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"You do not have a thing now, just help me trim this list. Just help me trim this list..
"You are learn the computer, help the computer below my repairing. Help the computer below my repairing..
"Our home leaves so close, on your incidentally going to work me. On your incidentally going to work me..
Actually I want to refuse, but be afraid that the other side is angry, the relation is bad after be afraid of, always feel embarrassed mouth.
All the time since, we are taught: Send person rose, the hand has lingering fragrance. Also be in an unfavorable situation to be blessing by education, mutual help. Be such education, bring about us a lot of moment, learn to won't refuse.
The true condition in can living is, others mouth calls you to help, but this busy the sweet potato that resembles very hot hand, you had done very hard, the work that because help,be met even and affected oneself lives. But although the heart is medium,100 thousand are not willing, but because the heart feels embarrassed refuse, be afraid of displease others, be forced to try to do a difficult job as best one can so agreed.
As time passes, the person that lets you help can feel only your volubility, let you help the issue that became of course. If one day you refused, can become instead " hellion " , by the person make talk inhospitality is arrogant wait.
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Silent strong this year finish school, there is father and mother when taking an unit exhort: Little speech works more, with everybody must diffident ability can have good person reason.
One extremely big rainstorm, silent father just right is in all round handle affairs, drive to receive her to come home to the unit, still took two fellow workers that do not make a car incidentally.
It is good intention originally, the result arrives the following day after the unit, two fellows say with others silent family is special everywhere baby is silent, it is the old young lady in the home, have princess disease. Still can speak face to face even silent say: How to let your father receive today send you to commute?
Silent and original wanting to say two go, the result returns somebody to talk about this thing again after two months. Just prattle, the colleague of gossip is in, silent admit to say really partly banteringly: You can say me rear, but must not let me know, after all the lamp that I also am not what province oil, rip rising also is things, I am not talktive do not represent good bully, there still are a few thorns on whose body.
Since then, everybody does not know to still have a person to say rear, but everybody can be respected before the face silent, no longer random chatter root.
Outside, must not want to eat be unable to speak out about one's grievances meeting somebody is commiserative you, they can say only, it is disagreement of your aloof and proud group, 3 people become a tiger do not do not have a truth, only strong ability is not bullied.
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Be in " the strategy that delay happiness " in, best example is He Weiying of rich examine empress the contrast of Luo.
Rich examine empress is in all one's life for the emperor consider, as 6 palace advocate too kind-hearted it is an evildoing instead. Do not contend for do not grab do not complain not be jealous of, but her goodness is used again and again by others, 3 children die young in succession, connect the servant girl all round calculate she.
Because your goodness lets off you,hellion is not met, can use you because of your goodness only, won't be opposite even the destiny even she is softhearted.
Differ with rich examine empress, wei Ying Luo dares to do " hellion " , won't be Koed easily.
Wei Ying Luo from the end that holds oneself into Gong Qi it is to revenge, who to talk to cannot be prevented. She won't let off maleficent Er fine because of so called mutual affection, because be not put,also won't issue the past and torment oneself.
She knows her goodness to add case of a protection.
Want to know, quality is not represented do not have disposition, capable also should have daring and resolution at the same time.
Right today of hellion patient, will be opposite tomorrow namely of good person cruel. This excusing is not good-tempered however help a tyrant to do evil.
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