Single close mother is to point to the child to be brought up independently by mom only, no matter be the sort of case and bring about turn sheet into close mom, it is hard to single close mother. Unlike the clue in the film, they not only should assume the responsibility that raises the child independently, and bear even the pressure that environment place gives.
1. nature field
The child with grown front courtyard of odd relatives by marriage is shown more dissocial, suspicious, sensitive, self-abased wait for disposition tendency, crime rate is to be as high as 40% more. Mom should notice to undertake communicate and be communicationed with the child more, take the need of child affection respect seriously, provide thought education to the child more.
2. psychology respect
Report of a concerned research makes clear: The children of front courtyard of odd relatives by marriage that exceeds half the number exists in mood and affection respect problem, expression is depressed few joyous, worry is heavy, irritate easily, with with age child concern is intense, abandonment even, produce the deviation of psychology and behavior. And lack safe sense very.
3. is brought up with educational field
The influence of this respect special extreme, female demand of two pairs of close mom of one part sheet is very high, severe teach excessive; One part sheet kisses mom to busy bread or devoid sense of responsibility, superintend not do one's best to children.
But the health that goes against the child grows.
1. does not want doting child
Kiss mom as sheet often more favorite child, whats depend on the child, satisfy all requirements of the child as far as possible. Actually such meetings bring about the child to be a center with ego everywhere, become selfish, peremptoriness and capricious " small Xiang Yu the Conqueror " , lack sympathizes with heart and sense of responsibility, do not know esteem another person, even the mom that if suffering fosters them,look down upon contains laborious.
2. should foster independent consciousness of the child
Most single close mother and child depend on each other, be opposite then the child is beyond the mark and doting. Actually this kind of practice can make the child lacks independent consciousness, once leave mom,do not know how to face the difficulty in the life and setback. So mom needs to unlock a hand, make the child independent assume a few things, foster his absolute idea to know.
3. is simple and crude not desirable
With special take care of and overprotection is contrary, some single close mother because the double pressure of the job and life, right kind is simple, tough, hit again easily scold again, make the child is whole days live in terrified and disturbed in, individual character development is depressed badly, form recreant, dissocial, stubborn, lack to wait for undesirable character from confidence. Single close mother is teaching child avoid by all means simple and crude, want to notice to guide correctly.
The force of 4. language is tremendous
Communicate more with the child, diction character will describe the child's feeling. Can let the child have the feeling that the heart is interlinked, also can encourage the child to express his feeling. Make kiss child better communication, can understand the feeling of the other side more.
Although single close mother is painstaking, but the advantage that also parents family is done not have. The educational means of a person stands fast easily, when two people are carried out jointly however opinion of hard to avoid is skimble-scamble. The communication that single close mother notices and keeps good between the child is communicated, the change of attentive and advertent child, solve the child's problem in time. Also can make the child healthy grow happily.
