In a flash, already passed 43 years! Even if is the baby that is born in that catastrophe, already also entered today middleaged. They are mixed probably we are same, did not understand that natural disaster to remember and think what bring to people truly. To each person, lifetime can have two 43 years, had been sacred show appreciation for sb. 43 years, what kind of edificatory should give us?
We always like to say, the person that die already died, the person that be born is well! The person that die, with be apart of our life and death, be in different world, only memory and affection make the tie between us. The person that be born, can let oneself and life reconcile only with time and anguish, half-baked world, can accompany in photograph of the depend on each other in prospective days only however.
In a such special days, most propbably is having the person of different experience, can have different deep feeling. Reconcile with self-confidence, it is Ga father's younger brother when writing this article, in two terms with maximum number of the flash in brain, I also want to use these two words to explain Tang Shan of Nie of not dead, phoenix.
Of Feng Xiaogang " shake of Tang Shan earth " those who make my memory the deepest is mother and daughter after experience is too much twists and turns, bitter reconcile, this is a lengthy process, process that this is injury of an each other, although consanguineous and but tell them, they do not want this, but the heart in oneself, always cannot with the past and present oneself reconcile.
Ga father's younger brother thinks all the time: Of elegy of much generosity of swallow Zhao Zigu person, not be a fine words, use encourage annals and self-abuse however. Natural disaster it may not be a bad idea, person disaster, what after passing, we should think of least of all is this word, more not should with this from exert oneself, want to learn to reconcile however, make oneself vivid give joy joyous song.
We always should learn to reconcile with disaster, 43 years ago, it is the instant only, raze to the ground of a city, nobody is willing to accept such tragic, more nobody is willing part for ever, everything shakes be changed between quake in the day. Want carefully to come, we also can be angry in the life, also meet a person, when God also has mood out of control, the time that just abreacts anger in the mistake, wrong ground is nodded.
We want society and misshapen reconcile, of the family member parting, in letting the life that you did not come to, had forever misshapen, probably you can pledge aux would rather the life that uses oneself changes whole life, but, even if is satisfied, that also is another kind misshapen. We can appreciate the misshapen beauty of Venus only, but cannot become Venus alive absolutely, become the ornament that people lives.
We should learn to reconcile with the destiny, the destiny is very much moment is not us can the palm accuses, not be to try hard to be able to be changed. Cannot change the world, we change ourselves, after all the person is born with so a few years. Wanting not always to be changed with make a stand against, reconciling occasionally is more rational make a stand against.
Ga father's younger brother has many Tang Shan's classmates and friend, I read self-confidence on their body. They also have a family member to die, also have be inferior to too much meaning, but, they still the look that I gave myself alive, there always is the self-confident smiling expression that belongs to oneself on the face. They can be in forever and when fellow villager encountering, with dialect greeting, chitchat.
This is pair of home town approbate and self-confident, this is dialectal to home town approbate and self-confident, this is the self-identity of a kind of spirit, make the mark that each other accept. Had this is self-confident, had rational compromise, the Tang Shan after disaster, city of city of a phoenix, a hero, of Nie of regular meeting phoenix.
Grieve over to leave 242769 our fresh life in that earthquake with this; More the offspring that blesses them and family member, do not have disaster again.