Actually the reason of cold war is the heart has a mood not to think out drain, who is taken first soft was defeated, who apologized to be defeated first, that I excuse me, before you were not known with the other side, are you such person?
If before you quarrel namely refuse to obey soft, rely on to quarrel the person of the order that will safeguard a heart, then I tell you, you what actually the heart comparatives is sensitive, the completely that oneself responsibility pushs, it is the problem of the other side, but is this likely?
A hand is patted not noisy, two people have a problem, where is the fault that why is the other side?
So you should review yourself there is what problem on the body, go correcting oneself problem first, just be important.
So the 2nd respect is not such person before you, was to encounter the other side to let you become like to employ cold war. So I feel you choose a fault really person, the other side and you are together, did not ameliorate you, instead you let be a burden on your addle.
If be sweethearts only,had not become husband and wife, the proposal ponders over this paragraph of emotive to stay seriously, because of each other this affirms cold war is not what favour.
Cold force often is the premise that feeling ends, if you want to continue feeling,go down so, the other side refuses to obey soft, you are taken first soft, give the other side a chance to extricateoneself from an awkward position below.
The family is not battlefield, you and the other side are not the enemy, not necessary employ cold war, it is OK to have really the problem cannot be solved look for psychology to seek advice from division to mediate, not inactive treat, cold war is inactive means, and be opposite who is bad.