Put summer vacation, a lot of children can indulge network.
As the parent, ourselves can play a mobile phone, child holiday can be loosened fell, and we do not let the child play game however / play IPad.
This is like not quite fair, small intelligent be to object the child enjoying electronic product all the time.
But a very real problem is placed before us- - 00 hind, 10 hind itself is network times is primitive live civilian, be born to be in digital age, want to let the child all one's life do not contact electronic product, almost impossible.
Since cannot avoid, be inferior to be being faced up to directly.
Doesn't summer vacation want the child to indulge network? How should we guide again?
Read an article together, with side of this a few action you solve this very the problem of angst.
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Ever the reporter interviews Qiaobusi: Should 3 your children love to enjoy electronic product very much?
As malic company author, qiao Busi replies however: In the home, we have limitative child to use electronic product.
Qiao Busi answer lets a person very questioningly: Regard the United States as one of leader of the greatest electronic product innovation, the child that why can you restrict oneself uses electronic product? Should not let them more contacts, does ability accede very well his career?
Actually, with a lot of successes the personage's family differs, qiao Busi is met in the evening everyday and children use dinner together, they discuss various topics, can play IPad without the person, see a mobile phone.
The electronic engineer of a lot of person of foreign that serve as research and development is the product of child overspend electron that does not let his, can cause to the child a lot of invisible harm.
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The mobile phone is the child " eye killer "
Small intelligent the elementary school on the daughter that has a friend 2 grade, go on the weekend check-up, eyesight fell actually 0.8, and just went up the eyesight of one grade or 1. The friend is very anxious, the age is so small, eyesight began to drop.
There are 40 children to do eyesight check-up on the class, actually the child eyesight of 10% has a problem.
The teacher also has a regulation in the school: The school uses computer time to have 15 minutes only everyday, not big to eyesight influence of the child.
So the parent must control the child to play the time of the mobile phone in the home.
Does the mobile phone have after all to child eye harm how old?
The expert has done a group of tests:
The experiment was chosen two children, it is 5 years old mix 14 years old respectively, detect for them lachrymal burst time.
Lachrymal film is tear is enclothed go up in eye conjunctiva bursa, a formation film, when blinking, lachrymal meeting squeezes a tear, form lachrymal film.
Lachrymal film can maintain eyeball wet, lubricant cornea, conjunctiva, improve eyesight.
The burst time of lachrymal film is the main index that measures eyestrain level
Before the experiment, the burst time of two children lachrymal gland is 10 seconds, it is normal.
Time of burst of film of normal person tear is 10 seconds about
5 seconds above is to spend dry small hole gently
3-5 second is in spend dry small hole
3 seconds are to spend dry small hole again below
When two children successive and dedicated play a mobile phone 20 minutes, detect again show:
The time of lachrymal film burst of 5 years old of children is 4.6 seconds
The time of lachrymal film burst of 14 years old of children is 5 seconds
Two children under normal level, be in condition of dry small hole.
The doctor says: Play mobile phone time more than 20 minutes continuously, the frequency that the child blinks can decrease, tear evaporates faster, can appear dry small hole. And the eye is too dry, corneal and epithelial meeting gets loss. Long-term and such, can bring about eyesight to drop.
American pedology can suggest:
The child under 18 months, had better not contact electronic screen
2-6 year old the child, engage the time of electronic product everyday, do not exceed 1 hour.
The child 12 years old ago, use the time of electronic product every time, do not exceed 20 minutes.
Must not because oneself are too busy, let a mobile phone become the spirit that fools child implement, turn child eye into wounded edge tool!
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You want to be less than forever, excessive the harm that enjoys electronic product!The near future, have media coverage, the electronic engineer of Silicon Valley is when baby-sitter of invite applications for a job, in needing to sign working contract with baby-sitter, can increase a special provision: Had accepted the electronic product such as computer, mobile phone, IPad.
Regard an electron as the engineer they feel, electronic product can help the function that child learning promotes, be exaggerated by exceeding, can increase the rate of child addiction, the venture that block up child grows becomes extremely high.
Overspend electron product, have 3 great harms, the parent wants discretion.
Cerebra of block up child develops
A pair of twin boys, parents presses muscularity because of experience, will among them a child remands native place, let grandma belt.
3 years old are received come back to go up when nursery school, although two boys grow exactly like, but action is very large however different.
Follow pa Mom to be brought up, love reads a book, taletelling, disposition is very lively, get along very harmoniously with the child of nursery school.
And follow a grandma to be brought up, see cartoon besides love, play a mobile phone, other disinclination, conversation is later, disposition is dissocial.
Original, the grandma is busy by day dry farm work, do chore, the child is troubled by let him see cartoon, play a mobile phone, look even if one morning. . . . . .
Educational expert thinks: Parents in the child infantile period company is jumped over much, as more as child communication, big cranial nerve of the child yuan join is more, the child is cleverer, the metropolis such as the gift of tongues, gregarious ability becomes stronger.
The reflection that damages the child force and dedicated force
The picture in electronic screen glows, had blinked fast, if the child is used for a long time, it is very difficult on the object that focuses attention in the static state.
And the content on education of the textbook of the school, classroom is to slant the static state changes, the child is very difficult concentration attention, dedicated study.
Some parents can object: Incorrect, my child is watching TV, when playing a mobile phone, attention very concentration, sitting motionless, small eye, small expression is as the gut in TV change.
Such thinking, that affirmation is wrong.
The child watchs TV, play a mobile phone actually a kind of passivity notices, completely involuntary process, and the process that a kind of intended attention is when developing child attention, dedicated power, be to need the child to spend time, beautiful energy to think among this process.
The content picture in electronic product is very wonderful, but the child did not think, can see a result easily, slowly, the child can be lost ponder over the ability that solves a problem actively.
Let the child easily suffer from go up to use disease more
College of medicine of Hong Kong university ever had done to 700 cheeper track investigation:
The child sees the TV, time that plays a mobile phone grow more everyday. The probability of occurrence behavior problem, mood problem is higher.
All sorts of involuntary petty action can become much, yi Chong is moved, be irritated easily; Take a look easily, cannot single-minded devotion arrives in a thing.
Child of 1 year old, exceed 3 hours to watch TV everyday, when arriving 7 years old, suffer from the odds that goes up to use disease more to be able to increase 10% .
In addition, excessive let the child contact electronic product, have very great harm to the formation of child personality and development, the child's meeting occurrence termagancy, depressed, angst, split personality, violent even act, once appear,this kind of behavior is cured very hard.
Warn broad parent, ten million cannot besmear temporarily relaxed, lose the child to electronic product, may regret otherwise all one's life.
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With this 3 action, let the child cast off electronic product
Why can the child like to enjoy electronic product?
Main reason is dull, doleful, nobody company, do not have a place to play, bring about the time that plays electronic product and time to increase.
In age of this network news, should avoiding completely not to want the child to contact is unlikely, reasonable use is no problem.
But to the child character, during summer vacation, have forever than playing a mobile phone, see the relaxation with more healthy TV means.
Education reads a habit, reduce the attraction of electronic product
When reading a good book, our cerebra is met from originally the area of static interest position can become active.
And read, hour of contact is jumped over to had been jumped over in child age.
A lot of parents can say: How is 1 year old read to him below? I study to the child, missed half an year he is understood again not, doesn't the feeling have what to use?
Hong Lan of expert of science of famous cranial nerve ever had shared Taiwan a case:
She ever gave 4 years old the child fold card, make him optional leaf through.
Take out again the following day fold card greatly, let the child find out the card that had seen yesterday.
The child looked at will yesterday, but still can find out the 80% card that had seen finally.
Professor Hong Lan says: Read the cerebra that will transform the child the day after tomorrow. Always had looked, can leave a mark in cerebrum.
Before product of electron of bring into contact with, should first the child read interest and habitual education to rise.
Begin to let child contact read as a child, make child cerebra is met development is more perfect, imagination is richer!
Urge campaign, make the child cleverer
When the child is moving, body experience generation is much cling to element of amine, serum and adrenalin, these 3 kinds of nerve conduct corporeal generation, can let child mood become cheerful, memory increases, study result is better; Dedicated force increases, attend class more absorption.
The research of a school of foreign proves: In the child with poor ability of elementary school motion, in the future read ability and mathematical ability to be able to compare difference.
And the child that often enjoys electronic product, ability of lag of development of meeting occurrence motion, reaction is logy wait for a problem.
During summer vacation, the parent smokes bit of time to accompany the child to arrive outdoors run ran, dozen play a ball game, encourage the child to want to go out to move more at ordinary times.
To the child, jump over Yue Congming of the meeting that use talent!
Set oneself an example to others, cut off the child's desire from germ
Parents is the child " illuminative teacher " , the child can indulge mobile phone, the reason of the majority is child of a lot of moment those who see parental all the time staring at a mobile phone, so, they will be very curious, think explore after all.
A lot of parents feel to play a mobile phone is working need, but the child does not know, what they see is pa Mom is playing a mobile phone all the time; When need mobile phone works, might as well tell the child, mom should handle the issue on next jobs with the mobile phone, or not before child face.
When having, child loot mobile phone also is to draw the parent's attention, the child hopes pa Mom can give him many somes of company.
Be about to establish consciousness as a child, before the child, avoid to use electronic product as far as possible, the company of high quality, it is the essential place that solves a problem.
During summer vacation, parents should take out more time to come (crowded crowded regular meeting has time) , accompany the child to build building blocks, play house, outdoors angle runs, this meeting becomes the child the childhood years of the the most healthy, directest yearning.
Rear the child, not be the corporeal basis that should have provided to the child only. Educational child, also not be support electron intelligent artifacts absolutely. To how using electronic product, we should be accomplished reasonable use and do not indulge.
To the child character, best growing nutrition, it is to come from the company at parents; Best education, be parents teach by personal example as well as verbal instrution.
Become child of parental for company one case when, life of experience mountains and rivers-land, can blue sea is laky, experienced a book sweet state, humanitarian true secret, body realized open country to run, close child interesting, the child is affirmative won't again screen of small electron of indulge one party!
Content originates: Chinese prickly ash cultivates next learning that write a composition
Yi Xiaoqiu of Piao of editor in chief
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