Ask: What why pay the more is much, the life that connects him support of the people even need not want, he as hair however nondestructive, even he does not have even dot responsibility heart however, persist one's old ways, be like everything to have nothing to do with him. Such day what is build?
Answer:
If 1. pays another person to be accepted all the time all the time in a person in spouse concern, his both neither is active, cannot pass on you again, or now and then the attempt also is an utterly inadequate method in dealing with a severe situation, this person meets as time passes not to rise and escape because of sufferring.
A life that the person connects him even does not go 2. love a person, do not have ego, losing the love of ego to be able to say is asphyxial love, because appear,can be not enraged in the other side in this relation and run away
3. " he as hair however nondestructive, don't have even heart of a bit responsibility even " how do you know? By your feeling? View? Experience? Build a new family not easy really, he wants father of ~ of husband of ~ of man of ~ of a little boy the process that different identity part transforms, we are same also, actually everybody is this home to make the greatest effort in the means with oneself.
4. " pay sincerely " if you are open-armed,paying is with the means of grown woman is paid, you won't ask the other side must give you get one's own back, love individual and one the other side to have nothing to do, loving the other side because of you is the requirement that satisfies you to give love, is not the demand of the other side, of course if the other side also loves you that is better. It is good to have a word says " who does him foster cordial relations between countries marry happy " careladen lifetime is happy perhaps depend on all one's life the belief of everybody, the idea did not run who to marry to be able to feel who is careladen all one's life.
5. from stop old loop to begin -- your choice that acts to stem from you only, not be the result that others affects.
