Netizen one:
Although folk has " height is not distance, age not be a problem " so a word will describe true love, but 2 people that need very greatly when age really loved each other, so those who await them is all sorts of doubt and obstruct necessarily. In lay eye, the normal love of the people look upon in the past is age similar, conditional match is most appropriate. But as people thinking change and socially the influence of incident of a few opinion on public affairs, the love view of a lot of people had produced very big change, sister younger brother is loved, father Sun Lian have been to mind not odd episode, not be to happen in recreation to encircle only, such sweethearts combination in the life also is to be able to be found everywhere. We come now concrete analysis this kind of next one ages differ very big love is what experience after all:
This year Yang Zhenning of 96 years old and 42 years old of Weng Fan, had gone 14 years hand in hand. After-thought in those days, weng Fan of 28 years old and Yang Zhenning of 82 years old are united in wedlock, age difference of 54 years old returns two people is the controversy that aroused social public opinion. Yang Zhenning often attends an activity to be able to take Weng Fan, more important is two people it is the hand is pulling a hand every time, happy sweetness does not divide the age, too envy letting a person.
Light of cloud of old man of Weng Fan's father ever said: Weng Fan ignores the difference on the age, the old age that chooses Professor Yang Zhenning to take care of him as the spouse lives, efforts works, it is a kind of goodness, be sacrifice to also be Guan Rong, the hope receives everybody's blessing.
Netizen 2:
Speak of this topical, what must say is " the Tang Dynasty Seng Hefu's mother-in-law " the love between. Act the Tang Dynasty after the monk, weigh lucky fame big a confusion of voices behindhand, but beyond everybody of expect is, he and old he 11 years old female head rich Chen Lihua married.
The Chen Lihua that build up from nothing, put idea a few years on the career, the husband leaves prematurely, let her one individual belt is worn 3 children are very painstaking. She and late heavy luck two people fell in love at first sight to begin association, chi Chongrui always is bashful, the person of troupe weighing a word says he draws near got on big, let him do not know how to should face Chen Lihua for a long time.
Feeling of it may be said of the two people after marriage is perfect, in the life Chi Chongrui is opposite Chen Lihua meticulously, chen Lihua has Chi Chongrui's figure behind where, a little while both hands supports sb with hand Chen Lihua, take towel to help Chen Lihua brush sweat a little while, two people often go out not only travel, 66 years old of Chi Chongrui are to accompany wife of 77 years old to attend all sorts of activities more, it may be said is Fu is sung the husband is followed, everywhere beautiful conjugal love.
Netizen 3:
To love, the age is not a problem really, that is to point to real love, come from physiology say, the difference age between the men and women should be controlled in 5 years old, because anile cycle of the male is 6 years a period, and anile cycle of the female is 5 years a period, regard as 30 years old right-and-left youth so, ask the age of the other side should be small 5 years old or so when love, because the woman is senile rate is rapidder than the man.
Why does the woman look for too old man? The man in reality is older than the woman because,the majority of 10 years old of above is economic condition, but because,also having a few is love, tell the truth the size that the woman does not care about man age in young moment, for instance 20 with 30 not how old distinction, arrived middleaged later of the difference between or existence, still have acting channel from age of physiology age psychology, differ 10 years old the person of above can regret to senile majority, this kind of love often is mutual interest complement, one is rich, one is to have appearance.
Age of young moment choice slants old male woman, majority seeks decision of the economy that be mixed by love reason, neither one woman does not like, man young Shuai Jiating condition good, the man toward past age similar is very inaccessible this kind of level, the woman is very so real now, at this moment age difference is met the occurrence with too big wide gap, often match father Sun Pei less, does somebody ask don't they want to look for an age similar the man of coequal condition? The answer is affirmative for certain.
Netizen 4:
Should say, wanting both sides only is adult, spouse age differs 10 years old although the case of above is unpopular, but very common also, no wonder.
A person chooses what kind of partner finally, depend on of this individual grow history, character characteristic, fortune waits an element a moment, have particularity, very difficult treat as the same. Spoken parts in an opera is because of the person different, zhang San's experience, li Si learns to also do not feel already; Vice versa.
Measuring the index that love relation experiences should be satisfactory, happy, happy. What the love spouse of 10 years old of above experiences age wide gap is happy, the happiness that experiences with the love spouse of age similar does not have substaintial distinction, also should not have substaintial distinction, happiness is that happiness. So Tuoersitai is in Russian eminent writer his grand piece monumental work " install graceful · to block Lienina " in, the first word is told " happy domestic home home is similar, wretched family has each misfortune each "
But if spouse of a pair of love each other are dissatisfactory joyless unfortunate blessing, so age difference is probable be among them a main influencing factor. Nevertheless, the influence that age great disparity brings, do not compare ancestry great disparity, educational setting great disparity, interest wide gap, 3 view great disparity, bodily form great disparity, aesthetic great disparity, taste great disparity, characteristics great disparity, disposition great disparity, wait element of numerous great disparity a moment etc bigger.
It may not be a bad idea of age great disparity, the age is consistent it may not be a bad idea, love spouse wants happiness only, affection compares Jin Jian, all difference can seek common points while reserving difference, put an end to at aeriform, without hindering happiness. If love spouse is not happy, love already gradually no longer, the spouse that looks again suit in alien is each other torment, do not have too big concern actually with the age,
Netizen 5:
Differ 10 years old what experience is the love of above? The person that loves each other sincerely is to want to add up to eye predestined relationship only, good impression has impression, common interest likes individual character point of view, if saying forever, inscribe. To appetite, the person that have mutual affinity, open-armed jubilation, the joy that have one's heart filled with is not to care about age height, of appearance appearance, it is the communication of thought of a spirit only, one sends the jubilation from the heart, pure be in love with purely depend on, this is true love.
The person that loves each other sincerely, that is endless tenderness, happy sweetness is happy, second of every minutes of minute second is cared remember with concern to be together with you. The sort of the sort of comfortable suiting oneself ability is best, know understanding each other, clear, esteem, the feeling love with experience is worn the other side, without complain those who do not have regret to be paid heart and soul for him, for his consider, it is the most beautiful feeling between the world.
