The friend that if be in a country,lives only may have felt, it is very difficult really that the country marries a son's wife now. Though have some of country male young person in every respect the condition is very pretty good, but they had run quickly early however 3, have a lot of even already 30 several lone still. Marry to invite oneself son, some countries father and mother is exert really all over skill.
Advanced day, when smallholder is chatting with neighbour, chatting to chatting to talk about his son, that boy has had 29 years old nowadays, date frequency also not less than 10, but finally is end in order to fail. And be in three days ago when return a girl with other village to date, but the result is same. When this father is talking at the same time with smallholder often total meeting is sighing, and say: How does present son marry a son's wife so tired where ah? ! In before the left and right sides dates 3 times only at most when he marries, if much still meet by person jest. And when it talking about rural youth why to marry is difficult to talking about rural youth why to marry, that neighbour spoke these 3 plain truth.
The first, male much more female little
The side is serious in our country male light female thought is too serious, wanting to give birth to a boy to pass only ancestor receive era, the burning incense in good continuance home. And no matter be the boy or girl,can be born before, but now medicine developed nowadays, also can spend money to give birth to schoolboy daughter according to him idea. And now if where home is firstborn a daughter, the word allows reborn of the 2nd embryo is a boy, some families still can give birth to the 3rd embryo even also is a son. Come so, marry daughter-in-law to be sure it is very difficult to be met!
The 2nd, conjugal doorsill is taller and taller
I marry previously at that time, do not have what betrothal gifts at all of what. But what resemble now sixty thousand and six, eighty thousand and eight etc, still have in some places even theory jin say. The demand of the girl that the most crucial is now also is higher and higher, tile-roofed house can not want a building, minibus also is no good, want sedan ability is OK, the most important is bank deposit still must have. But you see us which not be very average farmer, said to just also want to seek an a young married woman again well auspicious day too. Still have, it is so good that you treat present social condition, marriage hind wants young couple to agree hard only, increase bit of fund plus parents, buying a room to buy a car is not a problem at all, do not know how those mother-in-law that want Gao Caili think really, do not know the daughter that also meets oneself so increases pressure? !
The 3rd, present rural girl likes to go to run in the city
Now rural girl ah be actualer and actualer, because do not want to continue to live in the country, wanting to be married only so go inside the city. And no matter be to earn money,work inside the city, what still go to school is other perhaps stay inside the city entirely almost, and still have a lot of waited for in the city 30 several fail to find a target, but anyway they are won't inside the country. When every time has come home to pass a part, of the be gorgeously dressed that can dress up oneself, which meeting look gets the boy that gets on those is in inside the factory to work!
Actually this neighbour of smallholder is very solid sincere old farmer, to the problem that the rural young person that he says marries, the truth that was not is done not have. But this idea that just also belongs to him himself and viewpoint, also cannot say so 100 percent correct. Smallholder thinks, of angle different, view and viewpoint also are met very much identical, the daughter that said to which parents does not think him again moreover can marry a good other people?
