Yu Feihong go up again heat up search.
Fan go up her it is one numerous youth this actually.
She is in in those days " clang clangs 3 people go " extract is turned over, be called " the monster-revealing mirror of old man " , her speak bluntly is mixed about marriage lone viewpoint, make a youth straight breathe out " 3 view! Cruel! " , be just as grace to hit a face to reside appoint the site that meets an aunt.
In this backside, it is instantly increasing lone woman is called " remnant daughter " , because " lone did not marry " , they are carrying enormous public opinion pressure on the head, feel ineffable angst.
Yu Feihong's answer is clear: "Nobody wants " and " do not want to marry " it is two things.
the youth wants to say this.
Cruel, have nothing to do the age.
Today, we talk about this not old goddess.
40 not marriage how
Actually, yu Feihong also is not to be faced for the first time " single issue " , but her neither haughty nor humble answer, always hit the heart of many people, she 47 years old looks, more important is him regression, single body, marry, "I feel which more comfortable, lie which phase " .
And those who let a person admire is, she always is the conjecture buy this type indifferently, "Conjecture is the freedom of others, work with my why " ? Do not mind also not evasive, express oneself point of view gracefully, say other people so that be sincerely convinced.
"40 one branch spends the man, woman 40 sodden tea-leaf " , this word older generation often hangs mouth edge, always finished the course of study, woman that spent 25 years old, single state can suffer doubt.
And Yu Feihong faces this problem to also do not have sideslip, not confused not random ground speaks the most essential equality of men and women, won again. Everybody has fall only possibility, many lone men live very wonderfully, this problem arrived on female body, change flavour?
Actually this problem, no matter be aimed at female or male, why to always feel one individual life is met dull? If inner world is abundant, it is a person, can you also live well?
"The loneliness of two people " , still be inferior to " of a person orgiastic " , yu Feihong sees marriage, success will come when conditions are ripe of be particular about, if close not to come, force together to live, more resembling is torment.
So the angle that stands in the male, why should marry? "Conjugal advantage " be?
To this problem, feng Tang Saixu a long time, still feel " compare it's hard to say " , "Had owed a family very much, the family wants to marry again, that writtens guarantee, be so a kind of state of mind " .
The marriage that Feng Tang Suo says, more resemble helping sb to fulfill his wishes helplessly, take bit of have to interest, if every marriage is such, next a knot in one's heart can fall in how many popular feeling.
It is when they are bombastic, yu Feihong put forward to challenge eventually: "I listen to you two chatting, have special the place that does not understand, why the angle from the man, is marrying to feel right a kind of almsgiving of the woman? Is marrying to feel right a kind of almsgiving of the woman??
Everybody is right marriage, have respective view, if the person waters, changes in temperature knows oneself, and what Yu Feihong values more is the individual is experienced, just cannot tolerate the other side so " be forced from " state of mind.
Those are accordingly bridal, get card to be in her eye, compare at two people get along, appear be indifferent to, it is feeling of a kind of ceremony only. Somebody needs, " be willing to get legal acknowledgement " , if also did not have nothing to do with, this does not explain two people do not love each other, just " we do not care about law to admit " just.
Always say on mouth of a lot of people " independent " , but face all sorts of " alluring " , the person that accomplishs truly really can be counted on one's fingers, I think, the reason that everybody likes Yu Feihong is the independent appearance that she makes the ideal in female memory truly.
What is what she is clear that she wants, it is good to live comfortably.
See Yu Feihong afresh before half a lifetime, you can discover she lives so that can connect really to appear, grow beautifully, think only " took petty gain " stopped, when anything crops up certainly and easy, him follow first heart.
In the process that grow, she is trying from beginning to end and break through.
Yu letter family circumstances liberals, to escape that " too too lineal, traditional " domestic atmosphere, after Hangzhou read a year of university, she checked boreal film.
Her college fellow student evaluates her so:
Her college fellow student evaluates her so::
She is our in a few girls the cleverest, do what business in a planned way.
We are busy love when, she learns English however, so that can use English to act in a play later,live;
We sleep lie-in when, she drills morning meritorious service was not late once every day however, obtain scholarship finally;
She says to want to attend 1500 meters ran, we are not believed, did not think of she ran to still take the place;
In the life she has a principle more, she decided light-off to lying on the bed partly at 10 o'clock at 11 o'clock, unlike my light-off just nodding a candle hastily to wash gargle is helter-skelter very.
Most beginning an individual is very envious her, the person grows cleverly, learn good, the performance often also gets praising, nevertheless finally is unfeignedly admired.
Nevertheless finally is unfeignedly admired..
This kind is broken through and control oneself, also reflect in her the life later chooses in.
Big 3 when, yu Feihong is directed by Hollywood foreign citizen of Chinese origin pitch on, piece performed the film " meeting happy blessing " . She is to have almost according to the boreal film that can check the first gives the student that performs film of Hollywood mainstream company.
Suffer Liu Dehua to invite later, in " day and ground " counteract him to perform adversary play.
Graduation stays school became a year of assistant, the decision goes to the United States studying abroad -- " one is to want to learn English particularly, still another is spent freely namely. Still another is spent freely namely..
After going back to the motherland, she is in teleplay " pull a hand " in acted screen " small 3 " originator, with figure of indicating a third party numerouses people to differ on screen in the future, yu flies to what the Wang Chun that grand acts won an audience however to love.
In career career when, she by the short story " ginkgo, ginkgo " move, wang Shuo encourages her to adapt its for the film, then she decides with great concentration is studied, oneself are carried had the heavy responsibility such as playwrite, director, main actor, through burnish of a few years, won the optimal a maiden work that Beijing University laid film festival 2010 finally award.
The actors of the corresponding period, squeeze broken head ground to want it seems that bright red big violet, and every pat Yu Feihong after a drama, meet 3 years before fading out of act two.
Actually the acting by her, actual strength, if exposure is bit more, early should be celebrity of a gleam of.
About " red " , she says more sturdily: "What I care myself is immanent grow " .
The child that resembles keeping curious however egoistically forever child: "Because that is my life. Spend oneself youth at will, I think how waste is how wasteful, thank everybody. Thank everybody..
| I want to do a cadaverous person |
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In the interview, she ever stated she wants to do a cadaverous person, "I like cadaverous, you want to know, I like it bland, I want this, the life that I did not miss otherwise is cadaverous at all " .
Everybody says she is the person with an affection extremely high quotient, knowing because of her " it is a process evenly " , "Arrived age became old ability discovery, life itself is a thing that is without a meaning. Life itself is a thing that is without a meaning..
And " we must have grow to have taste alive, because life itself is insignificant,be actually, just can look for a few significant issues to do so " , so, doing a cadaverous person also do not do not have a meaning, a bit simpler instead however more muddy asperses freely.
■ " actually any good with bad, I now is very the calm is faced "
She thinks: "Regard the flesh as the body or body, an Everyman should live go down, I had not thought so philosophy, what I would rather live is laic like. What I would rather live is laic like..
Her calm accepts everything his, like before growing process, accept oneself gladly also present condition.
Young when, the United States stays on appearance; After maturity, the United States stays on temperament.
Must admit, her Yan Zhi already very circle pink, but more of stamp person is her " advanced beauty " , attitude grace, advanced and not high-key.
She the age with 47 years old, speak soberly about the woman most the marriage that care about, appearance, grow, and how does a wife live more comfortably.
Should be asked about: "Do you feel you are what kind of after 30 years? "Do you feel you are what kind of after 30 years??
She says: "At least hopes I am healthy, what kind of be indifferent to. What kind of be indifferent to..
Hope we face this problem, also so can simple reply leisurely.
