Life " 4 not " : Not hold, not dread, not plan, not irritated

Repair usually heart, laugh see worldly thing.

Alleged and common heart, it is be apt to namely not hold, often absolutely refuse to dread, be in an unfavorable situation not plan, adversity is not irritated.

Life hard to avoid can encounter twist and predicament, with only common heart goes look upon, eliminate with gentle state of mind one-track enrage with what be proud madly, abandon go be being mixed flightily Xu Hua, with life of common heart straight face, life just is met calm and easy.

For be apt to not hold

Village says: "Do not have close name for be apt to. " do a favour to be not done for fame, interest, can be just the opposite to what one wished in that way.

No matter be,paying still is do good works, once had persistence, somewhat obstacle; Had persistence, expect somewhat. Should expect to come to nothing, unavoidable and disappointed, indignant instead unrest, the heart cannot calm.

It is good that everything exhausted power, need not painstakingly, not cranky, what somebody can get everybody is do not have to love on this world, and know the person that cherishs oneself, just meet those who get others cherish.

Often absolutely refuse to dread

Often be consenescence and death to death. The development process of life, move toward the process that often dies namely.

Tao Yuan bright say: "In even if wave is big,be being changed, do not be fond of also not dread. Answer to be needed, without answer alone much Lv! Without answer alone much Lv!!

Life and death is the order of nature, cannot change, fear to also was not used, need not jubilate so, also need not dread, with one one's heart enjoys the joy of life, arrived to should end when follow nature and change.

Be in an unfavorable situation not plan

Zhang Zhi hole ever wrote couplet to say: "Can enduring lifelong benefit from, university salaam heart is in an unfavorable situation. University salaam heart is in an unfavorable situation..

One is in an unfavorable situation not plan person, the person that is willing to be in an unfavorable situation, cannot eat to have a deficit after all!

Be in an unfavorable situation much, always have thick cable; Love advantageous person, was not to take petty gain surely, gained small profit, lost popular feeling however.

Do not think because of,success or failure is not had, today's a bitter pill to swallow, the foreshadowing that was yesterday; Of instantly pay, the flower that is tomorrow leaves.

Adversity is not irritated

"The month does not have day of yen, the person is not had arrange every day " , when be in adversity, should know be kind to oneself, maintain good state of mind, not irritated not angry.

Be kind to oneself, reconcile with oneself namely actually. A person, if can not follow oneself stronger, put oneself everywhere one horse, it is buy heart Yu Kuangye, give the heart with freedom.

Interior untie a person, it is the biggest not him treat unfairly; Interior untie a person, just overcome negative sentiment likely, face adverse circumstance refluent and on.

Not persistent how much to pay, not awe-stricken birth, not what did dispute lose, not place of be agitated instantly, all alleged hold " common heart " .

The heart is settleclear bright, wind is delicate, not dread is not had, do not confuse have.