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" mom is preterhuman " the 3rd season broadcasts up to now, wind is judged invert the biggest is Huang Sheng according to this pair of mothers child. From at the outset by Diss of netizen insanity conjecture, to the preterhuman mom that changes to make a person speak highly of personally, huang Sheng is depended on let a netizen be sincerely convinced eventually.
The program just broadcasted, huang Sheng is depended on and although Yang Andi is a mother child, but apparent " character 8 shoulds not " , be without tacit understanding not only, even every arrive to interact with close Mom, every cell that Andy fluctuates all over is expressing to defy it seems that. Huang Sheng depends on the motion that makes any propinquity had been shown, andy twists be affectedly bashful to hold, not quite willing.
Newest first phase, the inadequacy that yellow Shengyitong crossed the extract of editing and rearrangement of program series to discover his eventually -- do a business too dedicated so often the sound of oversight Andy, see those who be less than Andy appeal to beg, come 2 toward, the child is met only silent of taller and taller Leng Chen.
Is Huang Sheng is depended on a competent mom? I think everybody of not be up to sb to decide is commented this a little bit, an Dicai is the person with individual the then latest meeting.
After the program broadcasts, the person of strong president sets Andy cold face to collapse gradually, the boy with this sensitive and exquisite heart begins to accept slow enthusiastic big mom.
Like should existing originally as gravitation, there is primitive appeal forever between mom and child, they are yearning for each other attention and love. Limbs petty action of Cong Andi can see, this won't be conveyed, do not love to stir, heart sensitive and flimsy little boy from only then come to love in what yearn for mom eventually. To be not rejected, detection, negligence, what then the boy laps him is hard powerful, pretend not alone, pretend not to need, pretend very sensible.
But under firm false appearance, perhaps Lian Huangsheng is depended on oversight -- Andy just is mixed with age the child is same effeminate little boy, resemble " reply please 1988 " the monologize that after Li Deshan is upset by unkindness, says: "Again sensible child also is the child. "Again sensible child also is the child..
First time kiss, act like a spoiled child for the first time, mom of boast of first time beautiful type... Andy is crossed went out more and more " the first pace " , he learned him expression slowly, fear to expose oneself weakness and inadequacy no longer.
Most the one act that allows me to touch is Andy and brother mother when sleeping together, he did not let mom sensibly be next to a little brother, ask actively to sleep beside mom however that position. He resembles wool caterpillar same loiter arrives beside mom, holding mom in the arms not let go.
In that momently, we see that silent and sensible child leaves from the corner eventually, became a meeting to act like a spoiled child, can cry painful, meeting rich pays close attention to, meet 6 years old of when strive for love little boys.
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See Andy, I still think of another little boy.
Chen Kexin has filmed with IPhonex a small film " 3 minutes " .
Fourth man of the boy in the story has a mother that does attendant on a train, annual Spring Festival fourth man cannot be mixed mom passes together, now and then mom has a holiday come home, very severe also to him, although mom passes hind often self-condemned regret.
To spend the New Year He Dingding sees one side, fourth fourth mom lets him stand in the train such as train site transient, meet, ding Ding disregarded the block the way of mom kindness to have 99 multiplication table with respect to the back, 3 precious minutes meet time with " ninety-nine thousand seven hundred and ninety-one " ending, mother child two still do not have there's still time to talk well, mom was set foot on again itinerary.
And Ding Ding so hold to, because mom ever had said with him,be, if still write down bad multiplication a pithy formula, cannot press down before last elementary school, do not see mom.
Too too sensible child always lets popular feeling ache. A lot of moment, we like to use " sensible " go measuring a child " good " standard, but to the child, sensible be a favour certainly?
A movie that makes me remember profundity " the lifetime of the pine nut that is cold-shouldered " in, heroine discovery plays the part of ability of humourous funny face to let father spread out smile to oneself, then she is making humourous mask used as a toy all the time. But serious work, she of sensible housekeeping, touch the little sister that falls ill nevertheless to cough however. Father's love tilted entirely on little sister body, her pay it seems that of course. The pine nut that is short of love finally breaks away from former unripe family, chasing after ceaselessly lamentable lifetime is spent in love and be being abandoned.
Sensible child is used to conversion to think, be full of the heart that be the same as manage, know how to denounce person favor, sacrifice oneself small increase and be fond of go helping sb to fulfill his wishes someone else. Set his mind at to let parents, sensible child depresses his individual character and demand hard, look be like the clever joy with they true?
Know on a card is called " is sensible child happy? " , the answer exceeds 5000, before nodding assist 10 answer advocate the answer is " joyless " .
A lot of parents hope the child as a child sensible, but somebody has asked them, are you happy really?
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On June 1 when the Children's Festival, the company organized a small query, the work in the same placing that lets become Mom says sign of a blessing to the child, among them a mom says: "I hope you do not want too sensible. "I hope you do not want too sensible..
This mom says, oneself ate a lot of " too sensible " suffering. In one's childhood not quite good because of the condition in the home, so she does not stretch her hand to ask actively what. Not happy oneself are digested silently, the problem also dare not say with parents, look at the beautiful clothing leather shoes in shopwindow, with age the child's toy is candied, she feels embarrassed to say with mom mouth " I also want " .
"Always take care of the mood of others, forgot oneself grievance then, as time passes, was used to. After be brought up, I also very admire those frank people, what to want, what to like, what to experience, direct expression comes out. Wanting to make a daughter too sensible is to hope she can be in she is troubled by in should piquant age go laughing, resemble an ordinary child be brought up euqally. Resemble an ordinary child be brought up euqally..
Why is the child too sensible? Besides the reason of corporeal respect, the parent also has one part reason.
Domestic condition of Andy everybody be obvious to all, what he lacks is not material, be accompanied however and safe feeling. With the heart very big mom forms contrast, andy is a sensitive child as a child, he knows carefully watch what sb is doing and saying, know father mother is times more to the little brother take care of, at ordinary times very busy cannot accompany oneself, built a solid castle to oneself so, tell oneself not alone, because had been been used to.
Actually, sensible child is not inborn sensible, form slowly because of the environment all round however. What father mother can do is to give them many a little bit company and safe sense, express your love to them not miserlily, serious listen respectfully their aspirations and little sentiment, make them trustful you, let them know father mother can be depended on, can guard oneself, fight harm for oneself.
Huang Sheng is depended on ever had said to hope Andy resembles a man. But want to know, no matter how fierce man is to grow not big little boy before mom, we like " free-standing " " brave " " firm " this kind of label is stuck on child body, but had thought, is this also a kind of insalubrious try to help the shoots grow by pulling them upward-spoil things by excessive enthusiasm? Father mother also should learn conversion to think, experience childishness, know the rhythm that holds the child to grow and sense of property.
Of course besides these, father mother also can give them to make psychological construction originally with draw, let them be brave in to express them mood and feeling. For instance before me paragraph the draw that the life looks this " the frog that won't swim " , those who tell about is kink of a small frog for ages eventually to father mother " face-off " the story that oneself won't swim.
Won't swimming as a frog is extremely deep disgrace simply, was thought to hide this thing, small frog is troubled by gave a lot of jest. The appearance of small frog kink resembles extremely the child in real life -- be ashamed at telling father him mother blemish and weakness, exam take an examination ofing was bungled to taking examination paper to dare not take the door, dare not say to want that favorite small skirt with them...
The ending of the story has love very much, small frog eventually encouraged told father mother, who knows father mother to say unexpectedly -- we know, dear, in you or tadpole when we knew.
Be, parents always knows the child most, although know small frog won't swim, but father mother does not have pair of his disappointment not only, and the selection does not go expose he, to him time lets him grow slowly.
Go up according to the body from Andy and yellow emperor, we still can see, even if lack company and love, but the child is the child, they are satisfied easily love altruisticly again, want you to pay only 50% , they can return you 100 percent, I believe, andy can love mom more and more certainly.
And " I want a not quite sensible child " means -- the child, I do not need you too outstanding, achievement is much better, how considerate, how to get brave adamancy, free-standing and own... hope however you ah, happy comfortable, ordinary lovely, be brought up slowly down the contrail of sunshine enough.
