Civil come from: Breath out the duty field small classroom of father's younger brother
I discover, mention fund every time this topic, everybody's participation is spent very tall, nerve also can rapid be teased to rise.
Before two days, I am pushed sent an article " 30 years old, deposit is 0: Your " do not have prospect " , solid it is normal to belong to " , leave a message the area has a few readers leave a message, look at those who hold out dazzling.
A reader says, deposit is 0 those who had calculated, I am indebted 800 thousand.
This is not an exemple, I looked carefully, several readers mentioned him to bearing liability personally at present, somebody 300 thousand, somebody 350 thousand, return somebody to be in debt to be as high as 1 million even.
I am done not have and in them any one has chatted in detail, do not understand their narration so, do not know them these year whats to experience.
But, before this let me remember paragraph a when time knows little elder brother, 92 years, look than me this 90 years mature still, I begin to think he has 30 several.
From 22 years old the university graduates, this is small elder brother is doing poineering work all the time, the project with yellow do sth over and over again does not issue 5, nowadays be heavily in debt, carry debt of 150 much a huge sum on the back personally.
I ask him, consider to stop, seek a job for instance?
His him openness thinks breakfast realizes financial freedom, speak bluntly goes to work do not make money, do poineering work only, deal just is an outlet.
Adage says, more haste,less speed.
A lot of moment, you are eager to getting the more, cannot get more easily instead, pass forcibly fierce, often cannot go too far.
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Pass forcibly fierce, ending often not quite good
Want to had done a thing, it is hammer and tongs very be necessary, but this does not mean method of not exquisite means.
A lot of things, once had exerted oneself to do sth. fierce, ending often won't very good, not be very ideal.
On duty field, arrive when us after a new environment, nature is to expect to obtain approbate, because of such psychology, so a lot of people can be eager to expression, particularly exert to one's utmost.
Nature of working spare no effort is should, but I still suggest you are closing some, had not exerted oneself to do sth. fierce.
You show 100 minutes at the beginning, can obtain really so approbate, but the person's energy is finite after all, after period of time, the circumstance with probable meeting occurrence lack of power succeed, so your level that behaves retort with challenging questions to be in with hold together 100 minutes.
At this moment how can boss look you?
Can think you become slack, not previously so effort, can feel you not quite be convenient to use, spend to your good impression also can reduce subsequently.
Conversely, you begin to show 80 minutes only, but you can maintain progress continuously, what others sees is you grow.
The impression that these two kinds of condition give a person is different, ending also often is different, latter goes more easily up.
Perhaps cite such case not quite appropriate, a bit thick black flavour, but I want to say, this is one part of human nature, if you distain to this, and will listen when gibberish.
Talk about fitness, because I follow morning of friend flying elder brother to run all the time for some time recently, his fitness already had lustrum, body strong and handsome.
When just beginning to run, he often reminds me, we are not gone after fast, adjust breath, run slowly, suit first suit.
a week, we run only every morning 2.5 kilometers, a few adder crouch greatly and push-up, up-to-date, already the 3rd week, just adjust gradually for 3.5 kilometers, sometimes 4 kilometers left and right sides.
Flying brother says, athletic fitness cannot urgent, a lot of people at the beginning be seized by a whim, drill very suddenly, will get hurt easily, 2 will do oneself easily was afraid of, bring about enthusiastic quickness to drop, hold on very hard finally again.
I feel quite reasonable, there is too much and too much place in the life, hiding such truth.
For instance, in long-distance running match, those come up to run very quickly, send the person with very fierce force, not be true ace mostly, won't be most that batch of person that reachs terminus first.
For instance, a lot of people overdraw healthy, risk one's life needlessly works, take the body to change money; For instance, a few actor model an approximately ideal person to set to oneself; Again for instance, many people are in charge of particularly severely to the spouse, catch too closely. . .
These are to had exerted oneself to do sth. actually fierce, as to can have what kind of final result, benevolence person see benevolence, wisdom person see wisdom, anyhow I am not quite value.
Take the body to change money, final likelihood is white busy; Model idealer person to set to oneself, jump over easy collapse; In feeling, catch more closely, lose more easily.
A lot of works need to have a process, need successive, relaxation has degree, you finished the athletic quantity of a month one day, can not let you immediately thin come down.
Go quickly, easy tumble, pass forcibly fierce, often can not bring real help to you, a lot of negative effect arrive since the meeting instead, be just the opposite to what one wished.
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Fiercer than be being mixed quickly fiercer, be can send force continuously
Do not pay close attention to the person of NBA, right " spur " this team may be compared unfamiliar, but if you are fan of a basket, can know, this is one is worth everybody esteem, awe-stricken team absolutely.
In 30 team of NBA, spur is alone existence.
They had infiltrated 22 years be surpassed after season continuously, in the 70 old histories with long NBA, this is the longest record.
Spur has so terrible show, have very big concern with the culture of this team, disposition, no matter be coach, player, still be the style that play a ball game, all is appearing an adept flavour.
In this team, even if is 3 core player very few also meeting is in a match like division comparing, Zhanmusi these super stars are same, chop below 50 cent, luxuriant data of 60 minutes easily.
Not be they do not have such actual strength, however their philosophy winning a ball is: Economize to avoid running short.
Of spur player enter the court time is more average, core player can get sedulous protection of the coach, accordingly very few conference appears big injury, also having very high attendance rate naturally, the time of professional career is very long also.
Somebody ever sighed with emotion, if Yao Ming can be in spur in this system, should not retire because of injury so early.
Watch the game of spur, see Boboweiji's coach discharge arms embattle, you can feel fierce sincerely, no matter give him what kind of player, lord child always can give the shop sign had been hit.
The wins a ball way of spur, actually I write this article to want to tell today:
Truly clever, stager, work to often have art of composition very much, systimatic, relaxation has degree, do not enrage act knowingly, they know economize to avoid running short more, also can look further.
This is a kind of pattern and foresight actually, life also is such.
A lot of people always are wanting to be able to have strong and handsome body quickly model, can become an a thin person; A lot of people always are thinking can one night is cruel rich, realize financial freedom. . .
But think objectively, such good outcome, do not pass thoroughly tempered, and in a planned way, have the effort of specific aim, come true how possibly?
So, I hear young reader to say to want to do poineering work every time, I always can suggest he wants discreet, do not see successful person only, should look more how many person fails.
In life overflow long way to go up, if you want far, so do not be eager to hope for success please, do not cross a stride, urgent easy fault.
Successive, work steadily, no matter be,work, it is this truth.
