Say the person that you are no good, do not let their have one's way come from a People's Daily
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Before the university entrance exam before long, I receive to make me a little afflictive leave a message. She says:
"I am fed up with by classmates, they peek my diary and mobile phone, everywhere start a rumour I, elbow out me, gesticulate to me.
I wear the dress a bit more good-looking, they mock me is ' the net is red ' ; I learn seriously, they are joking I am ' learn bully ' ; I follow which male fellow student to go a bit nearly, they can say me with light tone ' all day long is covered with the schoolboy close to ' .
I am sensitive all the time and self-abased, encounter others censure, what think of above all is, oneself are done not quite well still really, as time passes, more self-abased. I also am trying pleasing to the eye of low before them eyebrow, but they did not stop attack to me at this point. How should I do? How should I do??
Lying between screen to be able to experience He Min of her sad, grievance to feel. I thought very long, replied so a paragraph of word:
"You cannot rely on to please others to become high component girl forever. They laugh at you is to learn bully, that is flat do that the fiercest learn bully; They laugh at you is a net red, that continues beautiful and clever ground is living; They laugh at you and schoolboy to go nearly, that is done with respect to feel at ease and justified get everybody gay woman student.
These it doesn't matter is bad. Do not admit defeat, not disappointing, not self-abased, do not fear, do not decide the right of your life to them. Be not valued the more, want try to make a good showing more, want more sturdy and step down beautifully. Want more sturdy and step down beautifully..
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Actually, I ever also had had a paragraph of similar experience.
When reading high school, there are a few woman students on our class particularly embarrassed me. My conversation accent is sweeter, they say I am sent every day affectedly sweet; My disposition is lively, they say I get make public alive; I am bit more low-key, they become aware they occupied is windward again, continue to walk press me.
Before their achievement rank leans than me, we at that time that only the classmaster with consummate achievement is certain absolutely again " the student that has learned is won't wrong " . So once, I and they are troubled by contradiction, classmaster did not criticize them half, shift all responsibility to my body.
I feel to subdue really, the edge wipes tear edge to say to oneself, "I never feel I am poorer than anybody. Sooner or later, I can let you see. I can let you see..
In those days, from the university entrance exam remnant a few months, pressure is very great really. I care about those gesticulating, also experience the wave motion of own mood apparently, I fear these study that can affect me. But fortunately, I never had wanted to want to go abandonment, although again difficult, also tell oneself to want to hold to.
Later, also calculate try to make a good showing, I drag him upgrade desperately, run forth ceaselessly. I realized my writing dream, I gave a book, I am doing the thing that I have deep love for, I found my pride, I had self-confidence, with outstanding person associate with, I became more powerful oneself.
More crucial is, I did not let look down on my person prevails, also did not become the joke in their eye alive. Although be not loved, be not supported, I also as before can self-fulfilment.
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In the life, go to feel more forth more, always always need you a little the heart is firmer and powerful point, bit braver:
You can encounter a lot of instants that unaware, when always the rainstorm did not take an umbrella to still do not make a car, always have be scolded by the leader when hiding to the toilet to cry, or before one evening parts company, the mood breaks down, the following day Tian Yiliang, still want swipe drive, continue to go to work;
You can discover, when you obtain result, a few so called " friend " perhaps won't applause for you, because a very small issue and you do deadlocked,perhaps meet, be far from you;
You can have the moment of a lot of loneliness, ground of one page page turns over address book, cannot find to be able to be dialed from beginning to end tell the person that tells worry. You think the thing that do, perhaps the friend beside you and even the closest family won't support, feel oneself are really occasionally fight bravely in an isolated force.
It is not easy that you meet what experience the life clearly, can have confused, can have worry, still can feel to cannot see future occasionally. But, ten million ten million cannot be afraid of, cannot compromise, although be hit to bend over temporarily, also want oneself to stand up.
If must find out I and him photograph when 18 years old to compare the greatest progress, that is: I regard very important thing as others to my jubilation no longer, I fear no longer others look down on I. I present am enough and already enough and brave, firm, the heart is enough certainly. I have one to cover my cure a system, it is the most difficult to be in the most irritated when, also can have adjusted oneself with the rapiddest rate.
When also having confused, angst, kink now and then, but I blame the life no longer, also won't indulge too much in sadness. I can do psychological dredge actively to oneself, the society is endowed with to oneself can, cultivate a hole when his, OK and sad, but should learn oneself to cure.
It is very difficult that I know to want to accomplish these, need has enough much courage, enough strong belief, enough big determination. But, do not shrink back.
Please brave you remember this " firm " if: When be not being valued the more, want work of ground of try to make a good showing more; That route that takes hard the more, often harvest more. Still have, besides ourselves, everybody cannot say we are no good.
