Famous educationist Tao Hang knows Ceng Yan: "Drop oneself sweat, eat oneself meal. " the effort that relies on oneself only, the career that gets the fortune that come and success just is " oneself " , also ability is quite ages ago.
According to " pass outside Han Shi " account: Wei Wenhou asks fox examination paper, father virtuous, child virtuous, elder brother virtuous, younger brother virtuous, official virtuous, sufficient depend on? All say, insufficient. Wen Hou is agitated show signs of anger and anger say, the sovereign asks this 5 person Yu Zi, the person that all feel insufficient one by one, he Ye? To saying: "Father virtuous nevertheless Monarch Yao, and red Zhu Fang; Child virtuous do not cross Shun, and blind Sou dense; Elder brother virtuous do not cross Shun, and the elephant is proud; Younger brother virtuous week is public nevertheless, and kill tubal father's younger brother; Official virtuous do not cross Shang Wu, and cut down of name of the last ruler of the Shang Dynasty reputedly a tyrant of the name of the last ruler of the Xia Dynasty. The person that look at a person does not come, depend on person person before long. Jun Yuzhi, from the body only then. Person He Keshi? " fox examination paper is to want to tell Wei Wenhou actually, want to govern good country, make a career one time, relying on other blindly is won't long, the most essential still is to should rely on his, want to begin from change oneself. Be Wei Wenhou beg its to change oneself, just let Wei Guocheng be the main base of assemble of talent of period of the Warring States.
Famous educationist Tao Hang knows Ceng Yan: "Drop oneself sweat, eat oneself meal. " everybody wants hour bosom to put a kind of faith, the shoulder carries a responsibility, assume a kind of mission, familial, ancestors is promoted in inheritance " gene " on the foundation, rely on oneself to enter give new scope of operation one time, make one time new as. Conversely, if want to depend on only so called " setting " reap where one has not sown, sit idle and eat, meet not only sound of nomen of home of be unworthy of, and often can honorable temporarily, also passing finally is " yellow Liang Yimeng " .
In fact, of all ages has a lot of worthy, build result the aureola that establishs course of study to did not count on father generation, some returns the students surpasses the teacher and excel blue. Be like, the Wei Xian of period of the Western Han Dynasty, be engaged in study of Confusion classics technically research, learned, can weighs generation " name scholar " , later preferment prime minister, his son Wei Xuan Cheng has a good command of as much the Confucian school is classical, stay " prime minister of father and son " a much-told story of through the ages. Be like again, be called " farmer motion king " Peng Pai, one's previous experience at squire familial, the home has " the homestead that crow has not flown to " , abandon for belief however high position and great wealth, abandon extravagant life, go seeking save the nation save civilian revolutionary truth, resolutely devote into move at the farmer, its person its thing Yuan Chao its article.
Same, still have write down " behead nevers mind, as long as creed is true " Xia Minghan, although come from for generations to be government-owned family, he walked up to save the nation however save civilian revolutionary road, hold the position of secretary-general of countrywide farmer association actively not only, arouse actively still brother little sister devotes into a farmer to move. Still have, reputation of Liang Qichao it may be said is celebrated, his children people the fame that never relies on father however, never the extraction of play the peacock, the hardships effort that depending on oneself and learn frequently, the expert that each makes trade of one's own profession... these people or the home that are official of one's previous experience, or it is to sit embrace penates of 10 thousand be linked together, however, they paddle their own canoe, self-made, go going after for good faith valuable significant life, compose oneself legend.
"Person cannot depend on " this truth, will tell to Party member cadre also is such, it is the humanness that must write down sincerely establishs a world to admonitions. However, in reality, children relies on parents, little brother to rely on an elder brother to violate discipline to violate seek expedience, grab gold utility fame and position person still there is no lack of its person. For instance, the identity that provincial Party committee of little Lin of Zhao of father of Zhao advance support leads manages estate to develop, be weighed " the most arrogant development business " ; The father Zhou Benshun of former secretary of provincial Party committee of Heibei of week pacify support puts word in freely of Hunan business circles, "In Changsha, the thing that did not do " ; The influence that Wang Baoan of former director of national statistic bureau uses officially helps its younger brother obtain violate compasses promote... ought to say, the generation of this kind of phenomenon, did not take good head and teaching in home besides elder wind of lax, home is frame-up besides, also with posterity people the spirit that oneself lack free-standing self-improvement has affinity.
Indeed, "Rely on oneself " do not mean an isolated force to fight bravely, more do not mean should break away from father generation completely people support and help. But, these must be premise with offending party disipline and the law of the state. Actually, rely on oneself effort only, the career that gets the fortune that come and success just is " oneself " , also ability is quite ages ago. (Yu Zuyun)
