Everybody thinks plain sailing in life journey, for instance gold is short of, harmonious, healthy long life waits the family a moment, but thing of what one is particularly good at of very rare person flexibly.
A lot of people believe the existence of the destiny, people often also says I am lucky bad, someone is very blessed etc. So does the blessing in life carry after all from why and come? Can be the person's destiny changed again?
Old people loves to tell " heart of accumulate virtue caustic " , this word is very right, chinese traditional culture is broad and profound be full of wisdom. The high position and great wealth is not to contend for those who come, accumulate virtue comes. The person has how many mind, have how many good fortune, without heart must not, break heart come loose.
I ever saw a report on newspaper, those who tell is the life of millions upon millions plute of a Hong Kong. Before saying he did not go to Hong Kong, beggar of several years was done in country when ten years old. Perhaps this paragraph of experience makes he became to have the benevolence, person that sympathizes with a heart very much.
He says: Be an upright person must not hit a person when he is down, when socially, the person all round oneself slip up or unjust when, should hold benevolence in the arms, sympathize with a heart, the ability that exhausts oneself goes helping, even if helpless if also wanting say a few words to comfort, cannot jest, cannot harm a someone with evil-minded word more. Because be met in that way,bring to oneself ill-fated.
because have this benevolence, so his ability from open hard work, small store, accomplished landed magnate all the time, lived nonagenarian, a few children are very very filial also, kind-hearted.
Fanzhong of photograph of name of face of the Song Dynasty wides, one's previous experience is poor, youthful when very poor, he is determined to be like in the future can stand out, should relieve surely poor person.
Became later prime minister in feudal China, take Feng Lu buy justice cropland, deal out poverty does not have the person cultivation of cropland. Still offer dietary, dress to them, always have marriage funeral marriage, still take cash subsidy them. Fed more than 300 villagers with respect to such his income with one person.
Bought one place house in Suzhou once, a geomantic gentleman is complimentary this house is geomantic and famous, offspring gives a magnifico surely. Fan Zhongyan contributed this house immediately however come out, change a school. Because he thinks, the descendants that lets Suzhou city common people can stand out, compared with alone enjoy a happy life, not better?
Common saying says: Rich do not cross 3 generation, but model family name is familial flourishing however 800 years! Fanzhong wides 4 sons Dou Decai has both, became prime minister in feudal China and magnifico. The offspring of model home arrives all the time at the beginning of the Republic of China year do not decline. Its recipe depends on model home descendants forgetting " the care below a priori and care, what will fall the day after tomorrow is happy and happy " and " accumulate virtue do good works " ancestor example.
" Zhouyi " on say: "The home that accumulates be apt to needs superabundant celebrate " , means says the other people of do good works has a favour to waiting with respect to regular meeting. How does the blessing carry of visible life come? Blessing carry is to repair come, only ability of accumulate virtue do good works changes a destiny.
If we think what initiate happiness for oneself and family to will come, that does to be the others consider, person that has benevolence!
The fokelore of Chinese ancient time, a day this when spend off year every year, kitchen god should go up to the sky, and the New Year's Eve is kitchen god this day the day that comes back from the sky, because this folk wants kitchen god of hold a memorial ceremony for. Place of kitchen god God wants to do, it is Xiang Tiandi report the desert of good and evil of this other people. If accumulate the other people of heart do good works, god will make his gradually flourishing; If do evil someone, god will make its gradually decline.
" the analects of confucius " in have a paragraph of such characters, merchant of offspring of the nobility asks: "With its fawn on at abstruse, ning Mei Yu Zao. What is meant by also? " can see from this one chapters, in year period, folk had the custom that pleases kitchen god. But to Wang Sun merchant be asked, confucius gave flat answer, child say: "Otherwise, the Yu Tian that obtain a blame, ask earnestly without place also. " if be of do evil, had obtained a blame Yu Tian, pray seeking good fortune also do not have good.
I ever was read " father " , read " weather channel is not had close, constant with charitable person " when, very be sincerely convinced. Go up to the sky and do not have partial heart, just cherish the person of open-armed do good works, the person of do good works, the favor that is sure to get God and. Alleged from Tian Youzhi, benefit of auspicious all without exception.
So the Buddhist advocates punitive justice say. Do not tell the person of cause and effect, heart constant deserted, think do evil do not get disaster, do be apt to not to get happiness. Because of this cause, be apt to is about to be, evil criterion from time to time does it.
Know the person of punitive justice, the heart often is enriched, can advance gradually ground is self-denying break evil reach diligent Li Xiushan. Accumulate the person of be apt to, later ages of a future life will get blessing signs up for; And do evil person, the future world will get suffering.
Besides, the blessing heart of the person of do good works reachs the disaster disaster of the person of do evil, also can affect their respective descendants. No less than " Zhouyi " in be said: "Accumulate the home of be apt to, surely superabundant celebrate; Accumulate not good at home, have aftermath surely " .