Meng Wen builds a photograph of whole family
Dispatch of Central Plains net (Bao Kuanwen of a surname of Zheng Baoquan's media reporter / graph) " Home Wen Jianyi gave three doctor, do not say in me these 10 lis of 8 countryside are done not have, it is in county of whole summer city I feel the first of all. " in native place of market of a white horse with a black mane of county of Henan summer city head of village of ginger village village, the Meng Wen that wave of quartz of village secretary of a Party or League branch speaks of to be the same as a village builds a family, can't help standing had thumb.
The Meng Wen in his mouth is built is a rustic Chinese teacher, in the country educational a gleam of already worked 30 years, still teach now at Luo Ji one in, wife Li Lanqin is in the home at ordinary times soil. It is a such average households, a daughter and a pair of twin sons are taken an examination of went up doctor. Their home still is judged to be 2019 year " the throughout the country is the most beautiful family " .
Face growing education problem of the child, a lot of parents have trouble and doubt. What is the first month having after all in Home Wenjian different " a magic weapon " ? Recently, the reporter comes to summerly city county, tell about family of a common country to develop the old practice of backside of 3 doctoral students for you.
One gave three doctor: Themselves takes the route of children
The daughter that Meng Wen builds calls Meng Lijun, this year 27 years old. "I take the name, I read a book at that time, as it happens sees clear generation a talented woman calls Meng Lijun, took this name to the daughter, hope she also can become a talented woman. " Wen Jianxiao wears the first month say.
2014, after Meng Lijun graduates from Jiangxi agriculture college, take an examination of on rich of large of Dong Hua university is read repeatedly, at present public school university of Australian new Cambria studies abroad take advanced courses two years. During reading a Master, the new material of a kind of environment of a research and development obtained Meng Lijun and classmate national invention is patent.
The twin son that Meng Wen builds this year 24 years old, part birdcall flying He Ziyue. "Hope a versatile person of their civil and military, can resemble Yue Fei same ' essence of life faithful dedicate oneself to the service of one's motherland ' . " flying undergraduate course of eldest son Mencius is read at Zhejiang ocean university, took an examination of rich of large of major of project of shipping of Harbin project university in order to exceed the result that countrywide graduate student admits fractional line 80 minutes to read Yue Benke of Mencius of; young son repeatedly 2016 at college of Chengdu grain industry, 2016 with this school geochemistry and environmental major the first achievement is recommended rich of large of major of geochemistry of university of Chinese science and technology is read repeatedly.
Meng Wen builds the small courtyard in the home
"I follow Wen Jian is to be of the same age, also be to play big hair as a child small. 3 his children also are I am looked at as a child grown. Their home from other country family follows when the child is small different, their husband and wife two never had gotten angry, never also had beaten and scold the child. " wave of quartz of village secretary of a Party or League branch says.
"Actually I was not thinking 3 children to be able to read a doctor. I never also spend what end to their set, the road is themselves choice. " Wen Jian of the first month says.
"I feel our sister younger brother may be 3 to prefer also suit to do scientific research to do science quite, our three is good without the agreement also say to read a doctor, was on this road with his interest and hobby. " speak of sister younger brother 3 people read a doctor, that Mencius flies to the phone appear very natural, quiet.
The scholarly family in countryside: To rear the child, husband and wife two arduous pay
1969, wen Jian of the first month is born in Xia Yi the first month of village of village of ginger of native place of market of prefectural a white horse with a black mane covers building nature village, 5 people of brotherly sister, his seniority is old 3. His father Meng Xianxiu also is a rustic teacher that struggled a few years in educational a gleam of. Little sister and younger sister's husband also are engaged in teaching a trade.
1988, meng Wen builds Cong Yongcheng training school (today always city profession institute) devote into after graduation teach a gleam of at countryside, had taught elementary school, also had taught junior high school, working is 30 years.
1991, wen Jian of the first month knew the Li Lanqin that goes to work in hospital of villages and towns, two people established a family very quickly. "We are very amiable people two, very few life quarrels. " remove wife Li Lanqin a little, meng Wen builds one face happiness.
October 1992, their daughter is born, added many warmth to this family. 1995, they gave birth to a pair of twin sons again. "My wife has a twin little sister, our home still has twin gene. But in that time, we are belonged to super- unripe, made many social allowance. " Meng Wen builds memory to say.
3 children are in this family brings joyous sound to laugh language while, also increased the pressure of the life. "In my home there still are 5 mus of lands at that time, my wife resigned the job of the hospital, at the same time soil, take care of 3 children in the home at the same time. She is right of this home pay bigger than me. " speak of a wife, the first month is full of in Wen Jian eye appreciate.
2004, accept better education to let the child, meng Wen builds a decision just the daughter Meng Lijun that elementary school graduates sends a county to continue to read. Set his mind at to learn to let the child, he borrowed money to buy the house of a two bedrooms in the county at that time, the parents that makes oneself emeritus takes care of daily life of the child.
2006, two sons also went on the county junior high school, the salary that completely recumbent Meng Wen builds the cost of the family and a few mus of Bao Tian's income.
Via kin introduction, meng Wen builds couple and sibling 3 raise the wind bought garden of 40 mus of jujubes in Xinjiang A Kesu. Wen Jianjian of the first month guards pedagogic station, wife Li Lanqin goes back and forth between Xinjiang to plant jujube, should stay every year in Xinjiang 78 months. Children see the hardship of father mother is paid, also cherish study opportunity all the more.
2016, 3 children had read a graduate student, the economic pressure of their home just alleviates slowly. Li Lanqin goes back and forth between Xinjiang no longer, grandfather grandma also moved native place from the county.
Become the child friend: "Benefit other people is fine breathed " just be best education
Famous educationist Tao Hang knows to ever had said, be taught best even if " benefit other people is fine breathed " , meng Wen builds special also self-identity such viewpoint. "Neither one child is not conceivable all round of the person's affirmation, especially parental appreciation. Although my child is very ordinary, but the child that I believe me, child that admires me, the likelihood is this understanding and support gave them infinite power. " Wen Jian of the first month says.
Be engaged in teaching the job 30 old, meng Wen is built in the school is the teacher that loves hillock to respect property, be in the home is the father of laborious affection, ferial the largest interest reads a book namely. He knows very well the education to the child should grab as a child, so he pays attention to the life that develops the child and study habit very much as a child. "The child is in childhood times, should play more, need not too the achievement that cares about them, want to have 80 minutes only about the same, this phase is when the child is the happiest and immaculate. What we should do is ' education does not have mark ' . They won't thematic parent is OK handgrip hand teachs him, can raise achievement to be able to develop attachment again already so. Once put the child,coach the class can be pulled big the acting channel with the child, the child is brought up to be able to feel without concern to parents. " speak of the get along way with the child, wenjian of the first month has a lot of words to say, "The significance of I and child is immense, we get along like the friend. Because of me the opinion of special esteem child, and won't force oneself thought to child body. And won't force oneself thought to child body..
"What I feel father is the oldest to our three influence is he often reads a book when we are small, let our nurturance like to read the habit of study. There is a lot of histories, traditional culture in the home kind book, I and little brother like to look particularly. Remember taking an examination of grind that paragraph of time, I press muscularity occasionally, can go to the library borrowing what like to read most in one's childhood " Ceng Guofan is passed " in light of, him drive spends that paragraph of hard time. " the father that eldest son Mencius flies to to evaluate his so, "He never has beaten and scold us, ask we go achieving his goal. He can affect us with his action, a lot of truths are ourselves is realized come out, he preachs rarely we. He preachs rarely we..
Model of domestic wind home requires ceaseless inheritance:
Save to the child " growing archives "
"The home is promoted at mixing, annals of; of Yu Qin of essence of course of study puts Gao Yuan, know favour graph to sign up for; to accumulate the home of be apt to, surely superabundant celebrate... " this is the train of domestic wind home that Meng Jianwen often speaks of. Harmonious, act vigorously is entered, the model of domestic wind home of the domestic atmosphere that go all out in work and ceaseless inheritance is planted in the heart of children laid the seed with constantly strive to become stronger, outstanding pursuit.
The 3 children humanness that Meng Wen builds works very low-key, after obtaining certificate of merit and honorary letter every time, can put in the drawer stealthily. Dan Mengwen found a capital is withholding these things to them all the time, include the toy that children play as a child, the honorary letter that each attend school phase obtain, he is saved in good conditionly rise. "I want to keep a growing record to children. After waiting, they had the child, also can discuss their struggling course to children to listen, continue model of home of this home wind inheritance goes down. " Wen Jian of the first month says.
Meng Wen builds those who say he is the most gratified now is not 3 children read a doctor, however children already nurturance good life study convention and powerful and healthy psychology. Build memory according to Meng Wen, 3 his children never had attended any extracurricular to coach class, it is the study with recumbent good oneself is used to completely.
"To future, I still do not have specific plan, wanting to be able to read the doctor namely, go a college teachs, like oneself grandfather and father, devote into at teaching a trade. " when should asking about future to develop way, the Mencius flies to such saying. ((partial picture by suffer the person that visit to offer)
