The last few years, when the men and women is choosing association target, already very few the age this element considers to go in, difference of the sort of age of male and female differs huge husband and wife two increasing, also received the blessing of increasing person, a lot of people can't help giving out plaint: It is good that two people love each other, the age is not a distance!
Be such? When consideration marriage loves an important matter, the difference of the age has lost test value really, negligible not plan?
I think those who say is, have this kind of idea you are really off base, the difference of the age can be a when affect our matrimony main index.
He Xuan is my college fellow student, go in the marriage that just failed from a paragraph recently, and the inducement of the divorce is " sister younger brother is loved " all sorts of contradictory concentration that bring about erupt.
01
He Xuan fastens the family's child namely as a child, not only achievement is outstanding, it is always follow sb's advice more to parental word, if not be to meet Wang Kai, the university wants 4 years to be missed for nothing, the flavor that never experiences love in the university.
Big quarto learns that year, she what had begun a field trip needs to answer the school to submit relevant data because of reason, did not become want to be pulled by the counsellor however see the New Year in, it is feel embarrassed face, can on toughen one's scalp-brace oneself, be in this day namely, she encountered Wang Kai, with his feel like old friends at the first meeting, dropped quickly to love a river, two people are sweet dirt grime ground mentioned love.
After the exercitation ends, a big culture medium company of Beijing is cast to her came olive, high pay invites her to work, but, the be willing to part with or use of He Xuan where in love casts Wang Kai, excuse oneself from, returned the city that the university is in, work to be accompanied at the same time at the same time read.
What she thinks is, when Wang Kai graduated, two people go together on north wide go hitting go all out, go realizing a dream, two people are giving aid to advancement always compares a person alone start off is ambitious.
02
After 4 years, during Wang Kai graduates, he Xuan discusses the place to go after the job with him, go after all when which city develops, she just knows, original Home Wang Kai returns pretty to have money unexpectedly, the job also has helped him had searched.
Do not have method, he Xuan is obliged to put down his dream, follow Wang Kai went his home town, before long, they married.
After marrying, he Xuan and Wang Kai began the life that a very short time gets along, grow more as the time that get along, exposed problem is more also, cook in who for instance cook food on this, wang Kai none of concede think, he Xuan is bigger than oneself, taking care of his is the thing of perfectly justified, because this won't take grip, the word that joins a care won't say.
Again for example, the Wang Kai that youthful vital energy fills calculates after marrying, there also were not domestic idea and responsibility idea, after next ends, go out with a few oneself a gang of scoundries directly idle away in seeking pleasure, won't care about He Xuan's mood at all.
Fortunately, wang Kai's mom still compares reasonable, call He Xuan to show sympathy more all the time, excuse more below, oneself son is young still, not sensible, it pass a few years again is good to pass a few years again, etc gave birth to the child to become dad matured. Bunny still bites a person urgently, be what is more,the rather that be real person? These year come, if not be Wang Kai,mom is persuaded with her all the time, she is early divorced.
Perhaps, say like place of Wang Kai's mom really, had the child, good, the child has really let babyish male the function that becomes mature.
But factual proof, she is too innocent still.
After giving birth to the child, wang Kai is that Wang Kai as before, never had changed fraction, do not understand feel distressed person, babyish, manage place ought to, play to go out, link child disease also is be indifferent to sth, still be in fast 1 year old, adopt the number of child, a hand can be counted come over.
Marriage of type of this kind of bereft of one's spouse does not want, when He Xuan puts forward to divorce, wang Kai wants to also did not want to agree, "If not be to feel your age is older than me, sensible, can take care of me, at the outset who can marry with you, our home condition is so good, you even do sth over and over again, it is the body does not tell good fortune in blessing really! ! Don't you look in the mirror? Look at look at oneself experienced what appearance, dare still mention a divorce? Dare still mention a divorce??
"Why not dare, be become by your humiliate such, the meal of your home I am also eat not to rise again! The meal of your home I am also eat not to rise again!!
such, this paragraph of marriage lasted 2 years merely, scold in stop abruptly in sound, fall next heavy curtain, a wrong choice, the youth that lets oneself fed a dog.
03
Those who had attended biology class know, the woman compares man precocity inherently, than the man of bright logic want early, also because such, look for a more elderly than oneself mature male talented person to obtain happiness more easily.
Common saying says, "Female big 3, hold gold in the arms to get " , prove the woman compares the profit of male National People's Congress, but this is to stand on the man's angle to say nevertheless, such happiness is to build nevertheless the tolerance in the woman and pay over.
Believe to wanted to ask again, all " is sister younger brother loved " can you get die a natural death?
Not, either, always do not have absolutely, but cannot leave us to be opposite acuity of this paragraph of emotive and rational analysis.
If age of a man is smaller than you, but ponder over means, work means has the maturity that surmounted age and sedate, that still is worth entrust quite, very easy also happiness.
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