A few ability of the child and expression, often adumbrative their development height henceforth, common saying " look 3 years old big, 7 years old look old " , have a few reasons.
Each parents, hope to there is prospect after his child is brought up, have bright future, after all present competition is more and more intense, capable child ability stands higher, go further.
So, after what kind of child is grown is there prospect more?
Have these 6 kinds of outstanding and idiosyncratic children, meeting comparing is the same as age person is outstanding, show itself more easily in prospective competition.
01
The society thinks independently
The terrible point of the life depends on, some people can be content with present life not self-abased, not perfunctory also can very indifferently step down.
Some people want to go to distance, those who want work is wonderful, not mad demon does not survive, although tired also get dynamic alive. But awkwardness is awkward the life that lives in another kind of life not to go up to fall in you.
02
Be good at language expression
Talk well, it is the language expression that uses love, and truly society talks, learn to master the power of a kind of nonstop popular feeling namely, the condition that can reflect a person most business and accomplishment.
You can talk, your accomplishment is what kind of, this is to install what do not come out, although can deceive pass a barrier 9, also meet sooner or later give the show away.
The acting channel between parents and child, it is expression greatly not clear those who cause. Chat with the child, parents states the child fumbles said very long, did not listen understand what he is saying, also do not have method to continue to chat, ending is not to understand the other side to be in what to convey, brawl happens after contradictory become acute.
The language that develops the child conveys ability, parents needs to notice:
Parents should teach the child to be over information as far as possible soil preparation expression comes out, let others understand a meaning.
Self introduction and answer problem are best training method. The parents when talking with the child had better not use dialect, otherwise their mandarin can become nondescript. Need not " lazy " , " stupid " , " chill " such word will describe others, accomplish as far as possible " act fact says, do not bring any opinions " .
03
Work efficiency is tall
Present society, ten thousand changes in the twinkling of an eye, this asks people wants to have work efficient ability, as long as such, ability gets used to the world of fast rhythm.
If a person works dillydally is dilatory, careless, so, he can be surmounted by efficient person eventually, fall into disuse. Just think, if a person always can be inside same time, do more things than another person, who is a few more successful?
But, the child works the problem of small effect, troubling a lot of parents really however: Always be the edge plays an edge to write line of business, half hour can be written, always pull 9 hours; Always be forgetful, not be to cannot find this, cannot find that namely.
If this kind of state does not try to correct, the negative effect that its bring, the child's development will be limitted badly in future.
So, the parent must make the move, invite the trouble of dillydally of child give up, small effect, here has a few small clever court, the parent can draw lessons from:
1. a minute of special training;
2. stops to urge, insist to praise;
The time with spare 3. is controlled by child freedom;
4. trains from habits and customs;
5. stipulates time was not finished, stop instantly.
The person with a low efficiency, although again again gifted, clever, because management is bad that his life is mixed,often learn, become the person of a low efficiency finally, be far from the success that ought attribute oneself and brilliant.
04
Capability of meet an emergency is strong
Adjust oneself at any time only, ability makes he is in active position from beginning to end.
Ability of meet an emergency is test child encounter new environment or be a thing when, whether can still answer leisurely.
In a word, develop ability of meet an emergency, of education is the integrated quality of each respect. Had the life to provide for oneself when the child ability, psychology is adjusted ability, human truck capacity, communication collaboration ability, self-restrained ability, get used to ability nature very strong.
So, how should the parent develop ability of the child's good meet an emergency?
Large difficult position reachs as a child to child setting more in the life, for instance training of a few bivouac, space flees for his life game. The child is attending in having the activity that challenges a gender, can pass think, start work practice will solve at the moment predicament.
When necessary, the parent also should guide correctly and hint. If see the occasion of fire, father should teach the child countermeasure of a few correct meet an emergency, guide while the child thinks church the skill that they save oneself, you can discover the child is imitated in observation, oneself ability enhances gradually in solving a problem.
05
Know solution pressing
Fight control capacity and do not mean bear psychological pressure.
A lot of parents think to learn bad child the more, should give him pressure more. Few parents knows to cross great pressure continuously is a kind of heavy mortgage to the child.
Because, not be every child can have very powerful fight those who control capacity. Bear pressure often special anguish, too great pressure can cause the undesirable psychology such as vexed, angst, indignant, sadness, envious, chill, termagancy, even insomnia, have a headache, disgusting, depressed.
So, those who raise the child fight control capacity, as church they how Shu sees pressure.
Tell the child: When he feels anxiety, must release inner pressure, look for a quiet place, cry out to distance.
Motion takes exercise is best solution controls fashion, suit the anger of debus heart most like the ball games such as tennis, badminton, football, basketball.
06
Ego management
A child that has good self-image often feels he is to get gay, because they are full of self-confidence, can accumulate great courage ground to work. The child with poor self-image often feels he is self-abased and not satisfactory, cowardly, fear err thing.
Once self-image is formed, not easy change. Its most intuitionistic feedback is the figure stand or fall in people look.
Want to notice child dress dresses up, dress is one individual spiritual outlook reflect.
Above all, make child learning aesthetic. Parents should pay attention to aesthetic education of the child as a child, teach child colour collocation, for instance ornamental, design, colour and lustre, fabrics, choose dress according to his be fond of.
Next, clad good body, should with natural, simple, easy, beautiful for the principle, go after bizarre dress not overly. Finally, develop moral feeling of the child. Value a book, care others, it is the way with education child very good temperament.
Successful domestic education often can foster the child's finer quality, compare common domestic education, successful family teachs the outstanding child that education comes out to have this 6 large capacity!
