Why don't you marry?
Because of the marriage of my parents, press I am suffocatively.
All one's life very long, I do not consider the model that is fed up with the life into oneself too.
Remember once, the friend goes my home having a meal, eat almost, the father that she discovers me is early with respect to put down chopstick, do not leave place all the time however, sit quietly beside my mom however, eat till mom, just follow mom to fall together desk, the friend is moved by this very little detail place.
She says to me, "So you know happy marriage is what appearance all the time, right? I imagine all the time do not come out, it is I had not seen so... "
The parents of this friend lives apart already old, in her when in fragmentary memory, parents the picture that is the same as casing also is roughhouse likely. She does not imagine even give family person to have a meal, TV watching together after the meal is how a kind of setting. Accordingly, she also did not marry up to now, because " marriage " brawl and loneliness are full of in her dictionary, she does not imagine the look that gives the happiness after marrying at all, because she never has seen, so never credulous.
Give birth to a family formerly, decided the child's marriage is watched greatly. Those not marriage a group of things with common features and marry at a mature age a group of things with common features in, because his parents leaves other,one part is, live apart, unending brawl, brought about them to produce huge misunderstanding to marriage.
Still the photograph that is parents handles way, your children is fed up with, for instance " Chinese type family " father is short of break, maternal angst is waited a moment, confirmed restricted the filial imagination to good marriage. Consequently, in them capable to go when the choice, their decisive rejection marriage.
Parental brawl is the nightmare that does not go to go outHunan is defended inspect heat to sow put together art " me that boy " in, "Fast male " skill in wushu faces camera lens to explode makings, parental brawl left huge childhood shadow. 10 come year old the child everyday in the middle of the night by parental affray sound sleeps lightly, want to persuade the father that leave to stay again, guard mom even, be afraid of mom mood out of control to make hooey.
Can be imagined, marriage is in the heart with little skill in wushu, be how chilly. Sit in the mom of skill in wushu in observation room, at the same time Yun Danfeng explains gently " just do not have " , the ashamed that reveals pair of children at the same time remorses.
The netizen sees the experience of skill in wushu, ceng Liuyan says his experience: "Do not plan to marry all one's life, quarrelling as a child in fighting, be brought up, oneself can have taken care of oneself return to now living it is a miracle. Oneself can have taken care of oneself return to now living it is a miracle..
Parental inhospitality lets person loneliness by natureThe parents of small P falls in an eave together, live apart however several years. Small P says he is when high school, between parents hardly what communication. He attends a college outerly later, at first, holiday come back, pa Mom's very can poor costar banquet of home of a give a dinner for a visitor from afar. Again later, it is alone that he returns the home one person, two the most familiar stranger are OK and perfect in a three-room flat a few months disappears, bright sitting room can climb full dust.
Small P says he does not understand why parents does not divorce, oneself also a bit does not expect to marry, because marriage resembles the home in that falls the stateroom of full dirt, than lone one person is more alone.
Preterhuman mom lets me feel he can'ts bear" struggle " in Hua Zizhu heats up search on the mom of pluvial celestial bodies, become overnight almost by attack and commiserative object. Zhu Yuchen's mom tens of year consistent day, got up at 4 o'clock for soup of child Bao pear, follow the play staff below Zhu Yuchen to open special mess, not only take care of the child to the garment to stretch one's hand, still participate in the amour of each paragraphs of Zhu Yuchen, the netizen exclamations impenetrable.
Can suffer her this action influence is the most profound, it is Zhu Yuchen's elder sister, if in marriage, mom should act a preterhuman part, the elder sister that is a female together then bears feebly.
She says she cannot accomplish mom in that way, the consecratory family that does not have ego completely impossibly, take care of the child, so she chooses not to marry, because this part is competent hard.
A person is paid is not the appearance with due marriageOn fabaceous valve, netizen " the fat hoof of fat " replying [is because is the marriage of own parents disappointing,how many person does not want to marry purely? ] when descriptive path. "My pa itself is me special a kind of man that be overcome, be opposite outside others is complaisant, come home to often berate wife child aloud, what housework is not done, what I and my Mom do is bad to still can be scolded by him. My Mom is particularly good to my grandfather grandma, on holidays helps certainly work do dish to sweep the floor plasterer shops, and my pa had not answered native place a lot of years to had visited my grandmother... . And my pa had not answered native place a lot of years to had visited my grandmother... ..
"Fat hoof " very do not understand mom why to to leave father, oneself also do not want to marry, because be afraid that oneself are vivid also,be in disappointing marriage.
Counterpoise only the family lets her think to marry the meeting is implicitSmall F ever more than had said, oneself won't marry, if love can make a person implicit, that does not marry all one's life. Counterpoise only because of what she does not know father completely, what also do not know a mother is docile and obedient.
"I once felt my Mom is a kind idolatrous, feeling my pa place says what to do is right, I feel even sometimes, she may do not have brain. " when small F adolescence very traitorous, often be hit by father, father still can say very offensive word stimulates small F, and the mother is on the side laissez-faire.
After-thought rises now, how can a father teach the daughter of beautiful season so? But maternal manner more let her be bitterly disappointed, one has the woman with literate knowledge why to can become such mother.
Of the mother complain let children hear marriage smitten with fearColleague Xiaolin is after the love that passes start sth but fail to carry it through a few times, him discovery fears marriage, be afraid that oneself choose a fault. Xiaolin's mom experienced marital failure, most all one's life has not crossed this bank, always meet " your pa is too selfish; Your pa beautiful money always is extravagant; See a person want to see his family, your Mom I am too young; The man is cannot too indulgent; You should look for a love your, not be your love... "
Xiaolin says he talks about love, with respect to have one's mind stuffed with be mom complain and exhort, discretion arrives step forward dimension difficult, him feeling is met not carefully follow the same old disastrous road. Xiaolin made a plan afresh recently, she plans to consider amative marriage a few later again, him hope is a few more mature, but mother does not agree again, beautiful type is urged marriage, the heart is tired.
The children in the marriage that does not have love won't express love[Xin Shixiang] ever had done 100 people to interview " parental marriage is cannot help doing sth letting a person really " , among them @ pretends to be in China in the experience of Toronto very general.
"They do not have love, those who introduce understanding, did not feel disgusted to marry each other. Also be the person that had not been loved by parents, birth time catchs up with famine, not can starved to death even if lucky, fasten extravagant hopes what feeling. Mutual Dou Ting is dim between our three, because they do not understand to also won't love, also do not have church I. Also do not have church I..
Accordingly, he is a bit clammy when be immersed in feeling, be swayed by considerations of gain and loss, was far from affinity finally, how to because do not know completely,express love.
Face the curse of parental love story,
A lot of children plaint, if they love each other good,
Not, even if, the look that I had seen they love each other is good...
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