Be in China nowadays, it is city or country no matter, the scene that the old person looks after children everywhere is visible, and be accustomed to sth.
However small make up during Japan studies abroad, be stupefied on the street is to see do not wear the combination of so many old person and child. Or is the mother that brings 34 children to go out at the same time, or is to dress up meticulously the old grandma that comes out to drink afternoon tea.
How is the mom that always hears of Japan like He Jiang big, one is carried on the back before the body for instance, left hand pulls, the right hand still is pushing a pram at the same time, it is fierce really! Why can be they accomplished such, what does old people of Japan work?
young father and mother of Japan have time and energy to look after children more, do not need an old person to help? About this phenomenon, small make up think to basically have the following reason.
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Ideal problem and independent consciousness
Be in China, help looked after children to be become it seems that " main way " , alleged " raise prevent old " , or with this rich old age lives. Also there is no lack of the youth thinks the old person will help is of course. And old people is to live in filial home more, be like fruit children not to let be censured easily still is " disobedient " expression.
Japanese is taught as a child " cannot give others incommode " , and the education that values independent ability. From on nursery school begins, the parent and school exercise the child to go out alone of purpose, come home alone.
Because there also is such idea between this family, have the consciousness of mutual independence. "Because he already was,have enough and independent capacity ' social person ' , also not be willing to live according to monkshood schoolgirl after olden namely so " , this also is brought about appeared nowadays a lot of rank an old person alone.
The ceaseless construction plus social security system and establishment of provide for the aged and perfect, also do not need gradually " raise prevent old " idea.
The mind that has major protects personnel to take care of, the provide for the aged that has a government is accessorial, have good medical treatment service, community justice labour is waited a moment, can let an old person fitly " do not disturb " filial life. Because the old person of this Japan is OK,oneself enjoy the senile life after retiring well, pursue the thing that oneself have deep love for, pay attention to the promotion of individual life character more.
Go up at sending the child relatively interest class, japanese old person is more zealous sign up for interest class to oneself.
Probably also because such, the close situation that sees him some day in us is like more " thin " .
2
Powerful housewife group
In Japanese, housewife be called " advocate " . As opposite as professional female, it is to point to did not go out obtain employment, hold income of family of housework, management and Yo in order to hold technically wait for the group that is a center.
Up-to-date, also have the family that mentions Japan, namely " male advocate outside, female advocate inside " , " be versed in firewood a group of things with common features and housewife " the impression of first impressions are strongest, form a kind " housewife culture " . Person of Japanese female majority is right " housewife " should make a career, all matters is met very on heart. Come so, even if time energy is finite,also can use up can the ground goes taking care of the child.
Besides do chore, do delicate dish to taste, do receive arrange, besides the education that values pair of children, the Life Style that conditional nowadays family is pursuit tall character and morals more (the household style that for instance MUJI tastes without Yin Liang) . Even if giving birth to darling also is modern hot Mom, spend the time vivid and dramatic, really live in instantly, happy amid.
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Opposite Yo friendly institution and social environment
Of social class of the rise as proportion of students entering a schools of a higher grade of Japanese female university, female rise, " law of equal opportunity of service of male and female " amend etc, from go up century since 80 time, the female begins to move toward a society in succession, step duty field. But stem from economic reason to wait, many professional females also choose to continue to work after bear earn milk powder money, "Family of husband and wife both at work " the amount begins to rise sharply.
How does the child do?
Busy young father and mother begin to deliver the view to the child-care centre, it is in Japanese " child care " .
As the growth of demand, the state that Japanese child-care centre also appeared to demand exceeds supply in recent years, the capital that is a center with Tokyo especially encircles an area. The government also has answered measure in recent years, increase for instance hold in the palm the amount of establishment (0 years old of children that arrive 3 years old but of entrust the sort of) , the maternity leave Yo that perfects mother of welfare of child care person, lengthen false, husband also rests together maternity leave is waited a moment.
The child-care centre with the largest scale inside the Japan before Feng Tian Motor Corporation still proposed item oneself this year " car forest " , those who be is to let employee come true " working Yo neither by accident " .
Hold in the palm except governmental approbatory beyond the orgnaization, also have private child-care centre. What a hour of 1000 yen still set inside general merchandise inn follow to be held in the palm temporarily in field of a few ski, golf field establishment, will answer nervous now hold in the palm demand.
Look after children to mom besides the problem that go out. Take especially had not gone up elementary school or did not go up the small north of nursery school is nose people, how should darling drink a grandma suddenly to do? Should change diaper how to do? These need not worry in Japan.
The toilet with all ready establishment
The communal toilet of almost all bazaar sets a baby
Children closet, specially key is low to the height that suits children
Mother baby room
Even some men's lavatory also set a baby, convenient zone the toilet on the father that darling goes out. This also is a huge that human nature of Japanese public facilities changes is reflected.
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Core family is changed with population little child change aged
"Core is familial " it is Japanese vocabulary, call in Japanese " the nucleus is familial " . The little family that couple and children constitute for meaning.
By " core " set out, other domestic mode are by this core outspread and come out.
Going up century 70 time, three for generations live together still is common, look " cherry small a round mass of food " medium family knows, this also is nowadays the domestic mode of be in the majority of Chinese city district.
Of domestic mode change quickly going up century 60 time. Take space of individual privacy, individual seriously more and more, the young couple that seeks freedom does not want to be manacled to wait for a reason, the nucleus of 2 for generations is familial predominate.
See what 90 time publish settle on century " crayon is small new " , they began not to live together with the old person. Can saying is core familial one when change symbolizes.
Comprise core familial below the combined influence that changes inside, the government changes a society for corresponding advanced age, besides perfect beadhouse, provide for the aged interpose protects establishment and service besides, it is defer more emeritus time, encourage an old person to go out work (so Japanese taxi driver is person of 559 years old mostly) .
But demand exceeds supply euqally as a result of beadhouse and child-care centre, charge also does not poor, data shows among them 6 be in the home to pass together into old person or choice and husband or wife, if just drive crane celestial being first among them, not fathomless also why very much now rank an old person alone.
Integrated above, be in Japan, the old person helps look after children not only not be the mainstream, old people worries about even oneself life.
The word outside a problem: Small make up Japanese old person discovered when the data ransacks on the net to the view that look after children. (the picture comes from website of NEWS24 of day テ レ )
"Play together feel the child is very lovely, but also feel physical strength is not raised " (70 acting females)
"Although very happy, but exceeded 5 days with respect to scrape up a lot of exhaustion " (60 acting men)
"Give (the child) loosened when parents at a heat " (50 acting men)
Change diaper, nurse, accompany play, which take time is arduous, puerpera age also rises nowadays, grandparent is more senile also, the person that states all of body and mind is exhausted is very much.
The basis is right with grandson the investigation of the grandparent that generation lives together, [To the child's parents, and had had dissatisfaction to the child] this problem, the grandparent of 64.6% replied " have " . Although different house also has 3,had had dissatisfaction into grandparent.
The ground that occupies the first high is " the condition that does not experience the child acknowledgment to parents " . As the child, be the affection that should hold acknowledgment originally, also be not careful probably too acted like a spoiled child too.
Still grandparent thinks the child is in obviously native place, however what also not (for grandparent) do. The NPO legal person that support separates Dai Yoer " Yo て ? ン of ニ ッ ポ " director marvellous Tian Mingzi thinks, the child can say to grandparent " tired " , give next beat beat a shoulder ah of massage what, when grandparent spent money for you, perhaps should remember returning. It is very important to master among them balance.
Look small make up those who feel Japanese old person is not to help you look after children in vain really. (surround laugh)
Also explain they take seriously very much " acknowledgment " expression, also or the domestic view that this is them. (think) how do you look.
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" new Japan society " press of Beijing University of Zuo static chief editor
" Japanese society -- structural character and transitional contrail " Li Guoqing compiles higher education press
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