Civil | Childe ease
Hesitated several days repeatedly, still wrote this relevant topic.
The point of view that should keep because of me is: Do not excuse those, ignore the man of your life and death.
Once a reader has asked me such question: "If your husband betrayed marriage, how can you do? If he has known a fault, and repentant, also did not contact with that woman again, can you excuse him? Can you excuse him??
I must answer this question honestly.
I won't. Although of Yi of my admire horse is mixed in the wisdom in marriage,magnanimous, but if encounter those who betray is me, I won't be excused.
Even if I love him as before, cannot excuse as before. Because, he became wrong be about to bear consequence. The price that I cannot allow him to harm me is 0.
A bit cruel-hearted really, but girls, I hope you can have this is cruel-hearted more: Because excuse the harm of others, it is him him harm.
A pregnant woman by oneself husband, throw on high speed. That woman is spellbound and helpless, that man is not contacted from beginning to end.
Can she divorce with that man?
Won't.
A lot of people can say, the woman that she is pregnant, divorced, taking the child how to live.
A lot of women are in those who face a man to betray, it is harm even when, won't choose to divorce. They choose to be borne for the child.
Recording marital home like a woman cruel her video, the child cries for aloud, and the manner in feminine home is, she does not want to divorce, still have the child. Can it is good really that the child is brought up in such family?
Have how many mother, want the satisfaction of child materially blindly, and the harm that overlooked child inner world. Have how many child again step-by-step ground is living, and the heart is early already remains.
I had seen jump the video of the boy that cliff commits suicide, his countenance does not have any billows, later, easy ground loosened hand. The heart is special at that time ache, his facial without expression, the heart should be how collapse.
Why must write the child, because too much woman accepts the argument of harm, it is for the child. The man betrayed marriage, the woman does not divorce, reason is for the child. She can say: "How does my person raise the child big, the child should follow me to suffer how many pain, myself bears hardships irrespective, I do not want to let the child follow me to bear hardships together. I do not want to let the child follow me to bear hardships together..
Then, harm was excused, appeared to be harmed again then. Then, the child is living in a seemingly whole family, inner world is early had been a remains.
Too much person, say with me, want to mediate not to persuade cent. I want to mediate, but my heart does not do, I can persuade a woman to do bit of chore, can persuade feminine heart to be fond of a bit man, can persuade a woman not to want so complain Fu, but I do not have method a wife goes accepting harm.
I want to tell all wives, do not hurt your chance the 2nd times to the man. Some things, cannot be excused even if cannot excuse. Because had too much woman,excuse easily just about, then more man dare make such mistake.
Because of him certainly you also cannot how.
He what be pregnant you are thrown on high speed, you can be excused.
His face before the child, cruel to your home, you can be excused.
He betrayed marriage, you can be excused as before.
Your excuse too easily, then, he is bold pay no attention to completely to the life and death to you.
2016, once had become the special subject with man cruel home.
The man of cruel wife of a long-term home said such word: "I hit her namely, hit till she divorces with me. Dare she divorce with me? I hit her every day, she still is begging me not to divorce. Such woman is cheap, owe dozen. Owe dozen..
It is because of the price that hurts you 0, he is OK and then wanton harm you.
I ask that woman, why to divorce.
Her answer is more funny: "I lay the person that is him, it is his ghost to death. Which man does not play his son's wife, said to still have two children again. Divorced, how do I and two children do. How do I and two children do..
It is same say decline, it is similar tragedy. She is pitiful, abominable. Because, the man's first time is harmed, but say her,be to meet a person not kind and gentle. But she stops not in time caustic, be far from harm, however indulgent harm, accept harm, so next harm, the man is wrong, her why does not have a fault.
The woman is sufferring this to plant " serious " when harm, how should do after all?
Do not want to excuse, next alone powerful.
Some wives can say, do not excuse me to had been met more miserably.
Why must you let yourself lie from beginning to end in such harm? Why you cannot become powerful? He is already right you are merciless, why must you hand in your destiny in the hand that does not love you so.
A classmate of my little brother, risk is encountered when giving birth to 2 embryoes, the man wants to protect a son only, do not want to protect adult. Woman family of the woman, want to protect adult, man family says, if protect adult, provide a woman no longer.
After the woman cured the body, the first thing divorces with the man namely. Man home Libuken leaves, it is excusable that they feel they protect a son, said the woman is not good now again? Still have a daughter, with respect to this for the child, excuse a man, understand a man to get along well.
The woman still insisted to divorce.
A woman is taking the child to pass very hardly, but again hard, she had not regretted. She says: "My this all one's life again also won't the life oneself, hand in in the hand of a man. Not be a bit bitterer, not be a bit tiredder, compare with photograph of life and death, what do this calculate. I should try hard quite only, the future of I and child is hopeful. The future of I and child is hopeful..
She did not hurt her chance the 2nd times to the man. But have the girl as before particularly foolish, married that man, giving birth to a son hard for that man.
Who can spend she and that woman happily?
She and her child, a bit bitterer, but the heart is health, they still have future. And did not come but period.
And that woman, her in every case does not encounter overall situation of life and death, encountered her to be able to be abandoned easily as before.
Women, the price that does not allow a man to harm you is 0.
In marriage most energy, not be blindly kind-hearted, go excusing harm. Stop in time however caustic, let injure your person, also did not hurt your ability and chance again.
Some girls can ask, she harms me, I also can harm him.
Foolish the child, a bit more mature, he is undeserved you are harmed. Undeserved you are him floriferous one second. If you have the heart of animosity, it is force as beautiful animosity, effort is powerful.
The processing with Ma Yi best to harm , not be to excuse, however alone powerful. Because,also be her powerful, just let her excuse had a sense.
The price that does not allow a man to harm you is 0, face harm, ask you to fasten too weak, ask you alone powerful.
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