I call Liu Aiqin, this year 67 years old. I have two sons 3 girls. Live in the city besides 2 sons and daughter-in-law. We live in the country. The grandchildren of my 2 sons home is fast 4 years old, but still do not have a mouth to be in charge of me to call me the grandma, although 2 sons are lived in,be in the city, but drive go back namely distance of 40 minutes, this since 2 daughter-in-laws gave birth to the child, no matter be holiday,still spend the New Year they had not gone back a few this years. It is 2 sons are met only now and then take grandchildren to drive will see us, hurriedly come hurriedly go, grandchildren is fast 4 years old, it is a Lilliputian essence, the mouth that met me is closely, do not call even the grandma.
Before paragraph time, I feel all-overish is bloated, come the examination in the city, the doctor says is serious nephritis, call me be in hospital. A few my girls marry a person, because be returned so that look after children in the home, did not accompany me. Only the eldest son came. Deal with formalities of be in hospital to me, my eldest son calls to the second, just know he is away on official business recently went other place. The second says to call me to set one's mind at in the phone recuperate, still say he says to his daughter-in-law, call her to taking grandchildren to see me. But arrived the following day, 2 daughter-in-law also did not come. My eldest son says he goes, take the quilt with one bit more comfortable bed to me incidentally. But before long, eldest son came back, he is low head says 2 daughter-in-law did not call even the door him, when the eldest son says to lend one bed the quilt, 2 daughter-in-law say her home does not have redundant quilt actually. I listen to a heart in very sad, couldn't help crying in the hospital.
I know, 2 daughter-in-law are right I such, the reason is at the outset when she gives birth to the child, call to me call me to was being helped in the past serve confinement to bring grandson. Although big daughter-in-law gives birth to the child when, it is the child that I bring to the confinement that serve. But when waiting for 2 daughter-in-law to give birth to the child, I am to be impassable really. Just leased a land on hill because of eldest son of not long ago, raised duck of hundreds of chicken, still have a few sheep and ox. Ability to walk of my old partner is bad, gallinaceous field does not have a person to take care of, have I and eldest son only at ordinary times managing, everyday my day is not light have to rise, feed chicken to feed duck to be returned so that put flocks and herds, return so that cook everyday next.
I myself draw out money to introduce a sister-in-law of our village to took care of the confinement of 2 daughter-in-law in the past at that time, but she just did not have a few days, 2 daughter-in-law disrelish her dirty call her to come back. Be less than two years of time, a few contagion almost all gallinaceous duck death ray, eldest son later compensate many money, still owed external debt. But 2 daughter-in-law blame say us,earned big money to return go about telling people how hard up one is. It is these a few years almost broke off contact with us, these things call me to connect the opportunity of an explanation to be done not have.
Do not get this disease originally, I still am wanting to go 2 sons live in a paragraph, helping look after children, with them slowly relation, but the practice of this 2 daughter-in-law is cold also my heart. I do not know this how ability unlock this a knot in one's heart, my age is older and older now, still discussing with the old partner originally, the there is ten now external debt in eldest son home, return so that rely on 2 sons to feed us later, but look now, I am really afraid often should not have place to depend on · of · of · of · · ·
