1, by person humiliate -- fall out is inferior to turning over, life is inferior to try to make a good showing
2, face crosscurrent -- listen, and ponder over the reaction with opposite redo
3, err -- junior and flighty not sufficient strange, know a fault to be able to change Zhen Junjie
4, distraction -- worry cannot say casually
5, rumor -- cannot ignore, also cannot pester go down
6, the complexion of others -- need not too care about, do the thing that oneself should do
7, be on the bench -- be an upright person should take, put
8, ill-gotten wealth -- gentleman loves money, take have
9, into row -- male be afraid of wrong travel, female be afraid of marry poor man
10, make friend -- friend but " much " but not " excessive "
11, handle affairs ask friend -- the friend is fast knife hand more
12, to apply for a job is rejected -- do reinstate ability to prove his from small part
13, requirement raises -- ask oneself the bottom energy of life is full
14, find new job -- " jump " or " do not jump " , look before you leap
15, the privacy that discovers others -- regard the private affairs of others as as transient as a fleeting cloud
16, argue with the person -- show off temporarily of talking around do not calculate quickly win
17, appear small contradiction -- let 3 minutes calm, remove one condition unrestrained and far -ranging
18, be misunderstood -- him heart is installed, heaven and earth from wide
19, reject others -- be brave in to say " not " , this " mouth " when should go out " mouth "
20, experience as person of low position -- be on guard carefully, maintain measurable distance
21, strive for fame and wealth -- block of Mo Wei fame and gain looks at an eye
22, later grass does not eat -- good " horse " should eat later careless, can Quneng extends v/arc true man
23, mediate -- the society mediates a dispute, make concessions to avoid trouble is popular
24, conversation offends a person -- the mouth that runs oneself
25, critical others -- a bit more euphemistic, a bit more implicative, a bit cleverer, be an upright person should take superabundant land
26, show up one's fault -- hit a person not to make a face, uncover a person to fasten show up one's fault
27, " suddenly turn hostile " -- it is a kind of skill, also be one kind needs
28, the business competes -- advantage does not want him to occupy absolutely, other wanting cent a cup of a thick soup
29, face him aversion -- society and the person coexist that do not like
30, complain -- the person that registers dissatisfaction on the mouth is in an unfavorable situation the most easily
31, animosity -- loss loss photograph signs up for when, enemy does not sign up for Yi Jun child
32, others slips -- the heart with wide person is wide oneself, with excuse me person of heart excuse me
33, be in an unfavorable situation -- be in an unfavorable situation to gain extra advantage unfairly namely sometimes, let a person one pace world is wide
34, get comity person -- return good for evil is optimal favor investment
35, the person falls in eave -- when should lowering his head, must lower his head
36, the crossroad of life -- without complain without regret I take my route
37, ask for help -- the strength that be apt to lends other, return so that beg when this ask for help
38, derisive -- regard as the understanding defect, opportunity that corrects defect
39, frustrated -- the flower before viewing law court blossoms fall, look universal cloud cirrus easy
40, those who face others is frustrated -- must not character complacent thing of oneself
41, setback -- drop the life ability that character rises and fall creates great exploits
42, be despised -- with the action, is not to use mouth to prove his
43, experience is unjust -- get used to what must suit, the change can change
44, have unrecognized talent -- hard him burnish, gold always can give off light
45, affair -- what cannot bear in life is heavy, what cannot bear in marriage is painful
46, part company -- good it is even good to get together medicinal powder
47, the belongings before marriage is notarial -- love is measured after all with what
48, try marriage -- discreet try out
49, husband chilly quarrels -- quarrel overtax one's nerves, not was necessary to contend for you to be defeated by me to win
50, envious -- of love of put an end to and happiness most intense " bane
