In some cinema, everybody is in serious view shadow, only a child jumps to jump on seat, laugh from time to time, from enter the arena now, was troubled by about the same half hours, his mom is on the side.
An adult on the side is overcome a bit, say to the child's mom, can be in charge of the child that leaves you, too noisy. Mom head of the child also was not answered, say, child day is born with such ah! Continue to watch a movie next.
Later, the child leaves a place, run to run in the cinema, ran a little while, tired, discover however cannot find mom, inside too black. Crying to call mom next.
Cried a few times, nobody response, a new man develops his growl line: Your mother died! The child is stupefied over, not dare move.
Be in China, have the education of kind of God that be held in both hands, make release the child's nature. All characteristics on child body, can return for the nature, no matter be good, bad still, have natural rationality, cannot dispute, cannot squelch.
A Tsinghua professor is indignant: The biggest fraud that China teachs is no use of happy education, record of formal schooling and the nature that release the child, these 3 fraud, of child of China of one pace twist grow.
The child does not have regular consciousnessJiangsu does not have inn of a chaffy dish, adult is on seat have dinner, only a child runs to run in footpath, run from this that, wherefrom head runnings this.
His mom follows slowly at the back, did not scold, do not have more check, they feel certainly, oneself child is lively and lovely, not was necessary to be in charge of at all.
Running until be in corner, apropos dash against turning clerk, there still is one boiler grilled fish on the clerk's hand, the child's forehead just is stuck to the grilled fish boiler of boiling hot, tragic instant happens, the child is in more by scald.
After the event, the child's parents is in did not pass any appraisal, below the circumstance that also does not have any legal orders, manner aggressive ground demands 390 thousand compensation: "Of money not important, child of whose wife and children is ironed 390 thousand? Child of whose wife and children is ironed 390 thousand??
The responsibility of the child and parents is swung completely.
Why does Chinese child lack regular consciousness generally? Because be in eye of a lot of parents, nature prep above of the child is regular. The child's nature is good move, can run so, can be troubled by, can unbridled ground makes a racket.
Be in China, more and more children ignore regulation, also more and more tragedy are led to because of this.
The child does not have awe-stricken consciousness
Be in a few days ago, hunan grand is answered produced homicide event one case, an old grandma of 73 years old is killed to be at the door oneself, the policeman is driven toward the spot instantly, be less than 5 hours, the case is uncovered namely:
Bloodguilty is a child, 13 years old. The midday of that the world of case hair, the child lingers around old grandma home, be scolded suddenly by old grandma.
Child demur does not say, take the knife of a thin bamboo strip of the doorway, bear down on directly old grandma, the effort of spent whole body, one knife is on old person head forward, the old person dies on the spot. Subsequently, the 700 money search that this child gets on old person body again goes, escape finally the spot.
In nearby Hunan Shao Dong, ever also produced similar incident one case: On October 18, 2015, 3 children staying behind are consultative go go for a walk of new cheap elementary school, because had a holiday that day, school gate lock, 3 people turn over enclosure.
After entering the school, they levered the door of buffet, pilfer takes the food of and so on of the biscuit inside, lollipop, the preceptress that is on duty fitly discovers, because fear to be caught, 3 children use wooden club to beat dead preceptress while still alive directly, escape later.
The following day, 3 children are seized by public security mechanism.
Children staying behind, be the most complete put in a suitable place to breed, nobody is taken care of, more nobody canal, the nature is got the most complete release, final result, with tragic wind up, it is the normallest to connect grow to cannot be finished.
There is a devil in the heart of every child, below the premise that does not have tie and certainly, put in a suitable place to breed termlessly, release, can let the child lack the basiccest awe-stricken heart only.
The child does not have autonomic consciousness
Writer Mao Na has seen a mom, a very average household, parents is common, the child is common also, saying is the book that read some famous expert later, decision follow the lead of his Yo method -- put in a suitable place to breed.
When to get up, when to sleep, mom all along without giving thought to, because she feels the child has responsible to oneself consciousness; As to study result, interest is the most crucial, do any importunity anything but.
Where is result? After 3 years, tragedy happening, success did not say, still be medium originally slant on, after 3 pass, basic it is mat bottom, other child has one to arrive two specialty, where is her child? Without any specialty.
Playing game is very fierce, other child never takes a mobile phone to go to the school, her child all along without giving thought to, the time that plays hand You Li everyday exceeds 8 hours, go to school often be late, still poured 2000 money toward game stealthily...
She is not clear, why so good education method, can in the end be this kind of result? Actually, the child of finish be puttinged in a suitable place to breed, far more than this one.
I never suspect, the child has the consciousness of ego management; What I suspect is, autonomic consciousness of the child did not imagine in so strong. Be exaggerated indefinitely by a lot of parents however. The likelihood arrives finally, not be the child controlled a destiny, however the mobile phone controlled the child.
One does not know autonomic child, won't have future forever, put in a suitable place to breed, release, can let the child lose the mainest control power only. In the future, such child does not have any competition ability.
The child is ungracious
A Duan Zi has seen on the net, a schoolgirl is queueing up to buy tea with milk, the platoon is gotten well, ran suddenly a child, 7, about of 8 years old, insert her directly before, his mom is from the back.
The schoolgirl sees no less than going to, so small such, be returned later? Challenge then his mom, you are how of certainly child. Ground of his mom not worry at all says, the child such, you let.
Female raw or cold food came to not fourthly: "By what should let him? He is long so ugly! " his mom is enraged the face is greenly, pulling the child to go outside.
Had seen a stranger flower a few days ago.
Control temporarily on March 27 midday, henan Zhengzhou one village, two children are riding elevator, among them a child breaks out crank, the attempt does extend exercise inside elevator, prop up a wall with the hand at the same time, reach elevator door with the foot at the same time, to step on forcibly next.
Doing not have those who think of is, the exit of elevator inside flew at a draught, the main control of elevator board be played to give wall, if it were not for has outside wall protection, consequence is unimaginable.
What cannot think of more is, after the accident, the mom of ursine child is in owner group li of transmit monitoring video, willfully make a trouble: "Is this elevator paper? " " should say property is returned so that thank my son! " " should say property is returned so that thank my son!!
3 view are overturned.
Such ursine child is everywhere, impossible to defend effectively. The backside of every ursine child, have the father and mother of nonfeasance certainly. To the child mix egoistically ignorant, they chose to close a key point, also chose to abandon serving as parental responsibility.
They cannot think of for certain, the backside that put in a suitable place to breed, it is ursine certainly, it is capricious certainly, without exception.
The faintest education: Put in a suitable place to breedThese year, put in a suitable place to breed was held in both hands to go up by a lot of parents day, the child wants pleasure, should free, should release them the most perfect nature, should make them independent grow freely.
Look very beautiful, get in the extreme actually badly however. A lot of parents are far from " put in a suitable place to breed " , their eye puts in a suitable place to breed mediumly, it is to abandon actually, it is abandon, became finally make stop, sin even.
" the childhood of imparity " write in one book: It is at least inside certain limits, american elite estate implements synergic education generally, roughly understandable for " the circle is raised " , and the Yo that the working class and pauper execute means just is to arrange its to grow naturally, namely we say " put in a suitable place to breed " .
Look, be held in both hands to go up to the sky by you " put in a suitable place to breed " , it is American ground floor nevertheless people's helpless choice stopped, the Chinese that resembles much is same, they teach their child without enough time and money.
And the reality with grimmer backside is: Put in a suitable place to breed the child that come out, the child photograph that is the same as elite family without actual strength at all competes, the cost that put in a suitable place to breed may be, you will lose ascendant passageway forever.
Wushensiji has said famous educationist: If your nurturance is used to well, enjoy the interest that it brings to you very much all one's life, if your nurturance bad habit, repaying all one's life endless debt.
Actually, any countries are same, elite education is not to put in a suitable place to breed come out!
Cannot cross " bound "
Pedagogic Zhe Dinglin has told a such stories, before paragraph time, an American guest came in her home -- the girl of a 3 grade. Like all dot, the girl does not have the resistance of a bit to candy, eat the first, still want to eat the 2nd.
She asks mother, OK. Mom very say explicitly, not OK. The girl is forced to be accepted calmingly.
The education that a lot of people like to tell abroad the how how free, advanced, desire that how the ground respects the child, intended however innocently oversight was dropped, before this freedom, still have a clear and visible border, some things can be done, some things cannot be done stoutly.
Aobama is American president, also be the gainer of Nobel peace prize, but an identity makes him proud more -- the father of two children. The education of abstruse Ba Ma to the child, can calls American elite educational example.
Aobama has two daughters, when they part 10 years old to mix 7 years old, he made 9 homes plan, content is not complex, but operation sex is strong, and have a sense extremely:
Domestic compasses 1: Cannot have complain unjustifiably, brawl is provoking perhaps be fed up with mockingly;
Domestic compasses 2: Must make the bed, just cannot look neat just;
Domestic compasses 3: Oneself him thing is done, for instance he develops cornmeal or pour milk, oneself fold a quilt, oneself set alarm clock, he gets up and wear the dress;
Domestic compasses 4: Those who hold toy house is clean;
Domestic compasses 5: Side parents partakes housework, every week 1 dollar;
Domestic compasses 6: Whenever birthday or it is christmas, without luxurious gift and luxuriant party;
Domestic compasses 7: Every night punctual 8:30 light-off.
Domestic compasses 8: Arrange contented after school to live: Dance, platoon play, play piano, dozen tennis, play rugger;
Domestic compasses 9: Forbid to chase after a star.
Such seeing come down, what you can discover Aobama takes seriously most still is regular nurturance, and it is the business that cogent fact cuts to be able to be operated in the life. Parents should accord child is free, but this freedom is not absoluteness, random criterion, incontinent, not be indulgent more with nonfeasance.
Be released certainly and good-tempered without the fault, but releasing before, must want to have a clear dividing line, some things can tolerate, but some bounds cannot span stoutly.
