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Small bud of article Piao Xuan, renown desert Yang
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You often see following case certainly, other in part ceased to be faithful, outside somebody, but still continue to get along together with you, do not say to part company, but incorrect also hello.
Or ignore cold heat up suddenly, direct perhaps cold war, perhaps find fault be troubled by contradiction, perhaps carry your fault fault, perhaps say oneself such in that way in not successful heart irritated. Anyhow is incorrect you became good, cool also.
You feel him obviously (she) be not to love you, do not see his personally speaks out however, although you examine minutely him, he also does not agree to say.
Such person, because return advantageous beneficial to concern together with you,or is, your existence is advantageous still. Or is disposition of disposition of your this individual he is afraid of quite at ordinary times, dare not offend.
Or is him did not take on completely without bravery, do not think oneself assume the remaining pieces of face bisect hand, think of your where day was overcome desolate, oneself are carried actively part company.
And that moment, he wants push the boat along with the current-make use of an opportunity to gain one's end only, also do not contend for not noisy, look resembling is peace parts company, also do not need to face " tempest " .
Do you think he is good intention does not want to harm you? Wrong, since choose to go,love others, although did not speak out, had been a kind of harm.
So he is not to be afraid of harm you, what just be afraid that oneself face you is interrogatory, your tear, or your retaliation, pester a kind consequence.
He just dare be not faced, fear, escape blindly then, still want to have the final result of an everyone is happy. Such person, not only be selfishness, also be cowardly.
And the person that those did not love to speak out, look cruel perhaps, but feel well everybody knows he ceased to be faithful, you do not know however, still loving him all the time, still paying for him, still endeavor to make sacrifice for him in with one one's heart.
Especially those are housewife, willingly bear the burden of hard works looks after children, give presents old person, because love that man,be only. But that man did one thing under cover of another early with others, hiding the truth from you euqally when fool all the time however.
Because he still can use you, still can one is at ease freely again " baby-sitter " can use. Such view plunges into a heart a bit, but have a lot of really such fact. Such man, nature lets a person abhor.
Have bit of man that take on a little, also do not do in the home, outside, also do not do an eye to look at a woman to be paid for oneself all, oneself even disappoint she, and do not say come out.
Have the person that take on, did not love to be met honest, do not let other in part guess, also do not enjoy maintain a lukewarm relationship ignore cold heat up this one suddenly, also won't look for some of problem intentionally to force go up in body of the other side.
Won't invite opposite party first compunctious, feel oneself are not quite good first, how long be and can procrastinate how long, no matter what is the intent, it is not pure.
Since choose together at the outset, so although did not love, more or less to also return some mutual affection, did not love to tell him so (she) .
Get understanding to also go, get excuse also go, beg the other side to part company let go also go, let a family know your true purpose at least, do not resemble a fool returning wasteful on your body time euqally.
After the other side knows, it is to want to hit you to scold you or shed tear, it is situation of your expect thinkable, since want cent, since want to betray, be about to courage faces this one act, be about to courage clears away such ending.
This is responsibility, to oneself and the other side, or still has you new that individual that fall in love with is responsible, responsible to your feeling, ability resembles an open and aboveboard person.
After and say coming out, that person that is injured, just authority chooses to stay or leave you, such ability do not delay the time of others.
Know when him you are so slippery person, perhaps say to know you had ceased to be faithful, his it may not be a bad idea calls in slowly oneself affection.
Call in oneself pay, call in await and expect oneself, just the opportunity encounters nicer person, fit his person more.
This is the basiccest ceremony general, dare begin, also want to dare to face an end, dare to face the route that oneself choose and result.
Such openness, also be the person that passes to love finally explain, even if not good explain, but how does the other side has authority to know and the decision treat you.
This is esteem, also be to take on, probably not quite easy, but since you chose broken, be about face-to-face broken brought wind and rain.
