Darling comes, housework turns over times alive, how is duty field mom done easily calm? See mom how

Darling comes, household work turns over times, look after children, do chore, work even, how is duty field mom done easily calm? Will listen to mom how to say.

Parents canzonet checks: Who does the chore of your home more?

27% old people

18% husband and wife are assumed jointly

25% baby-sitter

21% wives

9% husbands

Old baby profession: Financial, the mom of 3 years old of boys

My home is to compare typical 3 generation to be the same as hall, at ordinary times the old person helps see the child, housework also is an old person assumed comparison is much. No matter be to issue class hind at ordinary times, still be on the weekend, I see the child namely with the main task of husband, do chore, it is to want to let an old person rest on one hand, also be to hope to accompany the child as far as possible more on the other hand.

Our or looks after children on the weekend go out to play, or goes going up to teach a course early, the time that is in the home so is not much. Waited for the child to sleep only, ability is available do a few chore, clear away for example, arrange. Basically two people complete I and husband these work together, for example he cleans a room, I wash the dress, divide the work without clear housework, it is we can show sympathy each other, household work two people are done together, can finish earlier, breakfast rests, because look after children very tired really.

My body is occasionally uncomfortable, can sleep to a married woman's parents' home one evening, make a bit adjust, husband meets a person carry a mission that look after children. Little boy is very piquant still, I am very so clear a person takes him to have much trouble, I had been adjusted, also can make husband much rest, what oneself assume is some morer. Same, occasionally husband falls ill need rests, I also can bring the child to a married woman's parents' home, can let him rest well, restore as soon as possible.

I feel, it is very important to show sympathy each other between husband and wife, because outer now job is not comfortable, if the husband still is old man creed, think housework and the word that looking after children is the duty of the wife, that is about to go side wall. Conversely same also, the wife should become him empress, hope husband is served everywhere, that affirmation can be troubled by contradiction. Compare the heart the heart, communicate actively, housework won't make husband and wife's contradictory fuse.

Wu Chenjia profession: The client takes on, the mom of 2 years old of girls

Housework this problem, optimal is to assume an in part severally of course, but ideal always has difference with actual hard to avoid. If to come true " ideal " bumpy, still be inferior to considering other method, not embarrassed oneself, not embarrassed also others.

I follow him thing that husband is him all the time to do, but resemble cleaning a room such thing, I love to arrange, he is more optional, I importune him to do, he feels to do not have necessary, do everybody is not happily instead. After having baby, housework turns over times alive, I am duty field mom, the job is busy also, feel really ability not equal to one's ambition. So, flat asked an aunt to help clean, let tripartite come " mediation " , I am relaxed, husband also does not try to do a difficult job as best one can, kill two birds with one stone, he Le is. Housework this kind of thing, not insoluble.

I feel occasionally, because we are staring at one the individual's defect to look only,contradiction is. Although husband does not love to clear away a house, but, he is willing to accompany the child. Do not love oneself child without father, be born from the child case, be about to haul husband in the cavalcade that takes care of darling, this bit is very important, if think husband is hinderous, what oneself undertake the whole thing, the result is the father that brings up a be nobody's business for certain. I often look to husband a few love articles of pair of darling disposition fictile about father, so, want to not be away on official business only, he takes care of the child very gladly, darling also likes to be together with father.