Different ground is loved is one kind cannot see present the other side already, see the feeling that each other did not come to very hard also.
It is OK to not be in span the times of whole world, the distance is not force majeure. But, it is to pull after all far still pull close our psychological distance, very it's hard to say.
Last week, the young associate of odd psychology of our Xiang Jian people started the old practice that collects different ground to love. View the discovery after the story, original, everybody's feeling, experience is so similar:
"Know to should chat, do not know how to begin however, of Ga Ga " ;
"Obviously the problem that a hug can solve, just meet cold war is very long " ;
"I cannot see future, want to be being taken the advantage of so still can extricate oneself when say good-bye. Want to be being taken the advantage of so still can extricate oneself when say good-bye..
Want to hold on, difficult and heavy; But let go, need courage more. Different ground is loved is kind of predicament that be in a dilemma, the reason that hold on may have only:
"Who can like different ground to love, because like you,still not be. Because like you,still not be..
Cannot see now, will not not to have the courage to think@coco
I am not particularly active person, the other side may be afraid of disturb me, never video passes, the phone is not hit basically also, a few chat on small letter, still be several talents can chat.
Begin to feel this paragraph of feeling is a bit tired, also know to should chat well. But do not know how to begin to chat, of Ga Ga.
@Feifei | Grey ash should try hard
Exotic a year many. He is in Beijing, I am in the beauty east, each to two weeks of video a hour.
Put opposite party in prospective program, no matter be,he comes over or I go back.
Once I say, should become more outstanding just can let you not be willing to part with or use leaves me. He says however, I had never thought you can leave.
@sweet
See one year twice, think draw well can keep back every time. Because obviously the problem that a hug can solve, just meet cold war is very long.
Spent birthday last year, he is being taken exceed small birthday cake to sing birthday song to me in video, we look at each other to burst into tears on the mobile phone.
@ Zheng is artful
Lasted more than 3 years. Often do not meet, instead feeling is better, got angry sometimes, when meeting also not a future life of beautiful time of be willing to part with or use is angry.
Major income is beautiful was in traffic going there and back and mail thing.
Have second grievance sufferred on the job, he was bought one airline bill comes over to see me recently, open the door to see he is wearing the shirt that has not enough time to change, kubla khah dripping wet.
@ harbor
Ground of 7 years of different, it is most all the time therein national distance. Impression is the deepest is double 11 we bought nut to the other side each other, but do not have be willing to part with or use to eat, have a holiday the other side is taken to eat again when meeting.
@ is faceless
Like a girl, with thickskinned leave no stone unturned looks for pretext to go her city sees a movie, see an exhibition, have a meal. . . . . . Make an appointment with on a lot of people, ask she wants not to come again.
Passed 34 years so, drank dot wine one day, she says should OK marriage to depend on our relation. This word, she lets me do not remember, I remember unluckily however.
Later, no matter her city has the movie with interesting what and exhibition, opened what restaurant newly, I also cannot find pretext to head for again.
Hum, I also am a girl, can how.
@Immerse
Although meet when the other side also is working, so, no matter be,still be in in different city a city, we are like is different ground is loved forever.
Winter vacation looked for him last year, issued a southern and rare blizzard. Wear full no entry high, when buying return trip ticket to show a ticket to fail every time, my metropolis pine is enraged big one. The curtain is pulled open to see after getting up in the morning white, can feel very set one's mind at. Want to be tired forever with him in heavy snow.
Be together many days 300. Summer came, begin to expect sleet.
Later us: Knowing is tired, still did not love@Yan
He comes from Sweden. I take him to experience dietary culture of China, he takes me to go to appropriate home experiencing household culture of Sweden. Companion of a photograph had taken burning hot intense heat of summer, cool autumn, cold winter, do not have the spring of get over warmth however.
He must want to answer Sweden, and I also should continue my school work. In this age, the tomorrow that compares oneself without what is mainer.
But this paragraph of feeling that I also do not regret to ever began forever, if he asks whether I am willing to do my girlfriend again, my answer is forever: Yes!
@Issy
My England his China, time difference 8 hours, lasted two years, when be about to boil in the end he goes to what nocturnal inn plays often suddenly extremely.
After very long period of time, encountered a person that likes very much again, but I am in England, he goes to the United States. Do not know how to should do, also cannot resemble again at the outset sturdy in that way.
@ is faceless
When be together with him, I just rose job, pressure is very great, be in everyday work overtime. The company had position in his city later vacant, very fundamental position. But I feel to should go.
He accompanies me to attend boudoir sweet wedding, when proposing a toast, I discovered the kiss mark that he is obscured by neckband. Acider is, I took bridal hand to hold a flower in both hands that day.
Part company that evening, the anguish after parting company very long period of time. After enduring this paragraph, add me again when him when small letter, I thank myself suddenly to did not leave very much this works now.
@(? ? ? ? ? ??
To can be in later same an urban work, I jackaroo desperately, but the job that finds another country finally only.
He says to be able to be attacked retreat can defend, this place also goes after him. Happy waiting for him to look for me, just know later, he is early went back to the motherland. Be in my city beyond 200 kilometers, still handed in a new girlfriend more.
That schoolgirl says in the phone, he encourages you to change national job, just be to block you over there just.
@ king wood
I go back to the motherland a month is full, he says: Cannot end in the near future exotic, also do not know to meet later how. Call everyday resemble finishing the job, condition is very poor recently, still prefer oneself a person.
Tear shed one day to computer after I hanged a phone.
@ is faceless
To this year on September 9, be apart from us the first time meet, rectify 19 years. The university is together 4 years, I went to Europe after graduation, he stays in home to read grind, the hand of the cent after a year.
We were in Shanghai world rich 2010 the marriage of autumnal knot, but what I marry is not him, he marries also not be me.
With this desultory age of 17 years. The stupiddest thing that does for him is be away on official business twice in France medium empty shelves, fly from Paris Tokyo and his meeting, the wildest thing that he does... bad to say, the likelihood is effort development international market, such word can come Europe to see me all the time.
A few pass very then break down. Seeing he is final is at the same time two years ago, there is the peony of pink on the Italian vintage flat roof outside hotel, the setting sun falls on the west, extremely beautiful. Milanese subway station says good-bye, the last hug. Later, I reject his invitation in England, the heart is very painful. But learned to say to oneself eventually " not " . Later, each other are greeting connection only.
I divorced this year, last week, a friend tells me, he just also divorces, I hear this news, cerebrum " bang " . . .
Once got together to leave much time less in, besides the job, the dream is remained only in my life, connecting N year dream of him every night, not be willing to part with or use awakes. . . Do not want to continue so again, the psychotherapy division that went looking 3 years two, give me very great help, just go bit by bit. Look round look, very glad that everything had ended.
@ builds Xiaolv
Go her urban come across, fall in love at first sight.
Around a year, arrived to talk about marriage talking to marry, bilateral parent perceives problem of it doesn't matter. Abrupt, in the life of the other side animated risk the person that come out to replace. Later, she meets a person beside oneself serve as substitute when needing me most candidly.
Should have many sturdy, ability goes final@ peacefully
He sends me to go a year ago new city goes to work, our aboard that never has parted is being held in the arms cried.
Have a hour of equation of time, every night he kisses video I sleep, I wake to run to kiss him again first in the morning. Work overtime actively every weekend, it is lunar base time only can the holiday that collect gives Zhouwu to connect Zhou Yi goes the city of the other side, even if distance wants,spend daylong.
During different ground, I experienced important professional transition, he completed the work up to now a the worst research. He pacifies my uneasy mood that in video all the time, I support him to had walked along the angst of scientific research suffocate suffocate and dismay.
A working chance in his city gets before a month, decisive application, we can reunite in the end of the year eventually.
He also proposed eventually.
@Twenty-ing
I am Hunan only daughter, he is Shandong home in alone child, yue of two affection photograph, not ask the future was together.
Ground of the different after graduation two years many, feeling is stable, but bomb of domestic different ground is buried over, so I put forward to part company, he also agreed. Part company he regretted to look for me that day compound, also made very great compromise. Although my discovery has again good other people to still also want him.
Compound hind, strike while iron is hot get card, I am accurate mom now.
@Nan
Be together 10 years with husband, having is 5 years exotic love.
Have 4 years, he is in England I am in Beijing, everyday he when at night very late, of home call to me in the morning; Have a year, I am in London he is in Beijing, we record a diary to share the mood through Day One together.
Holding in the arms must importunate mood goes getting along, everything is automatical: A person has a meal, a person sees a movie, furniture of a person selected, time so went. Also stabilize the life together now.
@ bottle evil
After our the university entrance exam because be not put,issue each other, began different ground two years. The requirement in our home is general. I take the living cost of a month to see he is met at the same time, go up to leave a few money only personally many times; He goes out to play to take me, took the noodle bubble steamed bread of 9 weeks.
I had done the wildest thing, quarrelled to sit the following day in the evening namely Gao Tie drives the past, one is hit in the railway station with him; He most the thing that allows me to touch, it is to cross a person walked to my home to look for me year that day.
Next year, we can live in a city eventually.
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