1, on April 27, happen to grow up together on a bus that coulds there be then in Sichuan the man is cruel dozen young child incident: 7 years old big male child unmanned on the bus guard, male child station is on footpath, catching baluster with the hand, play a grown man on the side ceaselessly with the foot. Successive after a few take second place, male child act cites the dissatisfaction that caused this grown man, then this man demur does not say, stand up hold tight lives male child collar, behave its half sky, resemble throwing a thing next general, male child firm firm falls to go up.
2, in the village tens of car of a person of extraordinary powers by person cut, still was engraved on a car head that run quickly among them " bastard " , lu Hu was engraved on car head " 2B " , car advocate tone went taking monitoring after discovery, the result discovers " murderer " it is actually one male one female two 10 come year old the child! Car advocate the parent that found the child and teacher, arrive together repair a factory to hold a loss, because these cars are the car of a few about a hundred a person of extraordinary powers of 10 thousand, repairing charge also is to comparative not to poor. Original parent entered catastrophe without the child that realizes his, the amount that hears need is compensated for later immediately calm not know clearly, before numerous car advocate the face swung the child with respect to firm firm ground several a slap on the face.
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This kind " ursine child " incident, the view of netizens is lean to one side almost, became " ursine child " everybody calls hit situation. A lot of people are in comment: This! ; Owe education namely. . . . . . The person that has the child sees such comment hard to avoid will be sick, but the life is actual, impossible everybody can give you good-tempered, educational child nots allow easy.
1 [educational child wants before it is too late]Did not wait for the child to be brought up, the big family that lets this society will teach him for you.
Someone says Chinese child is be fed big, and foreign child is hunger is big.
Small make up had seen too much parent, especially grandfather grandmother, always worry about oneself child be on short commons, wish to have a meal for the child. Also father mother disrelishs him child to have a meal dirty bother again, see the child has a meal ham-handed, fed simply.
But, come so, we stripped not only the child ego exploration, fun that grow and takes food independently, also cannot develop their awe-stricken to alimental heart.
Small make up Ceng Zaiyi the parent group see, a few mom for the child how old should oneself wear what the dress contends for to cannot leave hand in.
A lot of feel the child is going up before the bottom class in a kindergarten, making themselves clad take is essential impracticable thing. And turtleneck unlined upper garment a kind of complex dress, ability begins to learn slowly after some children middle shift.
But actually two years old of much children can apparel simple clothings, he won't, because you do not wish,just let him attempt, let him err.
We always hope the child can respect parents and elder, but if you do the work of baby-sitter only every day, how can the child promote the heart of a respect?
The child that err in a low voice said to I am sorry one sentence, but another child still cries afflictively greatly.
At that time at the same time the parent did not work: "You a small rascal, bang up our home thing, compensate! Compensate!!
Another parent is unwilling also give the impression of weakness: "You are so fierce dry what, we said to I am sorry! We said to I am sorry!!
"Say to I am sorry useful! Can you teach the child! Can you teach the child!!
"Compensate with respect to compensate! Not be compensate does not rise, so fierce, do not have breeding! Do not have breeding!!
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The parent still is in be troubled by so that cannot leave hand in, but two children are taken early however by the teacher at the same time, with a giggle play.
When having, the thing between the child gives him child goes solving, this also is to exercise them human truck capacity once in a blue moon opportunity.
A research that is as long as 20 years makes clear haing Buddha university, the appearance that the child that loves to do chore follows not to love to do chore is compared, obtain employment rate is 15:1, income is higher than latter 20% , and marriage is happier.
Be in the United States, child of 45 years old is about to begin him society to arrange clothings, satchel, study washs dish, brush desk. And Chinese darling people went up elementary school still the meal comes dehisce, clothes will stretch one's hand. The article that the child that lets one year learns to arrange his is the thing that a lot of teachers headache.
Want the child to become elite, letting him do chore is indispensable; And everything of baby-sitter type does sth for sb model the parent, can destroy the child finally only.
Look after children once the public begin school that goes attending painterly class. A little boy of 45 years old took on the side. The teacher lets everybody fill scene, but to that child, it is not easy to fill scene, often draw go to the outside of line.
Although the child is drawn quite happily, but aside mom is urgent however bad,
"Baby, red is used if listening to mom good-looking. Red is used if listening to mom good-looking..
"You see you, draw again went to the outside! This place mom helps you draw. This place mom helps you draw..
It seems she wishs personally go into battle, side child gives a picture.
But this mom did not think of, while she does not let the child err, also let the child lose the chance that grow. If the process of child exploration is interrupted again and again, when parents is not had, do not engrave by the child to gesticulate, so the child forever cannot the ability that oneself master study.
Remember in one's childhood, the happiest days classeses are over namely that paragraph of road that come home. With young associate people the angle on meadow field plays, the Qu that catch Qu catchs grasshopper... after-thought rises now, this not only promotional I and young associate people friendship, also let me can be close to nature, exercise.
Why present child falls ill particularly easily, because they leave nature too far. It is curtilage every day in the home, face the forest of reinforced concrete, how can does health grow?
Have an opportunity, father mother is taking the child to act wildly more, let the child become the wild rose that blossoms in wild country!
Every time falls, every time errs is the opportunity that the child grows. Let him review him why to be met from which trip, let him learn how oneself stand up. So, the child just can know how to avoid to err, after ability can is brought up not Wei setback, can oneself stand up bravely.
Always help the child search excuse, let him give others responsibility shirk, he how Where is grow into useful timber?
But some moment, the child explores the curiosity of sealed world, heavier than a clean dress good is much. The clothes became dirty can wash, but confine the child's curiosity also cannot be redeemed again.
The child needs the intention, with the body, go exploring the world with the action, next he just can fall in love with this world, what be full of passion then is living!
Love him, be about to learn to let go, do not grow to go out in conservatory join extremely big tree, the child wants him to learn to face everything eventually!
