In this star and masses are apart from the time that shortens ceaselessly, "The word is much " star, it seems that increasing.
The be current of true person show, of small gain, Ins active... let a lot of can shut up only originally act in a play or the star when the vase, had more speech right.
But did not forget:
Star word is much, not be meddlesome certainly.
After all, the mouth is meant the intention that reveals oneself and 3 view. Light is bright beautiful the person of fine carve of carve of leather bursa, essence is set inside, of outfit more than gas having celestial being, still be firedamp likely.
Is the example that Out of the mouth comes evil. , person sets collapse little still?
A few words make somebody audience awkwardness is disgusting even, natural action is black; Somebody can cause the height like the climax inside audience skull with opinion on public affairs however comfortable, on the spot encircles pink.
Must chat, make wave recently wave comfortable the opinion on public affairs that arrives to wave quickly.
Originate newest first phase " I that girl " --
Of this first phase " I that girl " can cause height comfortable, basically be attributed to two things:
It is Papi sauce and Jiao Junyan about " life sort " dialog.
2 it is big Zhang Wei rancorring father of beautiful type anger is round, wave wave meaning excessive the old, rancorring kin scene that did not put into practice is perfect and video change.
And what is the common feature of Papi sauce and big Zhang Wei?
Carry thoroughly.
To mouth from cerebral loop enough unobstructed is arranged slippery, bring about every word that speaks a mouth, what appearing to make a person comfortable is relaxed.
Will see Papi sauce cause the viewpoint of tremendous controversy in the program first, about " the important sort in life " .
She a person in life, press important rate sort, the result that reach is --
1, oneself 2, spouse 3, the child 4, parents
The elder that be present is urgent:
This is not treason and heresy, off base!
Made not only " heavy lubricious light friend " " it is a center with ego " illness, violated badly still " all things filial piety is first " China tradition goodness...
As expected, this " Munchausen " one exit, father square angry --
The person that lets us do father and mother says, without doubt, the child the first, parents the 2nd;
Most at least won't resemble her same, be in him platoon the first!
The big teacher on the side is direct the front rancorred to go back --
But you just chat with daughter Jiao Junyan, force the apiration that oneself ask she marries to her, do not understand her think of a way again.
Didn't this put oneself the first namely?
Look it is good for children to be like, it is nevertheless substantially engrafting to its ego volition.
This has not been over, of big teacher " rancorring father small theater " still continueing.
Attendant father hold to him without one exception is " put the child the first " , ignored other in part however.
Big teacher raises doubt quickly --
Why do you feel the partner is not main?
It is to feel the spouse won't leave you forever, so not important right?
They feel the spouse won't leave him forever
Do they feel not important to be opposite incorrect?
Here big teacher inwardly angry indissoluble, there was father to step on Lei Chi again there --
He thinks, be in spouse platoon the 3rd, had discharged very in front very in front. Still should have teacher of friend of what brother sister, kin, classmate...
, is this true become the wife what expect into true material fact " the my wife inside cheap " " of chaff wife " ?
Be in spouse platoon the 3rd
Had discharged very in front very in front
Big teacher sneers " assentation " :
Right and right, still should have property, the brother of property, doorway ensures public security...
Allow me to applause please guffaw breaths out Hahahaha one minute.
Big teacher rancors this, it is to let adversary really not battle and be defeated, the person that make watch opens system free from worry ah.
But, the viewpoint of anxious pa, can not be an exemple.
Put the child the first, the position oneself and spouse as far as possible in the future is put, it is the consensus of attendant and all father.
I affirm or discharge the daughter advanced face
In all of one suit " the child is the most important " in the answer, wave wave and attendant youth is same, expect to be able to have the opinion that compares cruel.
At this moment Mr. Yang jumps out, he says: "I did not put the child in the first. "I did not put the child in the first..
I am like do not put the child in the first
Big teacher gets ready want to applause, did not think of he says then --
I am put whole home in the first.
The answer of this a change in form but not in content... wave wave in brain broadcast automatically went out " I love my home " thematic song.
Good, the fact is apparent:
"Put the child the first " , it is our parents the general consensus of one generation.
Sound very great, can wave wave want to say a point not quite the one's innermost thoughts and feelings of pleasant to the ear --
In causing parents and filial concern a lot of " uncomfortable " , be parents this kind of thinking error in ego of the ignored in the family and spouse.
Social existence decides social consciousness, all traditional goodness, have its reality basis actually.
And this was eulogized 100000, "Put the child the first " the father mother love that sense day uses the land, what is its reality soil?
Wave wave think, that circulated one kind namely the system of informal provide for the aged 100000: "Raise prevent old " .
As a result of ancient time lack perfects, the system of social provide for the aged that the system changes, china depends on a tradition all the time " raise prevent old " system of type family provide for the aged.
Northen Wei Dynasty has criminal law " put stay raise close " , if for years,those who point to is convict home old or the grandparent of the disease, parents, and do not have in the home other male fourth serve is raised, have to stop or absolve penal execution, the Shi Yangji that return the home is close.
Spoken parts in an opera, prop up truly " father Ci Zixiao " of filial piety culture, not be the consecratory spirit that what does not seek get one's own back, keep society and the actual demand with steady family however.
Father mothers, it is for " young grow somewhat " ; Child filial piety, it is for " old somewhat eventually " .
This kind concerns, requirement parents and children put opposite party in as far as possible the first, let the other side be in charge of to his life.
Then family of Chinese ancient time, in father and son this kind desertions severally of ego two-way in giving a concern, got the double opposite harmony on material and spirit is stabilized.
Of course, traditional goodness also has the reason that its exist for a long time.
Society of Chinese ancient time is an unit with the family, the family is harmonious, social ability harmony is stable. So in traditional idea, individual consciousness is to should give place to of domestic collective consciousness.
In this kind of concept guidance falls, the principal port of life, not be the be fond of that goes after oneself, help somewhat to whole home however.
Reality said, everybody is the tool of risks of pair of strong family member.
" know to deny " in, if Lan Zheng makes a noise,Mo Lan is mixed, ming Lan did not make an issue along with be punished. A word of aperture wet nurse, reflected sense of this kind of family:
Won't do, today is like Chan Rao she
Be not encourage brothers elder sister the ethos outside place oneself thing
Be like brothers in the future occupied
They look on sb's trouble with indifference
Today bright girl this bat
Let a few sisters know namely
What is a family
However, arrived today, this kind each other desertion of ego two-way give a concern, had become " ability not equal to one's ambition " .
Because increasing person realized gradually:
No matter parents still is children, the life that everybody cannot give opposite party is responsible. Ego is found in every paragraphs of relation, become more and more important.
Young when father give birth to me, Mu Xi brings up me, court death of Laoshi children preserve one's health -- the goodness of such established by usage, there already was tumbledown power today.
Wave waving is not to want to praise of course this kind is tumbledown.
Just, we must face reality: Increasing not the case of support old person appears in great quantities, should employ law to enforce even unborn support old person.
More do not carry those to be mixed in order to hate mad " redound " terrible incident of parents.
The affection that parental undivided attention is children is admittedly moving.
But, if this is planted,fatherly itself is placing pair of redound period make, that welcomed a cruel fact undoubtedly:
"Abandon me to be family " the close affection that type asks each other are responsible between the family member, losing real sense slowly.
Jun Yan of program the part of the body cavity between the diaphragm and the umbilicus housing the spleen says, oneself understand anxious pa actually urge marriage action. He also is him hope after often going, the daughter still has child company.
Papi sauce oppugns: Is the child born to do this namely?
The archaic society with population poor fluidity is early went, a person stays in all one's life same a place, such odds is honest too small.
The youth nowadays, much is north on wide abroad even float, some spending the New Year that cannot return the home.
Below this kind of circumstance, mere for " a child accompanies him " the idea of unripe child, it is disappointment was in on the scratch line simply.
After all, exultation it may not be a bad idea, disappointed, we had stridden oneself responsible to oneself times.
Say to put the child in the negligence ego of the first type, again for say to ignore a spouse.
Papi sauce says her " life importance sort " according to, it is the accident that everybody accompanies time to oneself.
With respect to the time that is yourself him company above all
It is the longest
This lifetime later
I pass together with my spouse
The child and parents are
You accompany them to take a paragraph of route only
Wave wave feel rational of means of this kind of rank has according to, very reasonable.
To modern, can have company effect most, still be oneself spouse of course.
Can say, the spouse is to accompany the person with our the longest time not only, also be at the same time can mix most we are the the person that each other understand, most worth while go treating attentively with valued person. After all, compared with parents, child, the spouse's intelligence, age, growing times and surroundings, with us just be nearest.
But it is in the straight male thinking with traditional idea thicker color, however often apt is mean and worthless oneself chaperon.
For instance Zhou Yi is surrounded -- close in all sorts of open field all the year round, sprinkle the cold water of him wife Zhu Dan.
Cold-shoulder the acting of own wife, make clear clearly even won't cooperate with her, place a pair of ability to prepare high, inviolable attitude.
-- hear you still reject to mix she...
-- right, reject to cooperate with her
-- is at that time to say to feel to be afraid that she pulls your hind leg?
Still feel not to want to this kind acts between sweethearts
-- because she is not professional,be
Awful is, zhu Dan obviously special have deep love for act in a play, and it is very clear also that this weeks are surrounded.
Blow debases him wife even, can you appear is he loftier?
I feel to act in a play very resembling is sacred
Give me a window that open
It is I follow everyday like hitting gallinaceous blood
It is I do not feel tired
How do you throw a damp over to me so
Look substantially, to the spouse do not respect, do not respect to oneself namely actually.
Because be compared at arteries and veins of inherent close affection blood, the spouse just is complete choose by oneself, want hand in hand the object of lifetime ah.
Papi sauce " enrage elder " opinion on public affairs, just carries palpability:
Everybody is right oneself importance, be opposite at everybody oneself real significance.
Blind is paid, can evolve to force only finally, ask for and cry day of grievance that scrapes the ground.
The nominal place that a lot of parents are making no less than love does --
When children cannot choose, make the child passive bear they " abandon ego " of type pay; After children is grown, want again with " I paid so much for this home " of type accuse, of children of hold sb under duress freewill.
From the ego that loses oneself, to the ego that does not respect the child, form vicious circle of a bloodcurdling...
The relation of volition of ego of this kind of each other plunder, trample, had reduced morbid state.
Pay without the head already undeserved eulogized.
In this times, understanding is more important than consecrate.
Avery kind of concerns, it may not be a bad idea kissing affection, love, should learn " selfish " a bit, bilateral ability is met better off.
Go up from essence after all for, pay without a kind on the world, do not seek get one's own back.
Hitting " do not seek get one's own back " of banner pay, often more terrible.
