On May 29, taiyuan normal school is old an account in one's own words sufferred the hair small gain that Wang Zhizhi of 2 students @ can have a dog to come from a roommate to take affront sexual appellation, abuse, pat secretly, gather up the dress " campus is violent " behavior. Institute of @ Taiyuan normal school - respond to that evening say, already summon relevant party for a short while, undertaking be checkinged seriously, check the basis the result to make corresponding processing, undertake in time announcing.
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This matter one, gained the attention of ten million netizen immediately, at present incident still is discharged search is heated up in small gain the first.
Incident was not checked, small 9 do not discuss more, hold attention. Want to talk about campus force with everybody, by bully the psychological problem that Ling Zhe may produce, and face by bully approach person, how can be we done.
Does campus force have much dreariness?
Via appraisal average per capita of two be murdered forms slight injury, among them spirit of a the injured party is depressed, still cannot live normally at present, study.
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·On April 28, 2019 midday, because of dispute this school Deng Mou of 13 years old orchid wait for a person to find Tian Mou to think of, both sides produces quarrel inside this school women's lavatory conflict of intercurrent unripe limbs, cause Tian Mou to think of occurrence vomiting, have a headache wait for a symptom. After school teacher discovers in time, think of Tian Mou send toward be in hospital of hospital of people of West Hunan city to have examination, treatment.
Because Tian Mou thinks of skull internal haemorrhage, on April 30, hospital of people of West Hunan city is thought of to Tian Mou carry out skull operation. On May 4, tian Mou thinks of classics hospital rescue invalid death.
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·On May 9, 2019, video of force of a paragraph of campus circulates on small gain: Inside a classroom, two schoolgirls suffer the violent ride roughshod over of additionally 3 schoolgirls. Among them a schoolgirl is connected fan a slap on the face, a schoolgirl by leather belt lash, meet with successive foot kick.
Writer Zheng Zhi says: "The be apt to of grown person is complex be apt to, evil ability of the child is dinkum evil. Evil ability of the child is dinkum evil..
The amount that appears on news is already shocking, those are we invisible how many to have again?
We are major teenage period of the person is concerned with campus, campus force is not far from us. Small arrive abuse, arrive greatly rob, blackmail, force to walk the street, affront, rape...
Data shows: The junior high school of near 50% is unripe had sufferred verbal ride roughshod over, verbal and abuse, minatory. It is gregarious ride roughshod over next, unripe, high school lays the junior high school that has 38% the ride roughshod over that has sufferred social association to go up. The junior high school that has nearly 20% is born in the school to had sufferred the violent harm on the body, include but not mouth of fan of be confined to, cuff and kick.
Dispatch of @ People's Daily says, contemptuous sex byname also calculates ride roughshod over since. Graph source: Small gain cut pursues
Show in report of highest 2018 judicatory, in the campus force case of 2015~2017, exceed a half to be caused because of producing the bagatelle such as quarrel, small attrition, because rob, blackmail, force to walk the street, the case of the criminality such as affront, rape is occupied 18.08% .
In campus force case, the victim in the case of 11.59% dies, the victim in the case of 31.87% is weighed, flesh wound of the victim in the case of 38.54% .
The news of campus force is on the net, rare however person asks: Had experienced the person of campus force, how? The harm on the body can be measured, of mentally?
Be in this month 5, post of skyline netizen hair is told about because oneself are fat by the experience of campus force, she in the card final area writes:
"As years migratory, I think I was brought up originally, I can forget these unpleasantness slowly, live afresh, but I discover to these are recollected even if am me like demon cuss, pestering me, always reminding my past, midnight dream is answered between sleep lightly, sleep cries mediumly, cry out, reminding me, happen everything what pass.
I write down this character, not be to want what to say, in those days the person is already grown grow up, perhaps to them, I am who had not remembered, what had they done to also do not remember, they still live their life, and I cry in nightmare however! And I cry in nightmare however!!
Be in Japan, campus ride roughshod over had turned a serious society into the problem, have a lot of student suicide every year. Derived a distinctive appearance " do not ascend school " .
Those campus force give by ride roughshod over person bring, it is the harm of lifetime.
We saw what can see only, more, unknown.
Those by bully of Ling Zhe " nightmare "Should stimulate a gender carefully psychogenic disorder
Every time bully approach incident appears, we always are the person that point to fury and spearhead ride roughshod over. They are abhorrent really, need receives penalty. But small 9 feel, besides punish severely the person that violate, should care more by ride roughshod over person mentation.
Besides common depressed, angst, the obstacle should be stimulated after occurrence scar of should vigilant somebody.
Military affairs of Chinese psychology society is psychological only appoint accepting south graph of honored guest of psychology of specially invite of meeting youth committee member, CCTV small the 9 introductions when interviewing, the obstacle should be stimulated after scar (Posttraumaticstressdisorder, PTSD) is to point to, individual experience, witness or encounter the one or more actual death that involves oneself or another person, or the menace that is died, or get hurt badly, or after body integrality is browbeaten, the individual delay that causes appears and put the mental obstacle that be in continuously.
"Psychological reaction appears instantly likely after scar, do not have likely also at that time any unusual, and in a few month hind or old hind just show a heart in obstacle. Former should stimulate an obstacle for acute, latter stimulates an obstacle to answer after scar. " introduce south the graph, the obstacle should be stimulated to be in commonly after traumatic sex incident inside 3 months after scar come on, also some is counted even in 1 year of less than come on inside year. If exceed a month continuously,acute should stimulate response, also can become scar hind to should stimulate an obstacle.
According to relevant data statistic, case of illness of half the number restores completely inside 3 months, majority restores inside 1 year, minority does not heal for years continuously, perhaps transform for abiding character obstacle. This also can explain, why a lot of the person that suffers campus force, choose to commit suicide after several years even and oneself life ends in a few months of after the event.
Zhang Junfeng of advanced psychotherapy division is mentioned, the likelihood of longitudinal spirit scar behaves: The mood is low, sullen, sad weep, life power drops, do not wish and person association, opposite lacks interest to wait a moment alive.
If afore-mentioned condition exceed 3 months above continuously, develop extremely likely to spend mental obstacle or psychological disease again, at that time should seasonable consideration seeks the help of professional psychology doctor.
The likelihood of the mental scar that spends in behaves: Long mood is pessimistic and low, world-weary, sociality loneliness is shut oneself, or insecurity of serious sleep-disorder, anxiety, fear is recreant, appear even suicidal tendency. Often meet at that time by by accident examine is disease of depressed disease, neurasthenic, angst or scared disease.
Serious spirit is traumatic besides afore-mentioned symptoms, still have typical symptom, if harm the memory of incident or picture to appear in dream ceaselessly, or although be in sober condition,also return in brain ceaselessly, make the victim often is in consequently frighten and in anguish cannot extricate oneself, be like traumatic incident to happen in a moment ago.
As a result is mixed to the memory of traumatic incident at be being waked up often experience, cause strong sentiment and physiology reaction thereby. More serious and traumatic, especially childhood period scar causes allergy of serious character twist, psychology possibly still.
How can be the person beside done?
If appear serious psychological problem, need looks for psychological doctor in time to seek advice.
Serve as friend or domestic person we, how to help the person of experience bully approach? By bully Ling Zhe's psychology will be very flimsy, right when the thing person a kind of psychology with undertake interpose of the following crisis is very important helps measure.
Above all, need and when the thing person establish trustful relationship. The eyes of a care, sober conciliation, with the listen respectfully of the heart, can get becoming thing person response. The correlation here is to point to the attraction because of true care generation and understanding. Build such associated need to have esteem and do not bring to bear on the heart of judge.
Next, should listen attentively to actively when the thing person if language. In face correspondence acute obstacle is become thing person some words should say, and some words ought not to say. For example, the issue is possible still worse; If you can let yourself keep busy, very good; I understand your feeling; Your life continues even... these words can let become thing person feel oneself are not taken seriously, can let them feel oneself experience be not understood.
Emphasize south the graph, if become thing person existence commits suicide or bloodguilty idea or plan, delay confuses alcohol or drugs, have domestic force, when mistreating children or old people, must go to normal hospital having necessary treatment.
Campus of prevention and cure is violent, need whole society to try hard together. Much person pays close attention to campus force, perhaps meet the little person that one is violated, little a victim.
Bully the penalty that Ling Zhe needs to get answering having, the school and parent also should face up to the seriousness of campus force. Should take seriously more by bully Ling Zhe's mentation.
The place with hope so good campus, many a little bit care and teach, a few less " dinkum evil " .
Now topic
Had you experienced campus force?
