneself child become an interpreter by.

Then, the friend shakes shake one's head, say:

"Alas, the mandarin of my child is a problem. Do not know to go up how should do after nursery school. Do not know to go up how should do after nursery school..

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The likelihood has the parent to be able to say:

"Dialect of my home child can say, mandarin also can say, each other noninterference. Each other noninterference..

Right, some children have this capacity really.

But this does not represent all children such.

So, mandarin and local word learn together, can you produce oral speech sound of ground general word?

The answer is to meet. But some children can be overcome, some children are insuperable.

Reason, should learn together, you parent gets him to decide, because the risk is you,will assume.

Be like the child besides can say a sterling mandarin, return the dialect that can say 78 kinds of each district at the same time.

Do you say this is good? Arrogant?

"Good? " we do not say first. Say first " ox? Say first " ox??

For Yu Hanmu, do not feel skilled to 78 kinds of dialect are a very arrogant thing.

Contrary, if you are skilled language of 78 foreign countries, this ability is the ox forces.

Here, the parent can jump out to say: You this is to worship foreign things.

Not be absolutely.

Because you want meeting mandarin only, criterion you go to China anyplace, can free does not have block all right, only and fragmentary when can encounter so little is troublesome.

For instance the other side can say dialect only, and the other side also understands mandarin not.

Right now, the dialectal ability of meeting the other side can be shown so little advantage.

But this kind of setting, one the individual's lifetime, the likelihood also is encountered, or two.

For this kind exceeding and exiguous setting learns a dialect, that is really not be to one's profit.

But the word of foreign language of can much door, arrogant. Apply for a job after your child at least it is some easier to want, ?

Will look again " a child is met 78 kinds of dialect, after all good? After all good??

The result is bad still.

Because of cerebral capacity of the mankind, remembering a capacity is finite.

After an exceeding and costly bender passes, the following day, you lie on the bed, that woman that wearing red dress remembers only in cerebrum.

And the someone else on bender, you a bit impression was done not have.

Because your cerebra is complete by Nagong garment daughter was held. But actually...

On bender, that gentleman that surnames a horse also attended. If you chatted 5 minutes with him in the past at that time, the career that did not follow you got what is inspired.

This that is to say, learn a dialect to belong to " learn knowledge " category.

But human knowledge endless, it is the most important that so you must be carried, most the knowledge of core learns to the child.

No less than this our column:

" how to let your child fall in love with game of scientific and rather than "

Apparent, you are to be able to let your child fall in love with any.

Study inscriptions on bones or tortoise shells of the Shang Dynasty for instance.

Fall in love with the dress of each dynasty the ancients.

And the bowl that the ancients has a meal, how does each dynasty evolve.

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Some people learn somewhere dialectal, because do not want to be regarded as by the person of this place,that is " foreigner " .

Because if want deceit, native or apt are cheated and bully " foreigner " .

How to solve this problem?

This still does not have too good program really.

Faulty practice is:

If you discover the person of a certain place,always like to cheat foreigner.

Then you force you try hard a few, so that can escape this place, do not go to this place again as far as possible.

Another practice is:

Wait for the child grown manhood, after mandarin pronunciation is secured, learn probably casually again, good.

Apparent, any choices can have advantages and disadvantages, this problem does not have reason standard answer.

Because the answer is in your heart:

See you think, fraud still is benefit greatly big.

If dialect is a kind " " , of that mankind " " accumulate now, return early than Mount Everest tall.

Some local dish is particularly delicious, at this moment, you can think, on culture, this local dish is being represented " a root " .

Need inheritance goes down, because it is especially other delicious, we need, and irreplaceable.

And certain place, rural pump water uses " sprinkler " , need not serve as a root, because the efficiency of contemporary pump is it,go up thousandfold. Sprinkler has commemoration day only, save come down to view and admire a meaning for the person.

My individual feels:

The Chinese nation, China, Chinese, simplified Chinese characters is a root, namely this.

Have these core " " about the same.

Finally:

What is a root, what is this, this actually this is opposite.

If you settle to the United States, criterion the Chinese nation, china, Chinese is a root.

Cannot lose absolutely, who does lose foolish.

But if I am,settle to spark, from morning till night fools around together with Martian, criterion the earth and earthly person are a root.

" aerospace boundless " stage photo of person of star of medium baking temperature

And if I am,settle to Centaurus, criterion:

What earth person, martian, moon person, not how old of distinction, fellow-townsman is completely in my eye.

At this moment, solar system is my root.

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Is your discovery done not have?

Pass above example, you should can reach such rule, namely:

Inside your heart, "" bigger, representing you to go further.

Assume you had become solar system make a root.

It what that still has is good that what that still has say?

You already went up in the near neighbour star of Centaurus personally necessarily, all the day bright is crooked crooked.

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