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The aggressiveness in on-the-job field, always not be openly antagonism, a lot of moment are a kind of soft attack.

You had encountered these setting to perhaps had seen for certain below:

Be in when you when reporting a business with the leader, ta inserts one mouth suddenly to express his view with the sound of tall octave, perhaps advance a good key point in you when, ta uses very quickly [I thought of early] mood says: "Be, my early has said XXX. ;

Ta is fond of communicate to you [you were isolated by everybody] feeling, ta can say with you: "Just small A comes over to send birthday cake, I am in busy he still must be put in my desktop, how? Did not take you? Did not take you??

Ta also is met let you painstakingly feel you are not valued by the boss, you also can have heard such word: "Alas, this thing should be you are responsible originally, how does him boss seek the person below you, also too that what. Previously he without giving thought to these, previously he without giving thought to these,,

Above these, it is the aggressiveness because of the person actually.

The instinct that the ancestor millions upon millions years ago uses attack namely will resist other a group of things with common features group, also chase with it. Civilized progress up to now, the person's aggressiveness still is one of the most original internal driving force, it by inside the performance that turned all sorts of reservation, but the light tone delicate language below those circumstances, be in namely actually launch attack.

It is what it says imperscriptibly for the moment - soft attack.

The charge that the harm of soft attack compares the face even is bigger, because it is not accompanying smell of gunpowder, you press a root to should counteractive what to know.

It atttacks, the mood that is you follows proud self-confidence, real ground destroys a person at aeriform.

You won't get angry even the person that atttacks you, you just are being received passively, become depressed, become not self-confident, become dispirited, became unsuccessful person finally really.

But you knew now, these are a kind of attack, also can think well so, how should be handled such attack and how to go resisting this kind is atttacked.

Somebody wants to atttack you, have the reason of two very important and inevitable existence: One, you are very outstanding. 2, your outstanding have menace to Ta.

Realise this at 2 o'clock, you should can feel relieved.

You are very outstanding, so you should very calm, the negative energy that all the other side communicate you you are OK dismiss with a laugh, after all this is to come from low paragraph of attack of a player, of good plan of it doesn't matter.

You have menace to Ta, so the words and deeds that you can think yourself, once aggressive make a showy display of one's abilities took crisis move to the other side, if be if, can try to adjust oneself attitude, more include the ground goes helping sb to fulfill his wishes the achievement of others, praise the work of Ta face to face for instance, let the other side feel you are companionate, not be enemy.

So far till, your already OK and very good him adjustment condition, be come from no longer the attack of negative energy place of the other side, also won't terrifying because of him suspicion.

But if the other side still nots comply not Where is forgive?

We can atttack the person that we can atttack only, if the other side is very powerful, we can run away only, this also is the instinct that the ancestor stays.

If Ta is in,episode grabs contribution, you should enclothe the speech of Ta with higher volume, everybody can feel your power immediately, remember, speak the word that you should say with higher volume.

If Ta incites others to isolate you, you should approach active and actively with work in the same placing a few, everybody is opposite actually you are unbiased, even if have the disloyal rumor that has heard you, never mind, you should let everybody know you are what kind of person more, if do not know how to should be done, then I teach you- - loud and optimistic laugh, laugh dispute is given out to often enrol a person to like in chat.

But want exterminatory attack, the basiccest measure is to maintain progress, become more outstanding.

Have a word actually very reasonable:

Going to we can envy only is better than us the person of little, but a lot of better than us, we can be envied only.

Encourage.