Military school of Guangzhou yellow Bu " confect military affairs " summer camp: Abandon doting, the laziest love
Your children is not your children. They are the children that life yearns for to produce to oneself.
Their by you are born, but either come from you, although be beside you, do not belong to you however.
You can give them your love, is not your thought, because they have their idea.
My the body that protects them, is not their soul, because their soul lives in you in the dream also cannot look forward to reachs tomorrow.
You should learn to them, is not to make they resemble you. Because life won't be regressive, also won't flow yesterday even.
You are bend, children is blast off from you and give animated arrow.
Bow hand is looking at the arrow target on lasting way, he can be applied pull open you with all one's strength, make his arrow is shot fast far.
Happy ground is inflectional in bow hand! Because he loves volitant arrow, also love stable bend.
We tell doting cent to plant -- monopolize model mix fondly abandon doting. Monopolize model doting enough already how terrible, but with monopolize model doting photograph is compared, abandon doting harm is more serious.
Because,this is, will tell commonly, monopolize model the child that doting education comes out, esteem parents, esteem others, also abide by law and ethical morality, they just lost ego. But contrary, education of abandon doting meeting goes " the hell of other " and " social enemy " , indulging model doting in grown child, there are oneself only in their heart, they do not respect parents, despise others, also disregard law and ethical morality, they think only wanton and for.
Such OK telling, monopolize model doting in, parents regarded the child as " of ego outspread " , the child became the duplicate of parental become rigid, and indulging model doting in, parents does the child of one's own accord " of ego outspread " , they are the child's hand and feet, ground of be most willing to goes accepting the child's direct. In abandon doting family, the child is householder, and parents absolutely obedient.
This is a kind of conversed love, it is a kind of most lazy love, also be most the love that goes against child ego to grow.
