A lot of darling love to take a hand very much in the process that grow, and be a certain phase of a period, normally parents can consider as very sordid, can try to prevent, but do not know a reason commonly.
Because darling arrived,actually darling takes a hand is a period is called " buccal desire period " , buccal desire period those who point to is infant period is in a kind complete not free-standing condition, depend on a mother or other the person that foster lives, the mouth is the center of the center that the infant lives and interest. Sucking the breast is to use an opening, when hunger is uncomfortable perhaps, cry for with the mouth; When annoying, bite maternal tit with the mouth, catch a thing to be gone to a place of strategic importance in the mouth, the only that this is him knows a method. The hand that the will all thing with can so natural darling fills in in past mouth and continues to eat oneself discovered with mouth hand then continues to explore the reason of wider world with the hand namely.
So since this is a science,grow to be able to have what safety hidden trouble via level surely. Actually the existence of this safe hidden trouble depends on guardian completely is the wholesome circumstance that how goes keeping baby, for instance a lot of baby like when to catch a thing, go catching clay and so on even, catch next go the hand a place of strategic importance in the mouth, such affirmation are put in safe hidden trouble. If want to prevent darling to eat a hand to appear similar safe hidden danger, can prevent from the following respects:
1. is talked when, the wet paper towel that prepares clean at any time is beside darling, be in especially when going out, assure wholesome condition very hard, need the meritorious service of towel of wet paper of have the aid of more. Often use the both hands of darling of rub-up of wet paper towel, after perhaps be being brushed reoccupy a few water is rinsed clean wipe finally, although darling takes a hand,also not be afraid of those who have bacterial and so on to run into abdomen so in.
2. darling buys a thing that can be put in the mouth to bite, have the aid of this thing is forging not only hand and also can help buccal desire period very good transition.
3. darling appears this buccal desire period when behaving again the toy augment darling a few, attention a little move arrives on other toy body, the curiosity of such darling adversary is done not have so big, can from go other external more joy are found on toy body.
4. fruit darling takes a hand not only, see what eats what however, the wholesome degree of the thing that that assures to these are put easily in the mouth to bite with respect to need, if cannot make sure that makes them much eat as far as possible,order eatable thing, cut the fruit after can eat a few food for instance take baby, can play not only, still can eat.
Finally, every darling can experience this period, the parent can give commonly check, but action of basic that's all right, so the parent wants those who grow to understand to this is surely classics phase, want correct science only try to guide, can help darling transfer quickly next period. No matter be,go up from mentally or body, need to give the child a few conciliation and care more, hold in the arms more for instance hold in the arms, on the body that touchs massage baby more after bathing to the child, the other side that allows them to pass them gradually goes feeling this world, and gradually rise independently, break away from the dependence to the mother's body. Buccal desire period interim good darling mentally won't be put in a few hidden trouble, for instance a lot of children did not get very good conciliation in this period, can appear the psychology that safety of a few lack feels, this in growing, also can behave comparison after be brought up is apparent.
