Relation of wife and mother is one of topics that the Chinese does not circle all the time it seems that, common saying says a woman affects 3 acting people well, if can have handled this relation, so the family can have a very stable base, natural also can the home and all things are promoted. The pa of new advance grandma that lives in Shanghai considers a gentleman recently however indeed happy do not rise, the problem that he troubles, of the wife that comes from oneself just about and mother get along problem. Before the mother that visits a gentleman paragraph time ability is not far hurry to Shanghai 10 thousand lis to hope to be able to take the small grandson that brings his to promote feeling from native place, also was side young couple to ease a few pressure that look after children, consider a gentleman to feel this is originally again good the business that does not pass, after all oneself and wife job are busy now, the old person can help oneself are OK also prep bent on works. But what its development is inferior to considering a gentleman to imagine however is so good.
When having a meal, coming home midday is wife be the chef cooks, the wife still enquired designedly consider a gentleman, the mother likes to take what course, add made the food that considers gentleman mother dear to eat, the hope can give a mother-in-law a good impression, consider a gentleman to make allowances for the painstaking He Xianhui of the wife, very gratified, the wife also washs his hands preparation adopts the child come over to feed him to eat order dishes, who knows at that time mother however board had facial conversation: "Who allows a woman to look after children on of the desk! " the wife feels strange greatly, return path: "Mom you this is what word, darling follows me hungry, our family eats a meal well! Our family eats a meal well!!
But consider gentleman mother to not comply however not forgive, saying is woman of native place custom taking the child not to go up banquet, lest hit elder, wife for a short while very grievance, consider a gentleman to look at a wife to do good full desk meal, gas gets within an inch of to lift desk: This is new era, the mother returns the wife that uses convention him requirement however, too beyond the mark rather: "Mom, dish of this one table is she got together according to your be fond of very long just had done, the meal that herself does, how doesn't she have the desk on the qualification? ! " the wife sees rarely consider gentleman draw well, it is to think with the mother-in-law the apology is taking the child to go originally the sitting room sits a little while, which know to consider a gentleman to be able to help her talk, drop for a short while tear comes, however maternal complexion is very ugly, quite a while did not talk, 3 people are so right sitting.
Considering a gentleman to feel is maternal err this, the meal that wife work laboriously gets together however one because of the mother so called " custom " and on desk the qualification that have a meal was done not have, there should be many in the heart afflictive, consider a gentleman to just can get angry to the mother so, but the maternal natural disposition that considers a gentleman to also know his is obstinate, if cannot understand the son's intention not to like daughter-in-law more instead, this thing can be just the opposite to what one wished, concern of wife and mother is more intense. Consider a gentleman very kink, on this thing, is he to do after all is was opposite still err?
