My this person is compared curtilage, like to be in alone, socialization is not much, a lot of moment, the more alone, can experience freedom more instead.
Since do poineering work, working hours is more, socialization becomes fewer, can not go, can choose not to go as far as possible.
Idea actually very simple, having that time and a gang is not very familiar person is pushed cup change small cup, be inferior to sleeping more in the home can become aware (busy at ordinary times the job, quite tired) , have profit to the body at least; Be inferior to accompanying the person that accompany the home more, the son is very lovely, quite sticky I.
I am not to say, friend and socialization are not important, however to me current, the body and domestic person are more serious, time is so much, this also is forcing I go doing a few accept or reject, make the most advantageous to oneself choice.
Someone can say, occasionally I also do not want to go, but people cried, that is have a good opinion of I, can you go?
A lot of people can have such state of mind, be afraid of refute the family's face, of the friend, of the colleague, of the boss. . .
But, you had thought, although did not go be being met again how, can be the friend mixed because of this your break off relations? Can the colleague give you give sb tight shoes to wear-make things hard for sb by abusing one's power? Is the boss repulsive you?
Won't, perhaps say, meet unlikelily, the excuse that wants you only is not very of a kind, when refusing, not be very curt, also won't offend a person accordingly commonly.
Contrary, a comer that those breathing out, often have the goes namely leave the playing field of brandish easily.
If you always are within call, give a person a kind of your time very cheap feeling, can become very cheap in your eye in others so.
You should do a good person, but do not become an a benign and uncontentious person who is indifferent to matters of principle.
A lot of moment, want selfishness a bit, should not return oneself time thing, subdue oneself, cater to other, you should be known refuse, want to have oneself life, going to going to give oneself lost, such life is quite useless.
A person is in others heart, in the position in the group, not be the disposition that sees him, however his value.
