"Chinese student is too bitter really! " my classmate plum lady always gives out such deep feeling.
Ms. Li is classmate of my middle school, hit in city of a gleam of go all out, crossed ability marriage 30 years old, status of the income when 35 years old was stabilized, wanted the child.
With Chinese most parent, she very feel distressed the child, see the child keeps operation to every time very late, always be in classmate QQ group Yo of the state religion in distaining " be without human nature " , see the mark very again; Envy western education, pay attention to child interest education, lesson responsibility is little, relaxed and happy.
Then, come for child general, when on the child 4 grade, her true immigrant goes to England.
England arrives first, ms. Li always loves to bask in the circumstance that the child goes to school, include even below this piece of school timetable:
Curricular course is varied, wait besides English, maths, science " main subject " outside, still have course of skill of Thespian, music, intercourse, still have in addition read, the activity such as story time.
Attended class at 9 o'clock in the morning, classessed are over partly at 4 o'clock afternoon. If the parent does not have time to receive the child, can stay in the school to attend all sorts of interest classes, sports, manual, horticultural, dance, cooking, magic etc. Want to collect fees of course, 10 pound (100 RMBs) the left and right sides. After coming home, work load is very small, it is to read completely almost.
More those who make Ms. Li glad is, the school is comfortable to student government, give priority to in order to encourage, so, the child is relaxed, smile is much also.
Look at she and the expression with child happy picture, we envied secretly, hate oneself to earn money only little, emigrant without ability.
But, ms. Li is basked in no longer gradually later " happy " . . . . . .
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Have second she goes back to the motherland visit one's family, we sit together to have a meal, ask about her the child is in England circumstance.
Her forced smile, speak her difficulties that one is reluctant to mention slowly.
When just going to England, she feels the child did not learn a responsibility, relaxed and happy, oneself are very gratified also, but she feels incorrect slowly first.
Above all, mathematical computation ability of the child drops, at this o'clock she can help the child fill. The study that can be the child more and more set out by interest, was used to encourage praise, to oneself the weakness on study, defect also took seriously not quite, also be inferior to be in home is assiduous.
I say, not be very good so, develop dug ability of the student, this is not the place with our defective education.
Ms. Li says helplessly, but the child wants what in privatelying run, learn go up in the future, intensity of the difficulty that privatelies run the middle school takes an examination of examination questions and study can be differred unlike home. Go down so easily, final, the child can pass choose of university of foreign famous brand hard.
Ms. Li deep feeling says, after all dry finance money meets me, mathematical computation ability is much more important, if elementary school does not train thinking and computational speed, can I still take the job now? Can be public school of England, in respect of education child maths too ignored. How can you become so? I must turn the child to private elementary school, or else can delay the child so.
Wait for Ms. Li farewell to go to England, turn the child to private school really, annual and tuitional at least 20 thousand pound (180 thousand RMB) , this still does not calculate lodging cost.
The baby son of Ms. Li went up England is private elementary school, she also also listened to those who be less than a teacher to praise again, speak child inadequacy directly however, the child again unpleasant also, felt and in China's same pressure. What rejoice exclusively is, mathematical result of the child is right all the time, but other result is a bit horrible however.
Original, british private school and public school are disparate, requirement of some course setting and form a complete set are very tall, exercise amount is very large, the requirement is strict, a lot of parents also very care about child achievement. And extracurricular activity is not as little as public school also, want to have training of each individual ability and education to the student, the child that this also lets Ms. Li feels time is more insufficient with.
Ambitious Ms. Li begins to sign up for classes of all sorts of take lessons after school to the child, and the comprehensive take lessons after school that is science, geography and French completely. Expense increased a large sum of.
Now, if Ms. Li son wished to go up private middle school, in deciding GCSE to take an exam, school plan takes 6 A ability to enter next phase study, be about otherwise transfer. She also did not spit groovy China to teach again, furtive now and then give out deep feeling, of China's current education or fairness.
Its introduce my not tire of irritatedly the circumstance of Ms. Li, clever reader perhaps had discovered a terrible phenomenon at that time: The solidify that British education realized a class and statified.
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British middle school teachs a system to have two kinds of schools, one kind is the public school that the government allocates funds, one kind is private school. Public school avoids tuition; One year tuition is equivalent to private school an average household income of a year, everyman home affords very hard.
Private school and public school are on education quality great difference, compare with photograph of public school lax in discipline, private elite school manages pressure of strict, school work tremendous, the key middle school that compares China even in a lot of places is even brutal.
The life destiny of final of course student and future are different also. British Eton is fair learn to wait for 5 private school the Oxford on student take an examination ofing, Cambridge the number of two universities, be equivalent to 1800 public schools verifying the student number of these two schools.
Eton is fair learn
British society the important post of 80% is held the position of by the graduate of private school, the justiciar of above of the senior doctor of the congress congressman of 1/3, half the number, 2/3, come from accommodate England merely the private school of 7% population.
And public school is for the educational orgnaization of poor and emigrant child preparation. Do not ask the child masters how many knowledge here, do not ask the student has how rigorous, encourage joy study however.
The child of public school can have a happy, happy childhood really, the teacher should fool the student so that joy, light light Song Song graduates only, it is the task that finish.
But when the student moves toward a society, do not know advanced maths, also do not know Einstein, more do not know philosophy, they can pursue rock-bottom job only mostly, carry a tray, work bit of physical strength.
So, what British joy teachs is substaintial, the elite that is in leadership namely actually carries the passport with whole society stable estate.
Be in England, study time, more comfortable learning environment fewerly, also mean a child to want a become a useful person, need more self-discipline, more extracurricular coach, more money is devoted, western education carries a full process actually, achieved a society secretly statified, civilian child is civilian forever.
If children of public school civilian wants to span really oneself estate, can rely on endowment only, become sports or recreational star, this must rely on accidental element completely.
Mei Jie of the premier before England ever pointed out, a lot of children were born with to be decided to did not come by domestic environment from, teach an opportunity be short of break let them cannot make a change almost. In the orgnaization of influential force see public figure of setting of labour firewood estate very hard, social fluidity almost backwater.
Those who be worth to rejoice is, our China still is given priority to with public school today, even if is key elementary school, middle school more it is to see a mark, nonexistent also exalted tuition.
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The corrupt practice of the university entrance exam that a lot of people point out we are current now is numerous, but a bit cannot deny: Before the mark, all examinee are equal.
Relative to at China character, college enter a school of the United States is give priority to in order to recommend.
In American film " spider a person adept in martial arts and given to chivalrous conduct 3 heroes return " in have such the three unities: Steely a person adept in martial arts and given to chivalrous conduct suggests spider a person adept in martial arts and given to chivalrous conduct attends a college in the future.
Regard Shidake as the president of ammunition company, of Tony recommend make small spider very easy go up of course hemp province manage is versed in such key university. But if do not have this one relation, whether does the small Peter that serves as civilian hero still have such opportunity? Where is the commendation that the public figure that child of how many average household can get having actual strength socially has again?
Be in the United States, you want to read a school, or family has deep background, or goes up private middle school.
The 19th name, California learns pop chart of completely beautiful 2016 high school in the 1st benefit spy Buddhist nun, 156 graduate get the top-ranking name school such as 14 ivy and manage of 250 Stanford, hemp in all inside 822 admission notice.
And the child of these elite, pressure is not as little as Chinese pressure also, this school is circulating a number -- 4. Namely " 4 cups of 4 hours of Morpheus, coffee, GPA4.0 " -- the achievement that wants to obtain full marks to be 4 minutes, sleep only everyday 4 hours, drink 4 dock-glass coffee tiredly.
What Chinese and Western just teachs is different, be a method apparently is different, it is educational function fixed position character actually those who go up is different.
Chinese education is rock-bottom up a flight of stairs of ascend, want to have a good mark only, can go up a school, change destiny.
And western education is statified mechanism, masses education provides basic, finite education only, want to become elite, must buy education separately from the market, the person that can not afford was washed out naturally.
Add: Do you know, qiao Busi is must not oneself child plays IPad!
The worker is answered Philippine this one off month, belt of the dog that take a dog gets me very favour is bitter. Occasionally I hope the apple can give dog of a dog to like the IPad that play sincerely, in that way I always need not want to accompany him to play!
Play IPad to perhaps hit game to perhaps watch TV to the child, a lot of moment are the tweak of emancipatory parents.
For example when the friend dines together, play mobile phone game to the child, they do not interrupt; Work overtime in the home for example when, play IPad to the child, they do not disturb you to work; For example the child does not agree to have a meal, you promise him to eat a meal to be able to play IPad, he can eat quickly. . . .
And, present intelligent tool still can read to the child, teach child learning. . . Dishy, right incorrect?
But, do you know? Qiao Busi does not allow his children to use IPad.
There are 3 before Qiaobusisheng year young the child. One day the reporter Nick Bilto of new York Times asks him:
"Do your children like IPad very much certainly? "Do your children like IPad very much certainly??Laoqiao replies:
"They had not been used. We restrict children to use intelligent artifacts in the home. We restrict children to use intelligent artifacts in the home..Is sounding quite strange? Doesn't the father of IPad allow his child to use IPad unexpectedly? Like feeling resembling is poison peddles the child drug taking that does not allow his. . . .
Not come singly but in pairs. In Silicon Valley, inside the high level of company of a lot of high-tech and engineer, the child that begins popularity not to let his contacts product of intelligent science and technology.
They send a tradition children even, do not have the Waldorf school of intelligence and product of science and technology completely, cannot discover computer at all in the campus of this school!
Once 3D Robotics (company of a robot) CEO, when the father Chris Anderson that has 5 children is accepting times weekly to interview, the child that explained the person that why works in high-tech domain does not let him instead contacts science and technology:
"My children blame I and my wife to science and technology anxious too fascist. They say their young associate does not have such regulation. . . Because we are first-hand,that is the risk that saw science and technology. My saw with one's own eyes saw science and technology be affected to mine, I do not hope the children that these in me happening go up personally. I do not hope the children that these in me happening go up personally..Very interesting. I once went up in small gain a few years ago had written a such word:
"Mobile Internet of fire among them a reason is: We feel mobile to helped us save a lot of time. Discovery was duped later, because final it wasted our more time. Because final it wasted our more time..
The person has been opposite current great majority IPhone and addiction of product of science and technology of a lot of intelligence are very deep.
A lot of children learn the home to begin the appeal, if we are in children are very small the age when let them contact science and technology, perhaps can let them be immersed in not complete, without the life of fancy and creativity.
Outdoors relies on to contact acquired knowledge personally, it is to mix after all the intellectual property that acquires from inside cereal song Baidu is very different.
An article astonished me again. What this article says is how commerce just can be attracted 90 hind and 00 hind.
Among them two: "They special ground is not patient, need gets satisfaction immediately. " " they are met ground of leave no stone unturned avoids and true person makes communication.
Avoid to communicate with the person!
Yes, if want to get young generation successfully as the client, the first, want to satisfy them immediately namely; The 2nd, cannot let them talk namely.
They do not like to talk very much. They fear to use language communication with the person!
This has been our life condition. We had communicated with the person no longer.
Actually not only be 90 hind 00 hind, a lot of 85 hind also had lost the ability that uses language communication with the person.
Service of the company after I do poineering work a few 85 hind 90 hind, their common characteristic is, the thing seeks on the net very fast very to force, but do not be willing to take phone and person communication stoutly.
The means of they and person communication is small believe or electric mail. Use language communication with the person, they are not willing, also won't.
But solve a problem, a lot of moment must be support of the people it is the most effective that the language between the person is communicated directly. Lost this ability and apiration, can lose how many efficiency!
This phenomenon makes me very anxious. Prospective mankind, in the world that if the life is fearing to use a language with other mankind,communicates, and in the condition that lives in too impatient to wait, a what kind of case can you be?
It is to wore an eye to leave actual society really, can you be in fictitious in satisfy all requirement?
Perhaps Qiaobusi the manner of the children to him is correct.
American pedology is met and Canadian paediatrics organization expresses, 0-2 year old the baby should not contact science and technology, 3-5 year old young child should contact everyday do not exceed 1 hour, 6-18 year old the child should be restricted in 2 hours of less than.
The contact exceeds the child of the time that times above of 4-5 suggests and youth, often have the consequence that endangers life very badly even.
For example: 0-2 year old baby, the bulk of cerebrum can increase 2 times (actually the mankind is developing quickly to 21 years old of cerebra all the time) . The stimulation of the environment of inchoate development be enslaved to be enslaved to of cerebrum, perhaps lack stimulation. Product of excessive contact science and technology (mobile phone, network, IPad or TV) can cause stimulation to cerebrum, make little baby gives attention to be not centered, cognitive defer, study ability is low, easy impulse and cannot control oneself.
Additional, science and technology of too much premature contact can be caused grow logy.
There is to arrive when school age in every 3 American children now intellective and low, the influence reads ability and study result. Because saw computer reduce motion more, and motion is to be able to increase attention and study capacity. 12 years old are opposite with science and technology below of the child grow and learning is very harmful.
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Look more TV and play game to still be mixed fat and direct about. The child that is allowed to play intelligent artifacts in the bedroom is more than general child 30% it is fat. And the fat child of 30% is met diabeticly.
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Morpheus of the 75% meetings in the child that plays game is insufficient, the influence studies result.
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Product of overspend science and technology increases depressed disease of the child likely, angst and abnormal to product of science and technology dependence. A lot of children cannot focus attention, shut oneself, split personality, mental disease has clammy action even.
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Violent media content creates violent liability of the child likely.
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High-speed media content can cause attention to be not centered, memory drops, because cerebrum turns nerve forward head. The child that cannot focus attention does not have law study.
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If parents is right also when addiction of science and technology, with children further and further. Do not have the intimate contact of some parents, alone children change an electron to equipment, more the addiction that caused them.
Finally, the influence of the children that the radiate of electronic product is growing to cerebrum and immune system is more than adult far.
Perhaps, when the father when IPad does not allow his child to contact IPad, is we should think after all really why?
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