Affection, marriage, the family is affection story build up the ground, like to pay close attention to me, pay close attention to the marital affection world of every phenomenon of diverse and confused.
Civil / Zhang Ping
We often say: "I love this individual " , but, is how many person is known truly " love " ?
In average person eye, love even if want to be together with him, want to talk about love with him, want to be together all the time with him. And I feel, this at most namely " like " , a kind of the most peripheral men and women concerns.
Real love, besides the condition that likes to have, more should be: "All good points that accept the other side, defect, and his family " !
01,
My friend small glow parted company with the boy friend recently, when she is recounted to me, I think she will be very sad, very Bei is bitter. But, I consider a fault, I did not see sad mark from her complexion, she is very calm, it seems that she had forgotten this paragraph of feeling thoroughly.
When small glow says she is very small, father mother left her because of traffic accident, that moment got brushstroke to compensate gold all grandfather grandma is custodial, be used in order to make sure I go to school in the future.
Remember the 2nd year after parents dies, uncle says to want to build a house, want to ask grandfather grandma divert that my money, grandfather grandma dare to die does not agree, they know uncle mother is not what good woman, be afraid of have borrow without still. More perhaps be to be afraid that I am nescient in the future can go up.
Because of this thing, uncle uncle mother is mixed thoroughly grandfather grandma fall out with sb, to uncle uncle mother is mixed rarely after that grandfather grandma comes and go, actually, I know, this is for me. I see the eyes of grandfather grandma anxiety get.
Later, did not cross grandfather misfortune a few years to die, because white hair person sends black hair the person,perhaps be, because,be probably more of uncle ruthless, just grandfather of many years old 50 died. Close a key point in the grandfather that momently, I look come out his acedia expression, and the anguish of a kind of loath to part from each other. I know, he is to worrying about a grandma, worry about me, after all we are two young women.
I understood all expectation of the grandfather, I pledge, had been close friends certainly later filial grandma, for attend upon a dying relative of her provide for the aged, do not take care of her from what do not abandon.
02,
In grandma endure all kinds of hardships take care of below, my successful university graduates, to take care of a grandma I attend a college also is the city that is in the home, apply for a job to also look for to still calculate around possible work.
Person, in what the age can encounter what trouble, this is a law it seems that, escape to also do not escape, I am such also.
Did not work how long, the Xiaoli of the unit has been shown to me again and again, because just entered a society, I very fear, did not promise him in very long period of time. I think such his meetings shrink back from difficulties, but, I consider a fault, he or as always good to me.
Because be short of the love that lost father and mother as a child, slowly I by this the warmth of big boy is penitentiary, also do not know from when to begin, we were together.
I am taking him to see my grandma, the grandma likes this northwest big boy very much, but, I see a few unpleasantness from his eyes however, he appears not very respects my grandma. Think now, I part company with respect to this at the outset, much better, must arrive affection arrives in, just rip what the heart cracks lung to part company.
03,
Later, to save chummage, I also feel this man is my husband in the future, agree with he and me to live in grandma home. At the beginning, how I also was cared about, but, time is long, his practice on a few things, I see no less than going to really.
He does not like my grandma, say: "The grandma still has a son, the son that why doesn't invite him is raised, must let my young woman raise? Must let my young woman raise??
When he speaks these words, hurt my heart really, I also tell him all things, why it is important that he still does not understand a grandma to have many to me, uncle is grandma of impossible provide for. No matter how I explain, he is inexorable go, still say: "Or else sends the grandma, part company " . I want to be less than really, that warm warm big boy unexpectedly heart is so little.
Contend for brawl to make a noise a many month, the grandma also sees my anguish, she is worn in the plan it seems that what.
A raining night, I come home to did not see a grandma, I everywhere search, the phone also closes machine. The sort of anguish that loses father and mother, emerged again at that time my mind, I called the police, search in that way ah search, wait ah etc, after 4 hours, I receive the telephone call of constabulary uncle, let me go police station receives a grandma to come back.
When me hurriedly when running to police station, I see all over drenched grandma, it is so abjection, so make me sad. Police station says to me, find in graveyard, I know, the grandma is to see a grandfather. When a woman is sad, friendless when, perhaps be fond of her what she thinks most to love her man namely.
04,
After experiencing this thing, I woke up to reality thoroughly, this man does not belong to me, do not know me, do not love me. What he wants is the desire of own heart only, want him joy not to have care, no matter the feeling of others is mixed painful.
I him all things had been arranged, put in the doorway, wrote a piece of scrip: "I am sorry, I think we do not suit really, you go! Do not ask me the reason, you also do not understand forever, everything what because you had not experienced me,experience " !
A man is again good to you, if connect your family to cannot be accepted, so his is affectation very, it is impure foreign matter, impure.
Actually, I feel small glow at the beginning love, it is one kind moves affection, be become that big boy those who did his " father " , from this boy body experience is short of the father that miss to love.
And, the big boy that this northwest comes to, the urban stay that to can be in Guangzhou flourishs this, chose local born and bred small glow, we cannot say he does not have a purpose. Calculate him how to be opposite again small glow is good, but the grandma that cannot accept small glow all the time, this is a kind of subconscious selfishness is mixed disobedient, small glow is fortunately seasonable made make a decision, and indifferently continuity lives, feel for her really rejoice.
If a man does not do the thing that values your place, again good to you be equal to 0.
Do you feel?
Author brief introduction: Zhang Ping, psychology seeks advice from division, marital family seeks advice from division, an intention writes the writer of affection story!
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