(original title: The woman leaves 10 years, return to contend for marital death compensation with children however)
Have a common saying: Father loves to be like hill, mother love is like water, but in Su Qianshu to marrying 31 years old of in relief the Huaihe River bring a woman for Zhao Linzhen, in her memory never warm mother love. She and the little brother of wisdom barrier want to enjoy domestic warmth together with parents, but the mother drops them to run away from home before 10 years however, mother and other are informed to live together after 4 years, zhao Linzhen comes to request a mother to come home for many times, all be rejected.
Two years ago, father dies because of traffic accident, she and the mother of little brother suppliance that the uncle is bringing wisdom barrier come home, helping arrange a funeral affair, still be rejected by callosity. More those who let Zhao Linzhen be accepted hard is, in relatives and friends the help falls, her arrange is over father's funeral affairs before long, mother one paper indictment sister younger brother two and the grandfather of old tells a court, because traffic accident dies,the requirement breaks up father fund of acquisition nearly 600 thousand yuan of compensation. Through the Huaihe River the law that bring city helps legal aid of the center, forensic first instance adjudicates its mother does not take money, thinking stationary point money to will come to the mother in Zhao Linzhen when provide for the aged, this year on April 8, the mother appealed.
A piece of subpoena is informed run away from home maternal message
That was Autumn 2009, was about to spend the New Year, zhao Linzhen's mother purchases special purchases for the Spring Festival to the street, the special purchases for the Spring Festival that she and little brother are in an anxiously ground to longing for a mother to be bought can improve food ahead of schedule, but, dark, the mother also is done not have come back. Respecting is sad place, the Zhao Linzhen that already was 3 children mother does not conceal sad mood: "Her heart how so firm " .
Respecting is sad place, zhao Linzhen is painful very,
Why does she say she does not understand a mother to want so do?
Father sent mad look about, zhao Linzhen says, what make her afflictive especially is small she little brother of a year old, when the mother runs away from home, the little brother is 19 years old, but he one grade read 8 years continuously, belong to wisdom barrier, pestering her to want mom everyday, mom brains also has bit of problem, do coolie on building site at ordinary times. The grandfather that there still is old in the home, grandma needs to take care of, but Zhao Linzhen can be installed in the Huaihe River only around work, because of her often the dream is in to the mother leave home nearby. Just as one would expect, 2013, father receives forensic subpoena suddenly: The mother sues a divorce, this also test and verify her dream, the mother is in leave home the villages and towns of Ou Mou of shade of the Huaihe River that 20 kilometers control, more those who make her open-eyed is, before this, the mother also has sued a divorce, also do not know what reason, the mother nolled prosequi later.
According to the address that leaves on maternal indictment, bringing wisdom barrier little brother, after the mother runs away from home 4 years, zhao Linzhen sees a mother for the first time. "Live together with additionally one man, but can look reach, the time passes badly " , zhao Linzhen says, look in her, the main reason that the mother runs away from home is she and relation of grandma wife and mother more nervous. But when finding a mother, the grandma already died, be afraid that father is troubled by to the spot again irremediable, bringing a little brother for many times, cry even on the uncle persuades a mother to come home, but was rejected, reason is very simple, "The home that does not return surname Zhao gets along " . Zhao Linzhen says, the mother runs away from home so old, did not use up obligation of husband and wife to father, did not use up maternal obligation to wisdom barrier little brother, did not use up provide for obligation to the grandfather of old, she the money that how have the nerve wants to contend for father to take a life to be changed with us now.
Son of one paper indictment and daughter, wisdom barrier seizes gold
Journalist understands violet ox, the reason that mother of Zhao forest precious sues a divorce after running away from home 4 years is her suffer domestic force. Court of district of clear riverside of Yuan Huaian city is right current situation of reason of divorce of the feeling after the marital foundation of two people, marriage, requirement and spouse concern after undertaking integration analysis, confirm the feeling between two people have not burst, have the possibility of become reconciled, mother of Zhao forest precious sues divorce reason not to hold water, final court decision forbids to divorce.
Had this court decision, think the course is persuaded originally, the mother can come home, family round reunion is round, past grudge of slam the door lives together. Zhao Linzhen says, but things go contrary to one's wishes, the maternal mother family such as aunt mother, uncle even village cadre comes to persuade a mother to disable, call the police, proposal of police station comrade takes judicatory approach.
"I also have little family, also have the child, also husband's father and mother needs support " , zhao Linzhen tells a reporter, so old, come home to can let a mother, let what she does a daughter this also use up filial piety heart, she also is all of body and mind exhausted and without the result, there still is the little brother of wisdom barrier in together with home, she can be installed with the Huaihe River in Su Qian only rush about between two ground.
To take care of the little brother of wisdom barrier, husband and wife of Zhao forest precious also wants to taking him when building site works (in)
Unfortunate is, 2017, father of 56 years old encounters traffic accident, classics rescue is invalid die. "I go entreating her to see father last times to the hospital, she did not come " , respecting heart hurts pain spot, zhao Linzhen cries loudly, she says she already got married at that time, but she also had not experienced such major issue, she is muddled, go to cohabitational place of mother and other asking her to come back to help attend father funeral affairs, still was rejected by callosity. Be over in arrange after father funeral affairs, because parents does not have a divorce, the mother also did not get a marriage certificate with cohabitational man, the mother of grandfather along with of the little brother of Zhao Linzhen, wisdom barrier, old regards accuser general as cause trouble together square and insurance company tells a court.
In March 2018, the Huaihe River installs court of district of riverside of city clear river to adjudicate cause trouble just reachs insurance company to compensate for more than yuan 580 thousand. Journalist notices violet ox, in this lawsuit, the grandfather of younger brother of sister of Zhao forest precious and old invited worker of a law to serve as collective attorney, and Zhao Linzhen mother invites a lawyer to serve as an attorney alone. Common saying says one is not made the same score, one rises again, soon be related of death of father traffic accident already got be settlemented satisfactorily, lin Zhen letting Zhao only then expect not as good as is, she receives forensic subpoena very quickly, former mother asks to break up father death compensation as accuser.
First instance adjudicates
A minute of money does not take the mother
Father skeleton is not cold, run away from home old, outer the money that with other the mother of cohabitational life wants to break up father to be changed with the life with respect to rapid move. Furious, afflictive, zhao Linzhen installs center of rescue of law of area of riverside of city clear river to put forward law to help application to the Huaihe River. Be apart from sessional time to have 7 days only soon, law rescue center opens green channel, accept on the spot, and Zhu Yizhu of office of attorney of a gathering of things or people of assign Jiangsu gentleman, hold high two lawyers handle this case.
"No matter be,in early days investigation obtains evidence level, still be during sessional cognizance, serve as a female likewise, of the mother that I can see she is old to running away from home from inside Zhao Linzhen's eyes do not abandon " , the Zhu Yizhu's lawyer that is in charge of helping this case tells a reporter, zhao Linzhen states oneself and little brother expect to be mediated with the mother, see a mother as early as possible, hope the mother can come home, oneself are willing to continue to take care of a mother. Considering the characteristic of the case, unless as a last resort, do not want to use a court decision and make bilateral close affection thoroughly broken. Zhu Yizhu's lawyer tells a reporter, to take care of close affection, they put forward 3 times to mediate plan early or late, but all be rejected by Zhao Linzhen mother.
Prevenient hind in careful of two front courtyard, mother of Zhao forest precious all did not arrive front courtyard, zhao Linzhen expresses, the mother runs away from home 10 old, and outer with person cohabitational life, concern with father's husband and wife already exist in name only, she thinks the mother is non-privileged the dead compensation that breaks up father, if the court maintains a mother to authority is broken up, when requesting a court to be broken up in the court decision, considering the little brother of the grandfather of old, wisdom barrier, give a mother bits minute lesser. In front courtyard careful, the uncle that serves as a witness tells a judge, elder sister present living conditions is very poor, zhao Linzhen still should rely on to come after she became old provide for, so he also suggests not to divide money to give an elder sister. As a result of grandfather old, zhao Linzhen henceforth and the little brother that replaces father actually already to take care of wisdom barrier at present, the Huaihe River installs city Qing Dynasty court of river riverside district is integrated each respect element, in adjudicating compensation of more than yuan of 580 thousand death finally lawfully, zhao Linzhen and its grandfather obtain 170 thousand yuan respectively, the rest of the little brother of 240 thousand more than Yuan Guizhi barrier is all, a minute of money does not take mother of Zhao forest precious.
Taking this court decision, zhao Linzhen says, she won, but lost a mother however, lost close favour. She says, although the court sentences a mother one minute,money is not divided, but there is this Zhang in herself heart: No matter written guarantee finally if really how, whether is the mother willing to come back, two when belong to she and little brother, she can leave brushstroke to be used in the future maternal provide for the aged.
The court says:
At the law at manage at affection,
The mother should not distribute fund
The Huaihe River of court of first instance brings court of city Qing Jiangpu district in cognizance this special belongings is broken up when the case think finally, the compensation of more than yuan of 580 thousand death of father of Zhao forest precious and mental solatium all are not bequest, however close relative of Zhao Linzhen's father shares belongings, allocate to this, the element such as the close together level that should consider party and dead integratedly to kiss scanty far and near, collective life before one's death and source of income considers integratedly, when breaking up dead compensation at the same time, still ought to abide by preferential take care of by the principle of interest of bring up person.
In this case, mother and Zhao him Lin Zhen, grandfather, little brother all should enjoy this break up the right, mother of Dan Zhaolin precious runs away from home from 2009 up to now, run away from home at the outset no matter reason how, objective and actual it is to be during this, mother of Zhao forest precious does not have any contribution to the family, still offer divorce suit twice, spouse concern cease to exist except in name, have more very person below the circumstance that has not remove in its and relation of marriage of Zhao Linzhen's father, with other cohabitational life.
As the wife, not only assist of endless husband and wife is compulsory, still violate ethics of faithfulness of husband and wife; As the mother, to filial be indifferent to sth, leave the husband to attend alone the son that has intellective drawback, its whereabouts is searched to come to persuade in family when coming home, still did not read aloud reach feeling of husband and wife and mother child (female) close affection, bring soulful to be harmed badly to the husband and children. The husband dies, she did not suffer belongings and mental loss accordingly, the dead compensation that should go breaking up its husband to be obtained because of dying reachs mental solatium, at the law, at affection, at manage, all do not deserved to support to the court. At this late hour, younger brother of sister of Zhao forest precious still looks forward to a mother to be able to come home the life, forensic hope, what mother of Zhao forest precious can respond to a family member actively is ardent expect, reunite with children at an early date, break with making up for close affection of nearly 10 years to be short of, the younger brother of sister of Zhao forest precious that gives the painful love that miss father with mental solace, she herself also can be obtained from filial place admit with understanding, enjoy family happiness.
The daughter says: No matter whether does the mother come home,
She can leave pen money give a mother live out one's life in retirement
Since father after dying, zhao Linzhen brings the little brother of wisdom barrier Su Qianshu in relief husband's family and her live together. "3 children of myself are attended by the mother-in-law, I come to the little brother take care of " , zhao Linzhen tells a reporter, she and husband work in stucco of the wall outside be being done on building site, when going to work, after finding a place for little brother belt to building site, she just can put a person's mind work, they have a hand to have a foot, won't use a minute of fund that father trades with life.
Sue the death that breaks up father to recoup a money to the mother, zhao Linzhen says, this perhaps is not maternal original idea, but do not have evidence again. Although father dies when, the mother is done not have come back, but the firstborn daughter in serving as the home, she still bought grave of double acupuncture point for father, also took the place to the mother on gravestone, because father and mother just are lawful husband and wife. First instance adjudicates a minute of money did not take the mother, she cannot bear at the heart, the mother puts forward to appeal now, she seeks law rescue center to help again only, no matter 2 careful adjudicate a result how, she can be sentenced her Qian Liuyi to give a mother live out one's life in retirement partly. Respecting is sad place, zhao Linzhen of 31 years old says, now since elder sister, she what serve as firstborn daughter at the same time should assume a responsibility that takes care of a little brother again, she says she is very tired, hope mother come back to live together with them, past grudge of her meeting slam the door, use up the obligation that the daughter should use up, let a mother enjoy family happiness.
The lawyer says: Children longs to see the eyes that the mother appears in court,
Make our mood very heavy
"In case cognizance process, we expect Zhao Linzhen's mother to be able to appear in court all the time, can let younger brother of Zhao Linzhen sister and mother say a word well, cry ' mother ' , but she does not have front courtyard all the time, the mood that this lets us is very heavy also " , zhu Yizhu of law aid attorney tells a reporter, zhao Linzhen's mother professes to get the home in person cruel and run away from home, but did not take out testimony up to now. Even if is to get the home is cruel, father of Zhao forest precious already died now, younger brother of sister of Zhao forest precious requests a mother to come home, but still be rejected, this lets a person understand hard, accept.
According to Introduction Zhu Yizhu, regard law aid as the lawyer, in the osculatory process with Zhao Linzhen, they feel Zhao Linzhen is right of the mother miss and the longing of whole to family. These pass Zhao Linzhen too painstakingly, she should take care of her little family not only, even drag is worn oneself intellective and low little brother, the child child as a few years old is the same as the little brother that looks at his euqally other low age children is grabbed feed, her heart is very afflictive. Even if is sued by his mother now court, ask the death that breaks up father recoups a money, dan Zhaolin precious still hopes to receive the mother come home, hope mother does not live the life with bump painstaking abundant again. She wants to tell a mother: Come home, there always is a door to leaving for you in the home, always a lamp is staying for you.
